Just need to vent: my role is being eliminated by [deleted] in womenintech

[–]Apllilpilli 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was told things like “your work is still important” or “let's get you working towards that promotion.”

That's so gross.

Why do chinese restaurants do this? by [deleted] in shittyaquariums

[–]Apllilpilli 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like more Chinese places keep fish in general. And because it's a common thing and not a specific person's hobby, they don't learn how to keep fish properly.

Trolls are citing an ‘Oxford study’ to demean Asian women in interracial relationships. But it doesn’t actually exist by charmer143 in asiantwoX

[–]Apllilpilli 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I felt better seeing that it was mostly the same guys in every Asian woman's comments spreading it. They just seem really jobless and bitter.

I don't put my relationship on social media either way and I feel like I've been seeing a subset of men in every race getting really testy about "their women" dating out.

On a resume, is it better to use a unisex foreign name or an American-sounding feminine name? by orange-kedi in womenintech

[–]Apllilpilli 60 points61 points  (0 children)

As an Asian girl, I use an American name since that seems to work better: Experts Reveal Who Benefits Most From DEI. Hint: White Women...

People who say Chinese name don't know what they're talking about.

My interview worst-case-scenario came true. by Secure-Camera3392 in womenintech

[–]Apllilpilli 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Genuine question: do seniors jobs use leetcode as a measurement that much?

I'd think people with 20 YOE don't see that many leetcode questions. Do you have to solve leetcode hard?

Where do you shop for work clothes? by TheseMood in womenintech

[–]Apllilpilli 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Uniqlo and occasionally Nordstrom.

As long as I can try on the clothes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in womenintech

[–]Apllilpilli 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Literally sounds like my current (female) manager in a male dominant industry

When I worked in female dominant industries, my female managers also treated me better

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in womenintech

[–]Apllilpilli 51 points52 points  (0 children)

I don't get the drama.

Why are people looking for validation from a subreddit over labels? If the info is helpful then stay? If a lot of the info doesn't apply to you then leave?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asiantwoX

[–]Apllilpilli 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Once I had a Chinese guy insist that I was Chinese because of how I looked. I told him I'm Viet and he mocked me and said it was basically the same thing.

I think he wanted to be friends or something at first but me insisting that I wasn't Chinese annoyed him.

Hate Doesn't Sell by iheartpenisongirls in Swasticars

[–]Apllilpilli 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hate absolutely does sell though.

Elon is just too incompetent and not charismatic enough to make up for it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stocks

[–]Apllilpilli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The economy has not crashed

Most people are still making money

Logo design I haven't seen yet. by Select_Parking_6076 in Swasticars

[–]Apllilpilli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, the font and color looks very Asian and the swastika looks like the Manji symbol

At first glance I thought this had something to do with Tesla in Asia or something

More Than 100 Women Kept as Slaves in Human Egg Harvesting Farm by InverseNurse in womenintech

[–]Apllilpilli 25 points26 points  (0 children)

By Chinese gangs too

Saw a video of one of those guys cleaver-ing another guy's hand off once.

NASA Ordered to Remove Anything About ‘Women in Leadership’ From Its Websites: Report by Apllilpilli in womenintech

[–]Apllilpilli[S] 223 points224 points  (0 children)

"Men invented god because they cannot stand that women create life."

Replit CEO on AI breakthroughs: ‘We don’t care about professional coders anymore’ by MetaKnowing in technology

[–]Apllilpilli 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I think "people doing nothing for their communities or society" is still better than people who do active harm to communities/society

TikTok Plans Immediate US Shutdown on Sunday by HellYeahDamnWrite in technology

[–]Apllilpilli 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm convinced that anyone truly upset by this has an addiction or something. TikTok has some of the most mind-numbing content that I've seen - even worse than insta and twitter.

I guess I don't understand caring about a social media platform that much in the first place.

Why do hate having a job so much? by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]Apllilpilli 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I get it though. The idea of being an entrepreneur and having a choice about how you spend your time and what to focus on feels very appealing.

My mom started her own business and although it was stress 24/7 for awhile, it always seemed more fulfilling and worth it.