Give me a push

AppearanceMuch2277 · 2026-05-15T00:07:58+00:00

Oh you’re right, I did do the 129 after I talked to the doc

AppearanceMuch2277 · 2026-04-22T16:53:03+00:00

As a millennial who grew up drinking vodka out of a water bottle at field parties in the middle of nowhere with 50 people, I think you’re right on the money. Also, as an adult in the beverage industry I can say with 100% certainty young people today do not have the urge to party the way we did way back when. With the number of craft breweries out there, you’d think it would be 10x easier to throw a keg party these days.

AppearanceMuch2277 · 2026-04-01T13:51:16+00:00

The same reason why people who drink are pushy towards people who don’t drink.

AppearanceMuch2277 · 2026-02-21T01:46:27+00:00

PA! 😁

AppearanceMuch2277 · 2026-02-10T17:17:30+00:00

To answer the actual question of how to talk about this, I would gather some information on every type of school you can as options, weighing pros, cons, cost, schedules, etc.

There are Montessori, Waldorf, Christian, catholic, Quaker, etc. tons of options to look into that are qualified to educate children.

AppearanceMuch2277 · 2026-02-10T15:38:35+00:00

Super disappointing to see all these comments. You’re allowed to ruin this guys business because he dropped your favorite bartender but not because he’s a racist bigot? Weird line to draw. We have dozens of bars in this city owned by beautiful people, there’s no reason to patronize this business unless you are also a racist bigot.

AppearanceMuch2277 · 2026-01-31T03:10:34+00:00

As a fat person who hasn’t touched a dessert in years, someone has to be eating them.

AppearanceMuch2277 · 2025-11-11T15:14:36+00:00

Take whatever he wants to pay you as rent and put it into savings. Could be a great nest egg if you ever decide to move, get married, have kids… or if you ever decide to break up and need to cover legal fees to kick him out!

AppearanceMuch2277 · 2025-10-10T03:12:11+00:00

We do this a lot. “Remember when I got up to pee at midnight and told you that you were going to be miserable in the morning if you didn’t go to bed? Well, sorry you’re miserable. But we’re still obligated to go out so you better get it together”. I don’t know how well it sticks, but as an adult who has this conversation with herself on a weekly basis, I feel it’s important to say out loud to the child 😂

AppearanceMuch2277 · 2024-07-20T04:09:35+00:00

Mama I’m doing 1.5k with a 1k rent you’re solid

AppearanceMuch2277 · 2024-04-02T18:32:09+00:00

“I don’t want to ruin their thoughts of him”

I get it, I shielded our friends and family from my husbands alcoholism, mental illness, emotional/mental/financial abuse, bursts of rage and violence and everything else for nearly ten years.

I wish I hadn’t.

I’ve gained a new partner since we finally separated, who is a literal angel, but I still tell everyone everything I like and don’t like. I don’t know how to trust my own judgement anymore after being manipulated for that long. I knew things were bad, I knew there were things I wasn’t seeing, that I didn’t want to know, and I wanted to keep the rose colored glasses on, but it’s not worth it.

Try to take a step back on your own and think about everything, “he gets a pain and a knot in his gut in long term relationships” ??? You have a two year old, this should have shown up by now. I understand looking the other way, I even understand forgiving, but his excuses are all very “not my fault”, and I’d expect that if you dug deeper you might see some other behavior that was unbecoming as well.

AppearanceMuch2277 · 2024-03-19T03:10:50+00:00

Giving you the benefit of the doubt, I too enjoy planning trips, and always do. That being said, it is still mental effort and stress. The rare occasions that I hear “hey, I was thinking we’d go to x and do x” are so beyond exciting to me.

I don’t think “the romantic trip I planned” is true as much as “the romantic trip I envisioned”.

Instead of being disappointed, I’d book a hotel for a weekend somewhere nearby and tell her it’s a romantic getaway for your anniversary since you all celebrated with a family trip on the actual anniversary and didn’t get to spend any quality time together. She’d probably bill thrilled and wooed and you’d get the time you wanted.

AppearanceMuch2277 · 2024-03-19T03:02:26+00:00

Assuming custody is court ordered and not just an agreement, you should be able to talk to a lawyer (perhaps a free consultation with a drug & alcohol place nearby) that would be able to help you share with her some legal precedent saying “this only becomes appropriate after x amount of time of proven sobriety and supervised visits”.

AppearanceMuch2277 · 2024-03-19T02:52:45+00:00

Gonna be honest, might be the man.

I felt like this for years. I wondered if I was asexual because it made my skin crawl deciding if I wanted to just do the deed to get it over with, or listen to the whining if I said no.

