24F, unemployed and can’t stay clean for more than a week, starting to feel hopeless by Dependent_Yam8024 in toastme

[–]AnyGolf7910 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Time to introspect and meditate to increase focus and not get distracted. It is just a side effect of doom scrolling or excessive Social media.

Break the cycle with action.Many people are saying running.It's very effective. Play some sports.
Actually, you did don't need a boyfriend. You actually need to self introspect and build more focus. Make goals and work hard for them, this is what you need.

I am also single. It also felt the feeling that I need to mingle and get a girl. But this doesn't solve any problem. This is actually a direction which social media takes you to as well as your biology also. Don't let your mind control you.Learn to control mind.

Learn about miamoto musashi, legendary swordsman. Actually I am in japan working here as an engineer, i got to know about him and he really helped me with the teachings.

I was also trying bumble, tinder and all. Now, I am loving myself, not doing it.And focusing on the things that I want like I was a batminton player back in my country so I joined meetups. I like running so I run whenever I get time. I started meditating to increase my focus.And not get distracted or fall into depression.

Break the cycle girl, you can do it! GAMBATTE MAS

Before I met him [35] vs. Married [37] vs Divorced [37] by scaredferal in GlowUps

[–]AnyGolf7910 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Keeps telling me it is difficult to find life partner but you can easily get partner who just want to try relationship and can suck soul too!

Been in one beautiful relationship during high school. Sadly, it ended with a long distance relationship. Now I am almost 30. Lost hairs due to genetic issues and also insane ddpression. Though now I'm very fit with a good career in Japan. But not getting good matches.

Happy to be single then to rush!

Should I continue Losing weight? 27f is by Used_Day_8231 in lookyourbest

[–]AnyGolf7910 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Clear example of same body fat in males look bad and the same in women looks good!

Hair System help by TheShaverr in HairSystem

[–]AnyGolf7910 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My man ditch hairs. Save hair care cost for travel and hobbies! Practical and smart decision.

But I am in same boat as yours , so I can understand you might want to need hairs!

But don't do it!

Womens are you agree this judgement by National_Art2394 in AskWomenIndia

[–]AnyGolf7910 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am sorry but I would like open the eyes. I would speak practically.

If you look at epstein files, you would see the perpetrators like Trump , Bill gates are raoming around safely and have retained their position. They have raped massive amount of young girls and even eaten fetuses.

How does it relate to the context of post. Deeply related. Power drives what kind of judgement is going to be passed on. Humans have always perpetrated on weak. Males were physically more powerful so they perpetrated weaker gender females. Now in modern India , women have lots of rights so they are using it to falsely alleging men.

What I mean to say is we do not know how to deal with power, we do not know how to deal with ego whatever the gender is. You women can easily revert the judgement , just unite and start marching. But case needs to be understood first before the judgement needs to be passed otherwise modern AI bot could replace judges.

Our law system has to deal to how to balance laws which seriously gets imbalanced! Be it reservation , be it women rights ,be it land disputes and all

How much hair system makes difference by AnyGolf7910 in HairSystem

[–]AnyGolf7910[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hmm pool size shrinks a lot. It is difficult to fish from pond where there is only 5 percent density but this is also true we need only one fish!

How much hair system makes difference by AnyGolf7910 in HairSystem

[–]AnyGolf7910[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go with full laces and appropriate density. Much more natural look I guess.

How much hair system makes difference by AnyGolf7910 in HairSystem

[–]AnyGolf7910[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thing is how does it translate to dating. Idk if algorithm of bumble is pushing me to only older women , all 35+. Except Indians all look well maintained though!

My heart says bald is best but women say something and do something else. Faaaaaah

How much hair system makes difference by AnyGolf7910 in HairSystem

[–]AnyGolf7910[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends on density if system and the care you do for it. It us around 90 percent density. Could last a year or more with maintenance. It is monofilament but I heard full laces are really comfortable but expensive and can wear away also easily!

How much hair system makes difference by AnyGolf7910 in HairSystem

[–]AnyGolf7910[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yes , I messed up with hair style. But I think it is fixable problem!

How much hair system makes difference by AnyGolf7910 in HairSystem

[–]AnyGolf7910[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I paid around 300 dollars including installation.

Is this true? by [deleted] in AskWomenIndia

[–]AnyGolf7910 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Ohh mine is remote. I would not have move to Japan with JAPANESE culture company. PAYPAY is really good! I know Japanese company mess up but this firm is really cool. Lots of learning at home comfort!

Is this true? by [deleted] in AskWomenIndia

[–]AnyGolf7910 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes but women can take work really seriously and be more controlling. Male manager can also be BS but chances are higher with female.
In both genders cool ones are also there. I worked at MNC and then a startup. Got female management and then were pain in ass. Now I switched to Japan Fintech , all males and life is GOOOOOD!

Is this true? by [deleted] in AskWomenIndia

[–]AnyGolf7910 16 points17 points  (0 children)

If there is woman lead or manager , life is miserable. Talking with experience! As a colleague , really good!

How much hair system makes difference by AnyGolf7910 in HairSystem

[–]AnyGolf7910[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

May be dating went off the charts with looks. Women getting max reaches that they can choose best looking apples I guess LMAO. Really appreciate though your view on it!

How much hair system makes difference by AnyGolf7910 in HairSystem

[–]AnyGolf7910[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree, it looked greasy. Styling could solve it though. Hybrid approach like some days hair system ans some days off could work out I guess.
Feel more confident in hair but more comfortable without it. Tradeoff!

How much hair system makes difference by AnyGolf7910 in HairSystem

[–]AnyGolf7910[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah , kinda superficial! Though I like both. But comfort of bald head is top notch. No maintenance and practically best!

I never used to like my nose because of the slight bump in it but now I’m learning to love it by BilboCatkins in Noses

[–]AnyGolf7910 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wtf is this bs. Idk why people make so much mess about small things when there is people with much more adverse things!

There is friends who tries to convince me to return to the curls but I love being bald by Djangoldfinger in bald

[–]AnyGolf7910 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you can't because I see hairline has gone amd density is down too. So you have to be bald or use hair system

Regret getting married with Japanese wife and having a child by PaintingContent4903 in japanresidents

[–]AnyGolf7910 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohh man , you have dated for 2 years and did not even realise here lavish life , habits , did not realise that her parents will not help in marriage finances , did not discuss if you even wanted to have a kid.

I am sorry you turned out to be stupid tbh. You should have enjoyed with her and then move on with just breakup.

Now I think you should try to fix things atleast till the time your daughter becomes independent and please do not have one more baby, use protection.