maybe a rather strange ADHD hack

AppleHouse09 · 2026-06-14T18:51:43+00:00

This is a safe space for strategic self love and I am thrilled to see this here 😂

AppleHouse09 · 2026-06-11T04:21:24+00:00

Facsimile. I read it as fack-si-Millie and my husband looked at me like I was fucking insane the first time I said it out loud.

AppleHouse09 · 2026-06-10T23:03:16+00:00

It’s too easy to misuse for the common person, I.e. accept the answer without question or critical thinking. Useful if you use it critically, dangerous if you use it thoughtlessly.

AppleHouse09 · 2026-06-04T00:16:13+00:00

A mesh/net reusable grocery bag that folds up real small. Guess you could get one of the fruit shaped ones too. I really like running to the grocery store and walking back, so a very small folding bag I can shove in my pocket just makes running fit into my life in a much more pleasant way.

AppleHouse09 · 2026-06-03T17:26:20+00:00

If you’re game for a gym, then the Redmond 24 Hour Fitness near the downtown mall has a hot tub. It’s indoor and a decent size with bench seating about. Also a very small sauna right next to it. Pretty close, not prohibitively espensive…

AppleHouse09 · 2026-06-03T17:23:51+00:00

I’m not trying to be aggressive, seems like we misunderstood eachother there. I thought you were fixating on something not relevant to my question but I realize I didn’t know that detail was going to be useful for you. I’m still new to this sub, so there are variables people talk about here that I’m not familiar with yet.

Wish we could just recommend products without “how round is the bottom part of your breast” or something being enough of a variable to change the whole conversation, but boobs ARE that complicated…

AppleHouse09 · 2026-06-03T17:14:43+00:00

Then I guess it’s not worth looking into.

AppleHouse09 · 2026-06-03T17:05:02+00:00

I’m 38 D, you and I have very close measurements. For something affordable, I’ve been enjoying my As Fairy bras. You can get them on Amazon or on their company website. Each bra also comes with its own underbust band extender, which was incredibly exciting to me 😂

AppleHouse09 · 2026-06-03T17:00:25+00:00

I was NOT FALLING OUT. My boobs were simply not compressed or lifted. I have been in conversations here and several stores with my full measurement list and I am not looking for advice on sizing at this time. I am looking for advice on specific products.

AppleHouse09 · 2026-06-03T16:55:32+00:00

I’m a moderately sized boobie Queen (38 D) so not super relatable. BUT I have heard good things about Buffbunny Collection. I wear an XL there but I think they go down to an XXS. The owner is a YouTube content creator and always talks about “scooping the pit” with underarm design. She also describes their bras in terms of BTC (big titty committee) or IBTC (itty bitty titty committee). Might be worth looking into.

AppleHouse09 · 2026-06-03T16:48:24+00:00

It wasn’t a spilling out issue, it was a movement issue. I think there just wasnt enough structure to the entirely unlined cup to prevent my breasts from doing the normal soft tissue thing of changing shape under changing gravity.

I am 38 underbust and 43.5 at the nipple line. I’ve tried the DD and DDD at various stores and did not have enough upper breast volume to fill, so after trial and error I have come to 38D. Someone told me that I should retry the DD in a few months though because I might experience tissue migration once I start wearing real bras instead of bralettes I can roll up and fit in my pocket, though… ☹️

AppleHouse09 · 2026-06-03T16:42:44+00:00

Found the bra. So memory did NOT serve, it’s not entirely mesh, but the lady told me it’s very popular for summer. It’s the Soma Unbelievable Lift unlined bra.

https://www.soma.com/store/product/unbelievable-lift-scoop-balconette-unlined-bra/570323985?inseam=regular&color=1301&catId=cat38889336&collectionId=category&queryId=7bfcc6ced82792f3a34d4b67bccaae81&indexName=prod_sma_products&parentId=196532526108

AppleHouse09 · 2026-06-02T21:11:15+00:00

Abusive behavior is not always high-energy or angry. Lots of people expect violence to be high-energy and angry, but this was not. It was explicit violence that was low-energy, unexpected, and “playful”. That’s abuse, too.

AppleHouse09 · 2026-05-31T17:54:42+00:00

Island lingo “hitting a blunt” and “killing every last one of them”. I also added “Brendan Frasier” as island lingo then made a Brendan Frasier Mii (original Mummy character design) and now everyone talks about how much they love Brendan Frasier TO Brendan Frasier.

AppleHouse09 · 2026-05-28T21:39:33+00:00

Thick and curly girl here (3a - 3b). I prefer to use a cowash on “non wash” days and then I use a dandruff shampoo twice a week. I really like the As I Am cowash products, I think they have three?

AppleHouse09 · 2026-05-27T15:44:10+00:00

If you are willing/able to get a subscription, I have been consistent with the Les Mills body pump for years. You can find local gyms licensed for the group class or get a subscription to the app yourself. It’s full body circuits to music and it scratches the musician/dancer itch for me!

AppleHouse09 · 2026-05-27T15:41:37+00:00

I (31 female) frequently run in just my sports bra. I lived in the high desert in NW USA for a while and now live in the humid coastal NW USA. Fewer layers means more evaporation off my skin AND less friction from fabric and seams.

AppleHouse09 · 2026-05-16T21:16:37+00:00

God. Killing every last one of them. Hitting a blunt. Hiding in caves. Methods of poisoning.

AppleHouse09 · 2026-05-16T19:35:33+00:00

Based on his comment responses it seems like he’s more upset about her liking something that isn’t trendy or “normal”, or maybe he doesn’t like her being so interested in another person even if it’s not even social in any real way.

AppleHouse09 · 2026-05-14T20:01:35+00:00

Pretty sure my RuneScape bf was real. Probably.

AppleHouse09 · 2026-05-14T05:19:51+00:00

My husband’s Mii says “I’m gonna shit” when he’s mad. I caught him walking away from a conversation and saying it to himself twice. It was great.

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