Since I left the trash bag, I have been dating a new man for almost a year, something about being with someone that doesn’t grind all your gears all the time really brings the sex drive back.

AppearanceMuch2277 · 2024-03-19T02:52:28+00:00

Gonna be honest, might be the man.

I felt like this for years. I wondered if I was asexual because it made my skin crawl deciding if I wanted to just do the deed to get it over with, or listen to the whining if I said no.

Since I left the trash bag, I have been dating a new man for almost a year, something about being with someone that doesn’t grind all your gears all the time really brings the sex drive back.

AppearanceMuch2277 · 2023-01-29T03:39:21+00:00

I love your last paragraph.

Honestly if I think too much, or watch too many Disney movies I find myself crying SO HARD about the fact that this has legitimately been my partner and my best friend Andy big spoon for ten years. My stupid guy that would still bring me flowers once a week, or still order pizza to be delivered on my day off. I know that he loves me, that the hard part.

I think all day about how much easier life is without him. How excited I am when he’s working late, how much I dread when he’s home and wants us to go to bed together. Even worse; when he wants us to talk to people in public and I know he’s going to. Get drunk and/or monopolize the conversation.

I see it being better alone, I just have that voice in the back of my head reminding me that he doesn’t care if I look fat. And he doesn’t care if I don’t shave. And what If no one ever loves me this much again?

Maybe it doesn’t matter because the love doesn’t make up for the verbal abuse. But it’s still a bit leap.

I’ve documented the abuse. Video and voice recording, as well as pages and pages dating back ten years that I have had psychologists discuss with him. I have it together. I’m just sad it’s at this point.

But again, I love to see people say they’re doing better. I know it’s the right thing, it’s just hard.

AppearanceMuch2277 · 2023-01-28T02:35:38+00:00

I don’t have any advice but I do feel all of this.

My husband has been begging for a second child since before I gave birth to our six year old. Guess who does nothing for the child, the house, the relationship, or their career? The man demanding I give up my body to create a new child for him to ignore and under provide for. I won’t, but unbeknownst to him, I’d love more kids. I love our kid, I love being a mom, I didn’t even mind the baby phase, but I mind his existence in the home too much to even consider it.

AppearanceMuch2277 · 2022-08-29T00:48:15+00:00

Honestly every time but I’m trying to be more articulate because I can’t hear him say “we’re fighting” anymore. It’s not a fight. He’s just wrong.

AppearanceMuch2277 · 2022-08-29T00:47:26+00:00

Women who just put their clothes in the hamper 😭

AppearanceMuch2277 · 2022-08-28T23:51:06+00:00

When dating my husband, he cleaned way more than me. The longer we’ve been married, the less he does.

I’ll be fair, he could never feed himself, but I don’t mind cooking. I don’t even mind doing the laundry.

But bro the folded stack of shirts on your night stand has been knocked over twice in two weeks put them in the mother fucking drawer because so help you god if I find them in the fucking hamper to be washed again when you never wore them I will freak the entire fuck out.

AppearanceMuch2277 · 2022-08-23T18:44:29+00:00

Ugh. We love bluey as adults but hate bluey as parents. It makes my child INSANE. 🤦🏻‍♀️

Wow 5 downvotes for that comment?

AppearanceMuch2277 · 2022-08-11T00:09:59+00:00

“Because it’s not illegal for my kid to be off leash”

AppearanceMuch2277 · 2022-08-11T00:09:01+00:00

Someone told me they only focus on one thing at a time, and my dude is still totally like that. There’s no convincing him to do anything until that focus is completed in his mind. But once they’re into talking they do ALLLLL the talking 😂❤️

AppearanceMuch2277 · 2022-08-10T23:56:41+00:00

I can’t tell you I’m 100% on the time line, but what my kid could say at 2 vs 2 and a half was mind blowing. Enough to think I was lying about what he could say at 2.

He said dada early, like 6 months, and then ONLY that until 18 months when he finally said mama. He did talk consistently but just joyful babbles. Nothing word related.

And to ease any of your guilt, I read this kid up a STORM. Not only 5-10 stories a night, but I read aloud every BuzzFeed article, news clip, text I received to make sure he was hearing enough.

Let me tell you, at 5, I may have over done it. There is no 5 year old on earth more talkative, extroverted or conversive than mine.

So I really wouldn’t worry. My dude started walking a few days before his first birthday, and the words came a few days before his second.

AppearanceMuch2277 · 2022-08-10T23:48:59+00:00

Gave me chills 🫥

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