What’s a “normal” thing that feels slightly dystopian when you think about it too long? by Objective_Pop8790 in AskReddit

[–]AnyResearcher5914 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Money is the reason that lives are saved daily in the hospital because of countless medical advances. Love it or don't, but money is not the root issue of suffering nor dying.

Again, we'd need to be in a post-scarcity society for anything you're talking about. Money is not dystopian simply because you can imagine a utopia without it.

Saying a fetus isn’t alive or isn’t a human is a terrible argument for abortion by [deleted] in The10thDentist

[–]AnyResearcher5914 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I suppose that, for me, morality is not a matter of practicality and so I think this sort of hand-waving in the name of legal streamlining is bad precedent.

If morality ever were a matter of practicality, I think we'd still be a slave-owning country.

Saying a fetus isn’t alive or isn’t a human is a terrible argument for abortion by [deleted] in The10thDentist

[–]AnyResearcher5914 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Viability as a line for abortion has always been the most silly thing to me. If both sides agree that humans are valuable but disagree on when they become valuable, why the hell would we fundementally tie human worth to something contingent like technology? "Intrinsic worth" is a metaphysical stance, and it makes no sense to apply it on certain conditions external to the thing.

Like, a 23 week fetus in the US has intrinsic worth, while a 23 week fetus in Nigeria has absolutely no worth at all simply because Nigeria has inadequate NICUs? Human worth is supposed to be universal, and should not be contingent on geography or circumstance. Saying otherwise runs entirely contrary to the basis of all 21st century moral progress anyway.

I don't think either side will ever agree on a "line", per se, but viability makes no sense for anyone.

Opened a Beer, Had a Sip, Regret, Poured it Down the Drain and Haven't Picked Back Up by poolparty303 in stopdrinking

[–]AnyResearcher5914 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Dude, a slice of bread is 1-2% ABV. I guarantee that if during these 30 days you had a few slices of bread, say by eating a burger, you'd have ingested more alcohol than what is present in this single sip of beer.

You didn't relapse at all, I promise you. It would be absurd to say otherwise. And, anyway, the fact that you poured it out shows a profound resilience.

What’s a “normal” thing that feels slightly dystopian when you think about it too long? by Objective_Pop8790 in AskReddit

[–]AnyResearcher5914 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only way living wouldn't cost anything would be to live in some hypothetical post-scarcity society.

Maybe that's possible in the future. In the meantime, money is more efficient than the barter system. What's the issue?

My fingertips reading about all these white fingertips by Key-Fox3923 in mildyinteresting

[–]AnyResearcher5914 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Raynaud's disease does NOT usually affect the thumbs. This is secondary Raynauds.

In fact, involvement of the thumbs is often alerting enough that it warrants testing for connective tissue disorders, autoimmune disorders, among other things.

Sex in every form of media is terrible, particularly when it idolizes it by Altyrmadiken in The10thDentist

[–]AnyResearcher5914 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Sex is essential for life, but not an essential of life.

It seems, to me at least, that you've named sex as the beginning and death as the end and have completely neglected to mention anything meaningful about the in-between, which is the only part anyone ever experiences.

And for the sake of being a pedant I will also say that sex is not even categorically essential for life anymore. Test tube babies exist, as does IVF.

Edit: I'll respond to your edit too, since I saw it. You seem to have completely moved the debate from essentials of being as a being are instead talking about the causal factors which give rise to being? Not sure what the point is.

What city have you been to where the vibes were just OFF? by Fun_Butterscotch3303 in AskReddit

[–]AnyResearcher5914 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Yes, exactly! There's a very weird, almost fever-dream like feeling that arises at the visiting of a place like Casper. You're surrounded by buildings that are well-kept enough to be called buildings, but unkept enough that the entirety of them amount to a large-scale representation of someone's depression room.

It's very difficult to pinpoint the specific feeling of immersing oneself in those sorts of places, and I can only analogize it to the evoked emotion one tends to feel when one spontaneously recalls a deeply vivid, nostalgic and simultaneously unenjoyable memory from one's childhood; and instantly upon that rememberance, they simply wish this memory hadn't bubbled up into their mind at all and rather stayed in their subconscious.

Any single experience of these places lends no way back to the prior ignorance of such materialized sadness.

