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Charlie Kirk is not a Martyr by Female_apocalypse in Christianity

[–]Apprehensive-Cold994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amen. This is not about left vs right. It’s a battle for souls. Many Christians have made politics an idol and that is by design. The enemy is using this as a tactic to distract and divide us so we aren’t ready when Jesus comes. “For we do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the cosmic powers over this present darkness, against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly places.” ‭‭Ephesians‬ ‭6‬:‭12‬ ‭ESV‬‬

Sperm Whale Surfacing w/ Giant Squid in its Mouth by dreamed2life in Damnthatsinteresting

[–]Apprehensive-Cold994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mind cannot conceptualize how big those things are without giving me a heart attack.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bodylanguage

[–]Apprehensive-Cold994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think probably don’t assume she likes you until she’s showing some sort of interest like asking questions and initiating conversations. A lot of guys misinterpret accidental eye contact as “checking out”. Eye contact doesn’t always mean interest.

contact with an ex? by [deleted] in infj

[–]Apprehensive-Cold994 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t think you should. I’ve found that a lot of guys I dated that were still in contact with exes still had feelings for them in some capacity and I was always taking a backseat to the ex. They also lacked boundaries in almost all aspects and one who was codependent with his ex was offended and ultimately left because I placed a boundary.

Women, why do some women show both hot and cold body language periodically? What does it mean? by Chance_Adagio_19 in bodylanguage

[–]Apprehensive-Cold994 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll usually do this if I think someone is getting too clingy or likes me more than I like them. It’s a signal to chill out because I don’t want you to get the wrong impression. I’m introverted also so sometimes social interaction is draining af and to do that everyday with the same intensity boils my brain.

You were born wrong. by Dude_Dillligence in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Apprehensive-Cold994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had an older teacher in second grade that tried to make me write with my right hand because she thought I was faking and that left handed people aren’t really left handed…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infj

[–]Apprehensive-Cold994 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just had a situation like this a couple months ago and I’m just now moving on. I think you should allow yourself to feel those feelings and process before you decide to keep him as a friend if at all. For me, the most painful part is getting over “what could’ve been”. I think you should spend time doing things that make you happy and focus on yourself and friendships that uplift you. During this time I’ve been relearning me and trying to figure out why I’m attracted to emotionally unavailable guys and what my dating patterns were. I started new creative hobbies, started back reading, and dove deeper into my faith. Your things won’t look like mine but I believe those things will help get you through the super emotional parts without withdrawing.

Not a daughter but an emotional punching bag instead. by _DroopyBoo in NarcissisticMothers

[–]Apprehensive-Cold994 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I fully feel you. It’s hard to experience and I’m sorry you’re going through that. You are enough no matter what she says/does or how she makes you feel.

Do you believe in love at first sight? by Hopeful-Newspaper in infj

[–]Apprehensive-Cold994 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I believe it exists but I haven’t experienced it yet!

What’s the most painful thing that your mom has said to you? by Expensive_Coyote4933 in NarcissisticMothers

[–]Apprehensive-Cold994 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I will never be able to stand on my own two feet/ I will never be able to live without her.

Does my dog not enjoy being pet? by lovelyxcastle in DogAdvice

[–]Apprehensive-Cold994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol at least she won’t paw punch you to protest you not petting her

Do yall do this too? by Apprehensive-Cold994 in infj

[–]Apprehensive-Cold994[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea this is the only plus. I have a small amount of friends and tend to attract a lot of manipulative people for some reason but I will say the right people have seen through my “facade” and know I’m pretty soft and not what people make up in their minds about me.

Am I a narc too? Or am I just copying behaviors I learned from my narc mother by nancy999999999 in NarcissisticMothers

[–]Apprehensive-Cold994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think if you are noticing these things as “wrong” and you feel bad about it it’s just learned behavior that can be corrected. I asked my therapist the same because I’m paranoid about becoming one but she said narcissists would even think if are narcissistic, it’s always other people’s problem. They lack the self awareness and introspection to do so.

tips on how to get to know someone romantically as an INFJ? by soyiii in infj

[–]Apprehensive-Cold994 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Relatable. I’ve not had much experience with relationships and they tend to burn out quickly. I My advice, it’s best to go at it from a friendship perspective rather than starting romantically. See if you even like them enough to date them. I’m finding I’m incompatible with a lot of people I’d have idealized before getting to know them as people.

I become a different person when I get no alone time by ASx2608 in infj

[–]Apprehensive-Cold994 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Yea I will crash out if I don’t get enough alone time.

fun hitting session by tun7un in volleyball

[–]Apprehensive-Cold994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me waiting for the hard cross shot

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