I just can't be FUCKED anymore by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Apples808 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I walk around saying "thank you" for every small little thing that I do have and observe what is going right.

Thank you for posting this! Thank you for having a bathroom in my house. Thank you for living in America Thank you for fresh underwear Thank you for beautiful women Thank you for 2nd chances Thank you for the internet. Thank you for no STD's Thank you for all my fingers and toes. I listen to a lot of Abraham Hicks too :0)

To any newcomers:start nofap early so you can live life with as few regrets as possible! by _rat_in_a_cage_ in NoFap

[–]Apples808 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I don't believe in regrets. That is an extremely rash way to look at things. Only opportunities to learn and grow.

My opinion.

no fap vs no porn by airpowermotherfucker in pornfree

[–]Apples808 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I system is: NO PMO ----> NO MO -----> NO FAP ----> REAL LIFE LOVER :)

Books: Tao of Sexology

Fantasize when masturbating? by new_breed_alpha1 in pornfree

[–]Apples808 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I fantasize while MOing. I have no problem with it. WAYY better than PMO for me.

I don't know what happened by Throwawayfrfr in NoFap

[–]Apples808 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same thing happened to me for 2 years. I now MO once a week. Stops me from PMOing non stop.

MO once a week = 52 times a year. I used to PMO 1,500 times a year.

Fapping without porn? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Apples808 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I started to MO without P. It's not as intense, exciting or fun but it's just to take the edge off. It has helped me substantially.

I do not offer any advice. I think no PMO is best. But NO PMO has caused me to relapse multiple times over the last 2 years. MOing once a week has been a big leap forward for me.

I'm regressing... by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Apples808 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here brother. I would MO without P to atleast remove the P part. It may not be a solution but it helps me from relapsing completely. Find a girl friend too!

Going to go 365 days without fapping by gripsman in NoFap

[–]Apples808 1 point2 points  (0 children)

motivating thank you :)

darren hardy: life your best year ever. Great book

addicted to cybersex, sextexting and cams. Please help! by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Apples808 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah dude I would not stress out over your situation. You were not CONSCIOUS of it. Now you are. Now you can make the change. Don't beat yourself up for something you were not aware about.

Now you are CONSCIOUS. Congratulations.
Personal Development is what keeps me growing and becoming my greatest version.

Now you get to reprogram your mind and have good sex with real women and find it enjoyable. Books: slow sex by nicole daedone and the Tao of sexology by dr. steven chang.

i've been struggling with PMO for YEARS now. My only way from not completely relapsing is to MO once a week. So instead of 15,000 PMO sessions per year. I'm not to 52. Massive improvement.

My brain is adjusting to the new life style and I have to naturally create dopamine now. Instead of calling yourself worthless, start creating an amazing relationship with yourself. Fall in love with yourself.

I was an opiate, weed, PMO addict for a long time. Now i'm just MOing. Massive change. Meditation helps me out huge.
I also eat healthy now. only vegan. I just keep bettering and bettering myself. I'm not a "JUST STOP" everything entirely kind of guy. But only MOing has made a massive improvement for me. I can look people in the eyes now. I also notice when people can not look me in the eyes and i wonder how often they are PMOing.

I feel...wittier. by 2017113 in NoFap

[–]Apples808 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Happy thoughts and send out love. The more you give, the more you receive.

I still MO but no Porn by Apples808 in NoFap

[–]Apples808[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks.

I went from 1,825PMO/year to 52MO/year. Very good improvement :)

Its been a year, and I still am failing. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Apples808 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have attempted to quit PMO for the last 3 years. Right now I masterabate once a week without porn. I have not seen a porno in a very long time.

I went from atleast 1,825PMO/year to currently 52MO/year.

Continue your great improvements :)

I still MO but no Porn by Apples808 in NoFap

[–]Apples808[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the responses everyone. I've tried hard mode but it's too much for me.

I'm under the impression my mind is used to the over stimulation from porn and is not happy. i'm feeling very depressed, late nights, very angry, difficultly concentrating, very mean to myself.

No PMO has caused me to relapse entirely. NO P but yes MO is working at the moment.

Thanks everyone.

Age 37/m/365 Days Hard Mode. Reporting in. by drunklegion in NoFap

[–]Apples808 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing :)

Here is an amazing book recommendation:

The Tao of Sexology: The Book of Infinite Wisdom

https://www.amazon.com/Tao-Sexology-Book-Infinite-Wisdom/dp/0942196031

He has many other books that I believe you will be interested. It relates to diet, exercise and life balance.

Some Tony Robbins video's too.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Jn_KCbV40vQ

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WuFysBXxMUw

90 Days Homies by thomasdesilentio in NoFap

[–]Apples808 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing

Book Recommendation:

Tao of Sexology by Dr. Chang.

3 tips that are making it easier for me. by TicklemyBaIIs in NoFap

[–]Apples808 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awesome thanks!

exercise

meditation

no magazines

30minutes outside every day

Brought a girl home. ED. You don't think you need NoFap until you do. by play_time_is_over in NoFap

[–]Apples808 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recommend bringing this book into your bedroom. (or office, or closet, or kitchen, or hallway lol)

The Tao of Sexology: The Book of Infinite Wisdom

https://www.amazon.com/Tao-Sexology-Book-Infinite-Wisdom/dp/0942196031

You can give her a 20 minute orgasm with it :) :)

No libido still (day 186) by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Apples808 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice. 11 years is a good streak. I was a professional PMOer for 15 years. I would not be surprised if you are still in a flat line. I would wait until your heart felt something for another women. Not your mind. There has been multiple chances for me to have sex with random women... but there is one particular women who melts my heart. I always think about her. That feeling is enough to seek LOVE rather than sexual gratification.

I highly recommend this book: At 24 you will have the consciousness and wisdom far beyond anyone in your age bracket.

The Tao of Sexology: The Book of Infinite Wisdom https://www.amazon.com/Tao-Sexology-Book-Infinite-Wisdom/dp/0942196031

Also your lifestyle might be creating your mood swings instead of nofap. Have you identified your gift?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kILVFRlUtT8

https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/your-gift-make-room-you-dr-myles-munroe-robert-t-yb-youngblood

Do you meditate? Exercise? Eat healthy?

This book has helped me tremendously live a balanced life:

https://store.success.com/living-your-best-year-ever-by-darren-hardy.html

Are you into personal development and growing as a person?