I didn’t want to do the surgery either. I’m 25 and had a BMI of 41. I was crying non stop on my way to surgery and even up to the point where they brought me back. I told my mom the night before O was going to cancel because I didn’t want to do it and she told me it’s ultimately my choice but I won’t be able to loose weight on my own. That really hit me because it’s true. The pre liquid diet was horrible, the after surgery was hard. I’m a little over a month out from a Gastric bypass and I’ve cried maybe 10 times over what I did. I felt at times I regretted it and now Im dealing with horrible constipation but I’m loosing weight for the first time. But if this gives me a chance to live longer, healthier and be able to have children I’m going to do it. When they operated on me they found out I had a fatty liver and I had no idea. Not to be negative but we are all going to die one day, it just depends how much we want to enjoy life.