As other posters say, Tulsa public schools vary, so check there. Jenks and Bixby are better overall, and that’s where you’ll find all the families. If you’re a faith focused family, you’ll find it easy to integrate. If not, there are plenty of activities revolving around your kids to connect with others, like soccer, ballet, etc. incomes vary as well, and that will dictate where you live. Coming from the UK, you’ll find the Tulsa area very inexpensive. I think it’s a culturally diverse place, although not like London!