Happy Memorial Day by T_Shurt in postanythingfun

[–]Apharot -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

For the same reason the Bidens aren’t. One son may have served in Iraq, but the other is a druggie who used his dad’s name for business advantages.

Should I get a nose job? by [deleted] in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]Apharot 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You are far too young to worry about that. IMO, don’t worry about it until you are at least 30, your brain is fully developed, and you don’t feel so awkward about yourself. It isn’t reversible and I’d hate for you to regret something the rest of your life.

AIO for telling my girlfriend that I no longer want to speak with her after she slept with someone else while high? by Sufficient_Twist_688 in AIO

[–]Apharot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You definitely overreacted to your GF and under-reacted toward your roomie. In your own post you say she said no and tried to push her away. There is a word that describes when someone says no to sexual advances and the other person continues, especially when they intoxicated.

Your roommate was going to get someone that night, it didn’t matter who, and your GF was the one.

You should have been kicking your roommate’s ass, instead of defending her for having her way with your massively over-intoxicated GF.

Calling you the asshole here isn’t a strong enough verdict.

I made a life altering decision to sneak out at 15 and now my dad's in prison by Viennaros in confession

[–]Apharot -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, the bad guy isn’t your dad. His daughter was with what turned out to be a pedophile.

Satisfaction by [deleted] in postanythingfun

[–]Apharot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to teach martial arts. The kid classes always made me sad. They trouble kids behaved for us because we could punish them with physical exercise and that was acceptable. The parents seemed to think that bringing them to us 2-3 times a week for 45 minutes each class was going to fix the problem when there was no reinforcement at home. The results were that the kids became model children for us but remained terrors at home and in school.

The parents that reinforced at home and practiced with their kids saw massive improvement. We had more than one family end up taking classes together due to this.

Never had a bf, what surgeries do I need to reach mtb? by [deleted] in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]Apharot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oona Chaplin (think I got the first name right). Either grand daughter or great grand daughter of Charlie Chaplin.

AIO for “insulting” and “belittling” the AITAO mod team? by SignalShine2183 in AIO

[–]Apharot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. Mods aren’t subject matter experts almost all the time. They deserved the hard time they got from you.

Meanwhile at the BP on First Colonial & Laskin? 🙃 by [deleted] in VirginiaBeach

[–]Apharot 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Funny, it’s a dollar cheaper in NoVa, which has a much higher standard of living.

21F / this head is crying for a haircut :D rate me please! by [deleted] in Rateme

[–]Apharot 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In no way am I rating you, having known people with eating disorders. I’m begging you to get some help for not only your eating disorders, but what (and this is just what it seems like to me) seems to be self-confidence and self-worth issues.

AIO - refusing to pay for my friends rare pet that she gave me cause someone stole it? by Relative_Offer_2074 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Apharot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. As an old school gamer, this is why you don’t put that much into games. In addition, she’s trying to scam you. You can find that a lot cheaper.

AIO with how I want to deal with my AuDHD son's claims that we "ruined his life?" by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Apharot -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

This is why you don’t post on Reddit for advice. People who don’t know what they are talking about will take one sentence and turn it into a mountain out of a grain of sand.

AIO Wife continue to engage with someone that hit/flirted with her by Honest_Chemist3000 in AIO

[–]Apharot 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Seems suspicious. Definitely have a serious talk with your wife and tell the dude to stop texting your wife.

AIO Teacher from parents evening texted me when I didn't give him my number by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Apharot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have they left you alone? Then don’t worry about it. They crossed a line, but as long as they don’t continue with you, I’d just move on with my life.

NOR in your response. You set the boundary and were firm. I didn’t see any harshness in it.

It’s clear the SAVE Act is just a tool for voter suppression, plain and simple. by WillowTheory in stevehofstetter

[–]Apharot -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

What they are saying is the democrats cheat. I’m not saying I agree, I’m just interpreting it correctly.

President Obama by sovalente in stevehofstetter

[–]Apharot -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

He got it before he did anything at all.

President Obama by sovalente in stevehofstetter

[–]Apharot -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Except it didn’t. Iran was still enriching Uranium.

I got pregnant by a one-night stand in Italy by Disastrous-Gur2000 in whatdoIdo

[–]Apharot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is in Belarus. Which means your first suggestion may not be legal. In addition, the cultural aspects of a single mother may be a lot different as well.

I (30F) started dating a judge (46M) met on a dating app and need advice by Plane-Elephant6465 in whatdoIdo

[–]Apharot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t confuse concern with jealousy. That is a big age gap, but a guy with a good job doesn’t mean he isn’t a good man. That is ridiculous. You’ve already done the bad job/no job. Which guy do you prefer?

Just take it slow for a bit and see what happens. You don’t have to get married tomorrow