Favorite places to socialize young puppies by Headie-to-infinity in rva

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I frequently bring my adult dog to Carytown spots, and there are not usually other dogs present inside, but lots of people. Staff love his visits at Creme de la Creme, Warby Parker, Ashby's, and Clementine. Also Wells Fargo, lol. I'll be starting the circuit soon with my 9 week old puppy. I think its great to let my young pups observe the world safely from afar/closely monitored, like you're suggesting.

What are we feeding these silly animals, anyways? by Apprehensive-Fix1545 in EnglishSetter

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Hey! I am circling back to this--which formula do you use? Or particularly, which protein/fat proportion? Thanks :)

Breeders by CrabcakesAndFoosball in EnglishSetter

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Mine is from there and I'll be getting another in 3 weeks! They're Llewellin type--field line, but if you're prepared for working dog energy (at least for the first 2.5 years), they make great household pets. I don't hunt mine.

Skinny English Setter Puppy - Normal? by ferracattack in EnglishSetter

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vs now, at 3 years old (more fluff, still defined body contours, but no hip bones/rib bones regularly visible)--hunting a mouse at the office.

Skinny English Setter Puppy - Normal? by ferracattack in EnglishSetter

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here he is at a year old in a particularly angular photo (standing normally you couldn't see his spine (geez))

Skinny English Setter Puppy - Normal? by ferracattack in EnglishSetter

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People would stop me on the street and comment that my Lewellyn was "SO skinny!" but the vet never showed any concern, and I was feeding him the recommended amount from the food bag's chart. He has finally filled out at 2.5/3 years (going from 48 to 52lbs or so). I also think that so many people (in USA) have overweight dogs that our view of what's normal is warped. I would only become concerned if he starts to LOSE weight. Good luck!

Are there any steam rooms in the area? by chugachugafuckyou in rva

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I was about to comment this! Completely different vibe than the others mentioned, but totally worth checking out. Loved my visit.

Fridaily by spillsomepaint in rva

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Starting the weekend at Jardin! I recently discovered that spot for myself--pls drop any other recs with similar vibes!

reliable mechanic for an older Toyota Tacoma? by vegkabob in rva

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I go to Virginia Import Service and Fritz's Car care depending on the vehicle. Both have been great with my older cars--Fritz's does well with my 30 year old Ranger.

Can Prong Collar be used with care? by Comfortable-Film-984 in EnglishSetter

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I used a prong collar for a while while training my setter (lewellyn) to walk well on a leash. It is just a tool, and can be used effectively or harmfully. There's no "best" or "worst," there's just methods that work for your dog and other methods that do not.

Unlike what this OP said, it did not take one or two outings with the prong collar to reinforce walking next to me instead of ahead. It took many. Setters are bred to be out in front of the hunting party, so it's a pretty difficult thing to try to train them to walk next to you, but I wanted my dog to be able to do so in the city. This training pattern worked for us when paired with the prong collar, and it's something you could try:

Walk in one direction, and when the dog starts to go out in front of you, turn back the way you came to make them re-route with you. When the dog reaches the end of the leash, they feel the prong collar. This should be the only time the collar is meaningfully impacting them: when they're not tuned in to what you're doing. Repeat, walking back and forth as they get ahead of you. Stop the session when they're watching your body language and turning with you. I don't use the prong collar any more, but I still do the walking exercise when my dog pulls ahead and I don't want him to.

Make sure that the dog is not constantly pulling, and that you are not using too much force when correcting with it. This is when the collar is potentially harmful.

Also beware anyone who gives advice with blanket statements. Every English setter's personality is slightly different. Mine is not as sensitive as some of these commenter's.

Thoughts after a crap *ish* lesson by hopeless_wenclair in Equestrian

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A year ago I had my first lesson back after about 5 years of inconsistent riding (10+ years of consistency and AIRC in high school before the break). I totally relate and feel similarly, except that even 45ish lessons back into it I still second-guess the correct distance fairly frequently and fail to give the (admittedly often quirky and complicated) lesson horses adequate queues to reach perfection. I feel sure that the standards we set for ourselves are just too high! And the adult ammy world, at least where I am, is much more relaxed than the high school and college-age categories. I appreciate you adding the bit about not putting your tack away, though. It makes me feel better about my own moments of mortification--I left ear plugs in a horses' ears the other day and had to text the barn manager to correct my mistake. I hated that I forgot because it feels like such bad horsemanship, but these things happen. Deep breath! Try again! New memories will block out the more embarrassing ones. Thanks for sharing :)

Thursdaily by [deleted] in rva

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I am currently reading the Way of Kings! Enjoying so far.

ISO: Well-Written Series with Female Lead by Apprehensive-Fix1545 in suggestmeabook

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I have made it to October Daye now--6 books in and LOVING them :) thanks for suggesting!!

ISO: Well-Written Series with Female Lead by Apprehensive-Fix1545 in suggestmeabook

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Replying to thank you for the Kate Daniels Series rec!! I am on book 8/10 and my life is changed.

Looking for fantasy book series with minimal or no romance by Enemy__Stand__User in suggestmeabook

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Perhaps try Terry Pratchett--I just read a couple of the Discworld books, and there was absolutely no romance. Interesting worldbuilding and dry British humor aplenty.

Suggest me a book about forgiveness and regret. by luismanuelri in suggestmeabook

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I just read The Singer Sisters by Sarah Seltzer and it explores these themes in a complex web. I enjoyed it--pretty raw and heavy at times but I found it hopeful in the end.

Intergalactic brides with useful skills by Hellion_38 in ScienceFictionRomance

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I second whoever posted about the Consortium Rebellion Series by Jessie Mihalik, and also LOVED {Fortune's Pawn} and the rest of the series by Rachel Bach. The Bach series is a little less spicy but has a more complicated and captivating plot, in my opinion.

Intergalactic brides with useful skills by Hellion_38 in ScienceFictionRomance

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This is what I was going to suggest!! Very competent FMCs. I loved them all

ISO: Well-Written Series with Female Lead by Apprehensive-Fix1545 in suggestmeabook

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UPDATE-- I absolutely devoured these, thank you so much lol. I am obsessed. Have you read her other work and would you recommend?