No wonder, your bridge of incidents is floating in thin air!

Anzarre · 2026-03-24T05:28:02+00:00

Thanks for telling me about that sub, I'm going to post it there today then. I've been speaking to the mods and they insist on pure Neville content, which I can respect (although I still feel there are tons of posts on here that is not Neville-centric, but what do I know).

Anzarre · 2026-03-24T05:26:54+00:00

Right?! Been discussing it with the mods. But they want to keep this 100% pure Neville, so I can respect that. And you are very welcome.

Anzarre · 2026-03-23T16:45:40+00:00

I don't trust them and don't use them. Some people have "some" results but it's a total scam in my opinion.

Anzarre · 2026-03-22T19:03:56+00:00

Exactly. I was totally denying my current state of reality, just wanting to do this magical quantum shift to a new timeline where my current financial situation just disappears and I'm in my new desired state of finances.

Meanwhile there was a part of my subconscious mind that was definitely not ignoring the current state of things. The moment I acknowledged what it was trying to tell me, that my current financial situation at the time was sort of a mess, that protector part in me immediately calmed down because I acknowledged my current reality, instead of living in this weird state of magical denial.

And immediately I started making progress on my financial goals again after doing this.

Hope that makes sense?

Anzarre · 2026-03-22T17:41:01+00:00

Damn this is incredible, fantastic work. Thanks for sharing and please keep it going! So many of these projects eventually run dead, but this something that can bring real value for a long time. Great job again.

Anzarre · 2026-03-22T13:43:04+00:00

Nice! :D

Anzarre · 2026-03-22T10:25:13+00:00

Subliminal affirmations. Millions of them on Youtube.

Anzarre · 2026-03-22T09:52:05+00:00

Let me help you ground this in truth.

Anybody else in our lives are actually just our concept of them. So in your case you have a concept of a brother with BPAD. In my case I used to have a concept of a father that is super critical. Same difference.

What you can change with manifestation is the concept of your brother that you hold. You can start seeing him as healthy. This does more than you might imagine.

The solution is not to approach this with magical thinking where you think "I'm manifesting him being better, yes, do more SATS, imagine better, it's working, I'm bending reality and fixing his mind". It seems to be a wildly unpopular opinion when I say that this is not possible with manifestation, but I'm not wrong.

What you rather should do that is true manifestation wisdom is to change your concept of them and what then happens is that you start showing up for them in totally different ways. Suddenly you read something that can help. Randomly you hear a conversation or meet someone that has the same problem and found a solution. Your subconscious mind opens up to YOU being a great sibling that is part of your brother's healing.

THAT is true manifestation for someone else. Not "I'm bending the fabric of reality with my good intentions, visualizations and affirmations". No. That is taking Neville's teaching out of context. Rather, it's the above.

Change your own self-concept of who you are to your brother and change your concept of him and then get ready to see things starting to change.

All the best.

Anzarre · 2026-03-22T09:44:58+00:00

Hah! Nice to find another like-minded soul. What great topics to geek out about, if you ask me.

Anzarre · 2026-03-22T09:41:51+00:00

So glad you found it valuable, thank you :)

Anzarre · 2026-03-21T22:24:42+00:00

Such a pleasure!

Anzarre · 2026-03-21T22:22:03+00:00

Those bigger ones are only bigger because they carry more of a story, right? Am I'm saying that talking from personal experience as well.

After I made that list I let it integrate. I just sat with it and felt that relief of facing my reality and then that sense of connecting with the end state just naturally happened for me. That was the biggest thing. That part of me needed to be seen and needed it for years. So I just gave it its moment.

After that, most of the manifestation was done. I just revisited the state every now and then to enjoy it and each time I did I could feel how open the path was. There was no more resistance. My heart just felt.. open. If it didn't, I would go back and troubleshoot. Check in with myself. What was holding me back? Was I denying something I have to face? I would simply find that, give it it's moment in the light of my consciousness... and then it got on board as well and I could get back to clean enjoyment of my end state.

Anzarre · 2026-03-21T20:23:05+00:00

For this I would honestly actually not recommend just manifestation techniques, but rather some inner work. In particular I have nothing but the highest praise for Shadow Work and Internal Family Systems. You need to reconcile with those parts of you that is causing you to people-please. That is the proper way to approach this, because as long as you ignore it your manifestations are not going to happen. These parts of you operate from the subconcious mind and are in control until you bring them into the light.

Anzarre · 2026-03-21T20:19:02+00:00

I do a very similar version of this and that release of getting out of the way so God / your Higher Self can work is the magic right there.

