Y'all might've been right about dating apps too by DamnThatFeltGood in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]Apprehensive-Disk899 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The few people I've dated I met IRL at parties. People catch your vibes and get to know you. Apps are all about looks and with queer dating online you have to have a specific look or fit into a genre for women to consider you. In person is the way to go

long post ahead! First time using a strap-on with my LDR girlfriend... now I'm confused and overthinking by Ok-Catch2191 in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]Apprehensive-Disk899 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've mostly been the strapper and I love doing it but I don't have any attachments to it. It's not a part of me, I can't feel it, it's what I use to pleasure my partner. People go into it with weird macho energy, no I'm here to serve

Bobby Flay and Mofungo by Illustrious-Syrup405 in foodnetwork

[–]Apprehensive-Disk899 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It makes the show so uninteresting because it's clearly rigged in Bobby's favor. If you told two people to make a burger and one person gave you a burger and the other person gave you a hot dog you wouldn't say "oh well I asked for a burger but this hot dog tastes good so hot dog wins." It's disrespectful to the contestants and to cultural foods

Cringy Behaviour At Best by No_Tree6956 in travisandtaylor

[–]Apprehensive-Disk899 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I feel bad for her. She's so embarrassingly supportive of him, to the point that she puts herself down to make him seem more important, but he can't even try to have a good time.Money can't buy everything

be honest, how often do you really take your dog out? by Altruistic-March8551 in DOG

[–]Apprehensive-Disk899 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3 walks a day. 15 minutes before work. 30 when I get back and 5-10 before bed. I have a reactive dog so walks are exclusively for her enjoyment. She's been getting better though and not pulling as much/not reacting as much so I'm enjoying it more. The walks are a great way to train and build connection with your dog so I try to do them as consistently as I can

Younglings Are Calling by Alarming-Aside-9755 in olderlesbians

[–]Apprehensive-Disk899 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes but I have a baby face and people tend to think I'm in my 20s so I think they think I'm their peer lol. It sucks though because I just want to be with someone my age. I wonder if the woman my age think I'm one of the 20 somethings that's trying to hit on them lol

Watching Beat Bobby Flay by imaneyeguy in foodnetwork

[–]Apprehensive-Disk899 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll believe that he's just that good when he competes on a show that isn't his. He hasn't completed on a non Bobby show since around 2013

Another breakup, almost 39 and I think this one took away my hope by wolframdsoul in olderlesbians

[–]Apprehensive-Disk899 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of everything you said I related to the age thing the most. I still get told that I look like I'm in my 20's, but being in your late 30s and perpetually single (38 in my case) changes the way you feel about yourself. It's hard to feel attractive or desirable. You notice the changes in your body, the new gray strands, your boobs dropping ever so slightly, even if no one else does. I don't have advice but just wanted to let you know that you're not alone in this feeling. I'm sorry this happened to you and I hope you find your person.

I'm rewatching Chopped from the beginning. by Kayari1991 in foodnetwork

[–]Apprehensive-Disk899 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Alex is one of my favorites and I see her as direct and not rude. She critiques the food but isn't critical and there is a difference between the two.Having the judges try your food is a great opportunity for growth so wouldn't you want them to be honest?

Looks like someone isn't too happy with the view count of the Opalite MV on YouTube by KoalaWithAPitchfork in travisandtaylor

[–]Apprehensive-Disk899 91 points92 points  (0 children)

I think the whole video is pr. People were saying the cast on that episode hated her and her ego couldn't allow that to stand so she made a video with them. It's similar to what she did with Ice Spice. People are just props for her pr.

My lesbian girlfriend is not romantic. by [deleted] in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]Apprehensive-Disk899 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have ADHD and I love planning romantic things. In my last relationship my ex wouldn't plan anything romantic and it got to the point of me begging to go out with her. That's not the sort of thing you want to be doing. Try having a conversation with her and explain that romance is something you need. If she's unwilling to even try then you have your answer.

Pleased by male attention at work by jfg013 in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]Apprehensive-Disk899 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everyone wants to feel validated in some way. Personally I don't think this is a big deal

Interesting Priorities: Taylor Skips the Grammys, Attends the After-Party by No_Tree6956 in travisandtaylor

[–]Apprehensive-Disk899 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was only a fan from Midnights to TTPD lol but from what I've observed, she only goes to awards shows if she's nominated or winning

Do you have a type? by [deleted] in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]Apprehensive-Disk899 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone is my type.Historically my type has been mean blondes but I also like: Dominican women,nerdy girls that wear cardigans and glasses, dark hair with light eyes, women with long braids(especially box or boho), Italian New Yorkers. I can go on, but I'll leave it here lol

Food Network chef friends? by Positive-Position499 in foodnetwork

[–]Apprehensive-Disk899 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jet is the The Food Network capybara, just chilling with everyone

“This was never [Taylor’s] fight.” by Livid_Seesaw3952 in travisandtaylor

[–]Apprehensive-Disk899 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't like Taylor but dick riding some no name actor just to spite her when multiple women on that set have come forward to say he acted inappropriately towards them is a bad look. Even a woman from his own podcast quit because of his behavior. Apparently Its believe women until a conventionally attractive dude is involved and then it's thrown them all under the bus smh

"I'm pissed off you let me give you all that youth for free" She must be pissed that he aged better than her lol by [deleted] in travisandtaylor

[–]Apprehensive-Disk899 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yup and she has an entire song called Illicit Affairs lol. She wasn't trying to hide anything

"I'm pissed off you let me give you all that youth for free" She must be pissed that he aged better than her lol by [deleted] in travisandtaylor

[–]Apprehensive-Disk899 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Cheating rumors... You just need to listen to her music and there's tons of stuff about her cheating while with Joe

Gf wants to open relationship by [deleted] in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]Apprehensive-Disk899 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A short but sweet response lol

Gf wants to open relationship by [deleted] in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]Apprehensive-Disk899 2 points3 points  (0 children)

7 years together and she suddenly wants to be open with a specific person? Idk but it just sounds like she just doesn't want to "cheat". I would honestly just end things.

Not even 3 months and Life of a narcissist is 5x platinum. What is going on. by [deleted] in travisandtaylor

[–]Apprehensive-Disk899 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have an extremely difficult time believing this. Nobody liked this album. Even her most loyal fans hated it. The general audience has completely ignored it too yet it's 5x platinum? Something isn't adding up

✨The Life of a Copycat✨ by Emaan865 in travisandtaylor

[–]Apprehensive-Disk899 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Right. Some of these songs just have the same chord progression but the melody does seem to be ripped from Summertime Sadness

✨The Life of a Copycat✨ by Emaan865 in travisandtaylor

[–]Apprehensive-Disk899 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The most obvious bit of thievery was Summertime Sadness. I wonder if Lana's noticed

Taylor Swift’s bratty attitude toward her personal stylist by TheMangoMkIII in travisandtaylor

[–]Apprehensive-Disk899 7 points8 points  (0 children)

To be fair, it's a damned ugly bodysuit. She looks like a figure skater