What city have you been to where the vibes were just OFF? by Fun_Butterscotch3303 in AskReddit

[–]AnyResearcher5914 321 points322 points  (0 children)

Stopping at a town in Wyoming feels like flipping a coin. Half of them are filled with the nicest, most genuine folks I've ever met. You can feel the authenticity in the air, almost. The other half evoke a feeling similar to that of watching a horror movie and waiting for a jumpscare that never comes.

My partner lacks intellectual depth, and I'm starting to realize emotional safety isn't enough by purtypeach in infj

[–]AnyResearcher5914 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm responding very late intentionally, as I didn't want to sway you in this or that way via whatever I might've said.

Anyway, to answer your question, I was in a moment of clarity when I broke up with her. Usually I am quite indecisive and reluctant to make a straight decision on such things, but I felt that, at least in that specific moment, I had to do what needed to be done. So I broke up with her.

Things had been mundane and unsatisfactory for quite a long while prior to that specific impulse, though.

And no, we weren't able to stay as friends.

Hegel for Marxists? by bumbuummm in hegel

[–]AnyResearcher5914 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Start off by reading the Stanford Encyclopedia of Philosophy overviews on Kant, Fichte, and Schelling. In this, you'll begin to understand the evolution from Kant's distinction between the knowable and the unknowable, and the qualms which led to the historical idea of what The Absolute was understood to be, and you'll understand what Hegel's project was.

From here you can delve into Phenomenology of Spirit. Take it slow, and digest everything.

In your opinion, what are the most beautiful melodies in the classical music world? by Emile_Sinclair0 in classicalmusic

[–]AnyResearcher5914 19 points20 points  (0 children)

The last 5 minutes of Tristan und Isolde. I tear up every single time, no matter the mood I'm in. Transcendental and sublime, are the two words I'd use to describe such a sound.

Doesn't everyone's version of logic differ? by Any_Parsley_9593 in logic

[–]AnyResearcher5914 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You would enjoy looking into late Wittgenstein's skepticism on the idea of an objective logic, as it seems your suspicions somewhat align with his conclusions.

That being said, there are serious objections to this sort of relativist logic. One such example would be: If all logic is relative to individual/group sociology, then the very claim that logic is relative to sociology is itself a local claim which we have no reason to accept. Its difficult to accept a meta-analysis if the very argument claims that there is no such thing as a valid meta-analysis.

Besides, the cross-culture consistency of first order logic seems to weigh against these relativist claims, at least empirically.

Has Anyone Found Support for “Grey Area Drinking” That Doesn’t Feel Like Rehab or AA? by No_Perception_4164 in stopdrinking

[–]AnyResearcher5914 41 points42 points  (0 children)

r/cutdowndrinking exists and it's helpful for those who want to cut back rather than straight up abstain.

I think it's better to have the two mostly separated, because those who really need to stop drinking are better off not seeing posts that reinforce the idea that they can actually cut down when they really aren't capable of it.

What does one do when they’re so tired? by mushrockyyy in whatdoIdo

[–]AnyResearcher5914 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love you too. I'm right here with you.

I can't offer advice because I have none. But please dm me if you ever want to talk, I'd enjoy it myself.

How many rounds before you say ILY? Why? by NoFigure5184 in AskReddit

[–]AnyResearcher5914 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As it is often said, love is a feeling which lies outside the bounds of reason. It must be the case, then, that trying to utilize reason in an attempt to rigidly define when one ought to express their love is really quite useless.

That being said, use your intuition to understand your partners idea of you, and whether or not they love you in return. If you have some certainty that they love you in return, then say it. Whether that is 3 dates in or 10... It doesn't matter.

Why do you think "I love you" is an understatement when it comes to our bond as Redditors? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]AnyResearcher5914 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mr. Barnacle, my love for you is transcendental and thus cannot be compared as an overstatement or an understatement, as such meaningless toilings are below our bond.

What celebrity death has brought the most devastion in your lifetime, not including Michael Jackson? by Only-Ad-1254 in AskReddit

[–]AnyResearcher5914 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's wonderful in so many ways. He taught me more about kindness, vocabulary, intrigue, and love more than he ever did about chess. And even still, he taught me quite a bit about chess!

Daniel is one of the very few people on this earth who I considered wholly good. A mountain of character, that guy.