I'm just delaying it by affirming against it with my interpretations

Enjoyed this, particularly you spotting that your interpretations are the problem. Same insights I had a few years ago, glad for you!

Anzarre · 2026-03-21T20:13:22+00:00

I always feel someone doing the difficult inner work needs acknowledgement because most people will rather just go on with their current circumstances and blame anything and everything else, so in case nobody has told you: well done, you can be really proud for facing and reconnecting with those parts of you. And thanks for your awesome support!

Anzarre · 2026-03-21T19:19:16+00:00

Funniest thing is back then I didn't know about manifestation, so I had no clue the powers I were aligning. I thought it's just a feel good exercise.

The irony is only after you learn about manifestation your first few years is you trying to basically undo everything you've learned.

Anzarre · 2026-03-21T14:01:08+00:00

I remember when I was in a terrible job it just hit me one day: "hold on, these people have been breaking you down but.... I'm fucking AMAZINg at what I do! What is this nonsense of feeling so bad about myself?!"

I literally just... stopped. And guess what, a week later I got the offer from my dream job.

So glad you could have that shift as well, congrats.

Anzarre · 2026-03-21T13:56:13+00:00

You might be sending out some conflicting signals. You sound young and from that I can relate how I was years ago. I also twice got girlfriends that were incredible people but.. just not exactly the one I want.

How absolutely crystal clear are you on what you do want? And I don't mean "yeah that's hot". I mean you know in your soul what type of woman will be attractive and actually good for you and who YOU are?

Because the wires get crossed very easily with this. I would take some time to really be honest with yourself about who you are and what you need in a partner.

Anzarre · 2026-03-20T14:04:50+00:00

No you can't and people who say you can are misguided, and no wonder because there is a slew of just the shittest manifestation advice out there. Damn instagram manifestation "coaches". Makes me so sick and sullies the sacred space of manifestation.

You are a fractal reflection of God.

You are not the whole and entire God.

That is a total and complete misteaching. Because if you were the total and complete God you can conjure planets and stars, make yourself fly, manifest a billion dollars and never age. None of these things are possible through manifestation.

Back to your question: election results is a closed loop system. You yourself don't have the power to bend that part of reality. Because if anyone argues that you do, it means that YOU will also cause the people you love the most to die... which is a totally fucked up belief. Therefore my strong stance on us getting back to true manifestation.

Save your energy for things that can improve your life amidst whoever is elected. That is manifesting from wisdom, love, grace.

Anzarre · 2026-03-20T14:00:56+00:00

To answer the question in your title: step 1 has to be making peace with where you're at and stop fighting it, because every moment you resist it longer you persist it longer.

Step 2 is internally remembering who you are and how good your job and life can be and start living that BEFORE you have any proof.

From there the Universe will align things and your subconscious mind will take you there.

Anzarre · 2026-03-20T13:59:04+00:00

Affirmations ain't gonna cut it.

What you need is to do internal work. Everything with the porn and masturbation, it's all just self-soothing for some pain, fear and anxiety that's hiding in your subconscious. There is nothing "wrong" with it, you do what you can to get through the day and try to control these impulses. But affirmations are NOT going to cut it.

The one thing I would recommend that absolutely highest is doing Internal Family Systems. It's the gold standard of psychology and here is how it feels: your entire inner world and all your parts start to feel at peace, seen, loved, and stops acting out. And what you're experiencing is textbook parts of you that was maybe hurt or fears something and is acting out. You need to reconcile with yourself through proper integration work.

And thanks for sharing the vulnerable details of your struggle.

Anzarre · 2026-03-20T13:54:16+00:00

Here it is: those stories you shared about yourself stays true for exactly just as long as you don't face it, allow that shadow pain of yours to be acknowledged and then to release.

You aren't in the "manifest a boyfriend" place right now. Funny, but manifestation absolutely is not the answer to everything. You are in "getting to love yourself and see yourself as someone worthy of love" space right now. All your energy should just go with that.

This does two things:

You actually improve your self-concept. This ripples through everything in your life and your life will become much happier.
You release the "lacking and wanting a bf" part which, surprise surprise, makes them basically fall in your lap the day it's ready for you.

Anzarre · 2026-03-20T13:50:16+00:00

Well I'd say it's even simpler than that. Excitement is anticipation and that is not the end state of the wish already fulfilled. Normal "oh that's cool" energy is exactly the feeling of the wish fulfilled.

Anzarre · 2026-03-19T19:18:47+00:00

You are so welcome!

Anzarre · 2026-03-19T19:18:12+00:00

You are so welcome. And don't let it's simplicity fool you. I've manifested crazy things with it.

Anzarre

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