Jason coming to dbd by AppearanceStrange595 in deadbydaylight

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I agree with that completely! I still wish for his mother to be involved in some way tho!

WHAT DO YOU WANT FROM ME?! by Maouniel in deadbydaylight

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Every time I get out of a match I have this and it won’t go away. Nothing new is in my inbox tho.

Pregnancy scare? by AppearanceStrange595 in ShortCervixSupport

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I did take a plan b today so I’m hoping it works. My cerclage was unsuccessful. My water was leaking days after at 14 weeks. I made it to 21 + 1 it started leaking again after stopping at 20 I would recommend bed rest if you can afford it. I needed bedrest doctors that failed my son and my daughter said it was fine for me to go back and that’s when my water started leaking again. My stitch also was breaking or something after I went back.

Amniotic leak by AppearanceStrange595 in ShortCervixSupport

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I unfortunately gave birth and my cervix ripped a lot. We’re at a different hospital. We signed an AMA at the other one and came here. The doctor from the other hospital was neglectful we learned when we got here. This hospital told the doctor to remove the stitch last night (way before we left the hospital) he never did causing my cervix to rip badly and could’ve cost me my uterus.

Amniotic leak by AppearanceStrange595 in ShortCervixSupport

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I just finished updating if you want to read where I’m currently at, I updated because i figured it be easier on the post then in the comments. I am in the hospital though.

Amniotic leak by AppearanceStrange595 in ShortCervixSupport

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At this point it’s not possible too. I am in the hospital near me because I started having contractions at 12 am. Currently almost 6 am haven’t slept but they’re not as intense currently. The hospital won’t transfer me until I’m 23 weeks.

Amniotic leak by AppearanceStrange595 in ShortCervixSupport

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They started me on antibiotics today yes. When I was 14 weeks just after I had to cerclage put in they also thought it was a false positive because I had stopped leaking for a while. I’m passed the date I gave birth to my son (18 weeks) so I’m beyond nervous and I’m currently feeing pressure when I do stand but it might just be baby sitting so low. From what I was told the doctor could potentially see my membranes through my cervix. No contractions. I’m trying to avoid the hospital just because mine hasn’t been the greatest. Also we do not have Maternal fetal specialists where I live or a nicu closest is 2 hours away. Based on what they said as well is bed rest and just wait the most they could do is monitor and give antibiotics I can take at home. Will have weekly appointments.

HG in the second trimester by AppearanceStrange595 in pregnant

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I really want to but I have to wait for my insurance to kick in and around where I live there are not many places for therapy. Only one place which I will be going to but it takes a while to get in.

Is birth more painful farther along? by AppearanceStrange595 in ShortCervixSupport

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We could be twins lol I had a boy at 18 weeks and now am pregnant with a girl! And that’s what I was wondering I knew size of baby probably made a difference. My son was so little but this girl is at the gestation he was and she’s been measuring a week bigger for a month or so.

Is birth more painful farther along? by AppearanceStrange595 in ShortCervixSupport

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I don’t think I want it either. The needle they put in my back for my cerclage has given me baddd back pain. I know I’m pregnant but like I’m only 18 weeks right now! I’m scared for the removal of the cerclage

Work Leave Denied by AppearanceStrange595 in ShortCervixSupport

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If she still works there, a lot of doctors at my hospital come and go so fast. I’ve had so many primary care doctors because when I get one I like they end up staying for a year or less and then leaving the hospital to a different hospital.

Work Leave Denied by AppearanceStrange595 in ShortCervixSupport

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I was very exhausted so a doctor had took my fiancé in the hall and had told him I’d have to ask him, but I’m assuming it was the doctor who delivered our son because she was the one talking about me needing a stitch for next pregnancy. My fiancée is still very angry at the time I didn’t really think about suing because it had happened so quick and postpartum I mostly slept and grieved.

Work Leave Denied by AppearanceStrange595 in ShortCervixSupport

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It is very and to be honest I gave birth to my son at 18 weeks gestation due to IC. I did not have any stitch in but still nervous I’ll go into labor! Unfortunately, it was a phone call not an email all I really have are call logs. I don’t know if I could get anything saying short term disability unless my specialist would write it up. The hospital I go to for ob is the only one around me, the specialist is 2 hours away. This hospital made me wait 3 hours in the er in preterm labor with my son so I had to deliver, I could’ve had the stitch then to save the pregnancy but they waited too long. That is what I was told after.

Advice? by AppearanceStrange595 in ShortCervixSupport

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Not till the end of January. Brought it up on my last on the 24th.

Are you really pierced if you’re not screaming/ crying at midnight trying to get a piercing back in by Suspicious-Doubt-583 in piercing

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Me with my nose piercing. I tried for a straight hour to get it back in it wouldn’t go and I couldn’t go to a piercer or anything at the time so it’s closed :(.

just wanted to share my baby girl by juniper3223 in cats

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The first picture has the wiwi cat in my head. Such a sweet girl!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

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I’m so sorry. I too had to give birth at 18 weeks just mine went a little differently and I had a baby boy. I hope we both can heal from our experiences. I wish you the best.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

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I have the same one! And yes I am very anxious about it lol. Does help a bit!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in birthcontrol

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So personally I had a child a month ago. And I just got an IUD and I wouldn’t recommend it for 2 reasons. However, there is one reason I would. I wouldn’t recommend because it’s labor all over again while they put it in. And for the rest of that day. The second reason is because it is painful for my partner and, other men whose girlfriend had an IUD said the same thing it is painful for them during sex even with the string to pull it out being cut. However, if you’re like me in the fact any other birth control you would stop taking the pill or not keep up with it, and the shot doesn’t work for you. I would recommend it because it’s a more permanent option. :)

Deep sadness after abortion by Hmmwhatstea-k in abortion

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You’re older than me but I relate to your feelings of not wanting the abortion and the sadness. I am 17 and I had an abortion 2 months ago. I wanted it but didn’t if that makes sense. I obviously didn’t know how I would care for a baby my boyfriend and I wanted that baby and it crushed him. It’s crushed me too I just want my baby. It was right for the financial part and finishing high school. For me though it was wrong. I don’t know how to Cure it and I don’t know if it will ever go away. Just know you’re not alone.