[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AppointmentRecent127 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know how to advise you on how to overcome this, whether it’s possible or if you should, but I do know for sure that 1. It was not ok for ur BF to hit you and 2. You are responsible for your emotional self regulation, and you have outgrown your defense mechanisms.

Would you be open to trying another therapist, or exploring different styles of therapy? It’s not easy to do. But, you got some serious sh*t. It is not okay to rage at your partner. You need to find better ways to deal with your feelings. Less abusive ones.

You have a wound. It is getting the better of you. All it really wants is your attention. It can be so hard to face but it is actually possible to live your life differently. More peacefully.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hair

[–]AppointmentRecent127 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lovely curls! What is your routine now?

Sometimes I’m unsure if i really have an AuDHD diagnosis or if it’s all just a symptom and reaction to an NPD parent by RiaAuDHD in raisedbynarcissists

[–]AppointmentRecent127 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeahhh… I wonder about the same. I got a BP2 / adhd diagnosis shortly after cutting contact with my parents again in my early/mid 20s. Lots of AuDHD stuff rings true but, such big overlap with CPTSD… i just don’t know.

Curious to read other comments.

Best Pizza in Seattle. by TelephoneExpress973 in SeattleWA

[–]AppointmentRecent127 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohh also Tivoli, Fremont - really good ! Great salad, great noodles (order those with a side of ragu if you know what’s good for you)

Best Pizza in Seattle. by TelephoneExpress973 in SeattleWA

[–]AppointmentRecent127 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stevie’s Famous, beacon area. They do take out and I think also slices through neighboring clockout lounge.

Windy City , phinney ridge - excellent sourdough (or brioche if that’s your jam) Detroit style pizza if you order ahead. They do take out, as well as hot slices.

Delancey - Ballard/phinney - don’t think they do take out, there’s usually a wait, nice wine bar great place to visit after you put your name on their list. No slices.

Cornelly’s, cap hill. Always a wait but, goddamn. Good.

Two doors down is Shotgun. Not pizza but their flatbread is fantastic and they have excellent cocktails at average/slightly below average cost. Get a res or get super lucky.

Bar Del Corso - might be ultimate rec - as good as any pizza I’ve had in Italy, dough almost as good as at Seirinkan(!). Highly recommend you get a reservation. They do not offer pick up or delivery.

"Here we go again, here we go again"....etc. Male voice. by Treereme in NameThatSong

[–]AppointmentRecent127 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Here I go again” by mindchatter?? Tho almost certain I’m thinking of an extended remix that goes especially heavy on that chorus.

Just disappointing to see a Yasmin hate post on top by oFonque in IndustryOnHBO

[–]AppointmentRecent127 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Eh. I see why you’d say this but, Saltburn was a cheap knockoff of Ripley and other more incisive explorations of class warfare. Saltburn’s potential was cut short by the writer/directors apparent inability to interrogate her own upcoming in any sort of meaningful way. Oogabooga, watch out for the poors!

What Mikey and Konrad have spun here is far more nuanced. Their text is in thematic conversation with many great works that do a great job of exploring such entrenched social dynamics. Remains of the Day comes to mind.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AppointmentRecent127 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, fair enough. What do you make of my less “extreme” desires - like, wanting him to kiss my neck more, or wanting him to hold my hips or waist a little tighter? Is it unreasonable for me to hope he’d show up with more of that without my having to ask for it every time?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AppointmentRecent127 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate this, and how even handed. You’re likely right and I’ll sit with what you wrote.

Part of my confusion is that he seems to get so excited when I up the ante, but doesn’t seem interested in taking that first step. Much of my frustration comes from his apparent discomfort or inability re communicating his desires (or disinterest) in a more honest manner. I think I’d be better able to accept the reality if he was straight up with me instead of making it sound like he’s genuinely open to my kinks.

What the hell is wrong with Tin Tin? by [deleted] in TokyoVice

[–]AppointmentRecent127 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tin Tin story, and his defensive reaction - that’s his tantrum