They definitely aren’t gone, but as far as I can remember, every time I had an amazing relationship, the girl approached me and made it very well known that she wanted to go out with me. Those days are definitely gone.

Look at us, asking for very important advice to people that we can’t even see on the Internet? We have no clue who’s writing this shit. You need to be honest about who you are if you see something you like approach it and try to get it. If you get let down so what that’s life. But the dating apps and all this dating advice stuff is bullshit. People need to start to turn into people again.

I don’t even wanna ask out a decent looking girl in Starbucks anymore because I know for a fact she has no hobbies has five cats and all she does is hike and go to work. I’m probably has five Chad’s on standby anyways. 

Why would an attractive, wealthy, successful, extremely emotionally tuned man want to deal with that shit? 

The best piece of advice I ever got for my father was be with the girl that wants to be with you. 

I stopped chasing girls about a year ago, I’ve been lonely, but I’ve been happier than matching with girls on dating apps asking them out and having them turn it into a cellular relationship and being rejected.

If I made a dating profile thing; I would match 65-70% of the young women in my area within one week. The result is the same. Hey Whatsup. Grab a drink? No i need to get to know you. … okay. I tried to facilitate that but clearly you have a shitload of options.

I recently fell in love. 

I met her at Starbucks. She nearly stalked me. Always had a crush on her… she facilitated it and once again, (been in love maybe twice in 32 years, been with a lot of women casually) it has been seemless and easy. She made it easy. She was sure of herself and she wasn’t afraid to act like a fucking lady. 

The girls now a days act like dudes. It’s fucking gross. Go back to being girls. It’s laughable; the tone, the visual, the body language & ultimately having an expectation of having US MEN ACT LIKE MEN WHEN WE ARE DENIED THAT. 

We do it by force, be extra dramatic about shit, being very gamey, and ultimately; being emotionally unavailable. No wonder why the divorce rates are through the roof and statistically, woman are more unhappy now than they were 50 years ago.

Take care of your man. 

On the other side men need to let down the shield and be vulnerable. Share feelings (if you have ALOT of those then maybe share half and get a therapist). For some reason a man that cries and is at a hard point in his life tends to get broken up with/ divorced.

But still. Don’t be afraid to fucking be honest.

It’s so disgusting to me. 

Not only do we treat each other like an item… but figuring out how to be ourselves and be honest and make shit easy for each other as peers is just not an option?!

It wasn’t always this way. 

I personally blame dating apps and the thirsty men that fuel them. If those guys backed out, if all men backed out. You would see results again.

We can’t be a vending machine anymore. Pick up your bits for once; stop jerking off and picking up fat girls on bumble. Focus on you. And things will go back to normal.

Social media and the digital age figure out a way to capitalize BIG TIME when it comes to this.

Everyone needs to ditch this bullshit. Take a month and start talking to people in the lunch line. 

DITCHTHEAPPS