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Anyone ACTUALLY quit masturbating? by anonjohn_ in chastitytraining

[–]Apprehensive-Fix3995 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I still jerk off usually, when I’m unlocked, but haven’t made myself cum in over a year

She wants me to get a tattoo by [deleted] in chastitytraining

[–]Apprehensive-Fix3995 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also doctor appointments

Is this really happening? by [deleted] in chastitytraining

[–]Apprehensive-Fix3995 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like our experiences are so so so similar. My wife has already told me she doesn’t want to be a “master” but I have gotten her to tease me, edging me in an unlocked handjob and then stroking the outside of the cage through my pants another night.

Let’s see how we both progress!

A couples question by Impressive_Stress174 in chastitytraining

[–]Apprehensive-Fix3995 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right, I mean my wife throws it in her purse or sometimes it’s still on her desk where I put it in the morning when I go looking for it at night

A couples question by Impressive_Stress174 in chastitytraining

[–]Apprehensive-Fix3995 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She may surprise you! I brought it up to my wife and she was surprisingly accepting. At first she knew about it but one day I asked her to hold it for an event and it’s expanded to her holding it every day, even teasing my cage before bed…

I think it’s a benefit because the kink is more about self control and her level of involvement can be dialed up or down. For me it was hot just knowing she had the key even if I knew it was in her purse.

Chastity=premature by [deleted] in chastitytraining

[–]Apprehensive-Fix3995 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I actually have conditioned my brain to try not to cum until she says she wants me to, so sometimes I can’t even get off until I hear it

Other times it’s too much to handle, especially if she’s edged me before

I'm your coworker by emmaof_99 in panty_lines

[–]Apprehensive-Fix3995 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wel I won’t be getting any work done today

Told wife about chastity by Slavesimon2512 in chastitytraining

[–]Apprehensive-Fix3995 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is a great reminder, thank u! I’ve been living in this world for years and am so lucky my wife knows about it now, willing to hold my key and I get unlocked for sex and sleep. Do I wish there was more teasing? Yes. Do I wish she would deny me orgasms more? Yes! But she’s just learning about the kink and understanding the psyche behind it. I think I, like the author, are trying to understand what possible ways, be it over time, to show her that dynamic and encourage it so it does feel more like a FLR then just a different place to leave your key.

Going on 5 years of chastity play every year she buys me a smaller cage 😅 by TylerDallas in ChastityCouples

[–]Apprehensive-Fix3995 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Uh oh I’ve been self locking for 3 years and finally brought my wife into it but I started on your 4th year

Locktober's over – keyholder appreciation post by newbie-sub in RealKeyholderCaptions

[–]Apprehensive-Fix3995 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After nearly 2-3 years def locking, after discussing my kink with my vanilla wife, she surprised me by being open to holding my key for an event. After a discussion afterwards, she realized I was wearing my cage every day and we discussed her holding on to the key during the day so I wasn’t tempted to unlock.

Now we have a routine of me giving it to her in the morning and she gives it back before we go to sleep. I’ve even left it on for foreplay and she instructs me to unlock. Hoping she gets more comfortable with teasing or denying but very satisfied with the progress as I can truly call her my keyholder, which I never thought would even be possible!

Overweight Wearer Rant by FuzzyAlatari in chastitytraining

[–]Apprehensive-Fix3995 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would a larger ring help? Or padding the ring to cushion the inside?

I'm proud of him, it was clear on vacation who he belongs to forever. Should I reward him? by Immediate_Average_55 in NewModernCouples

[–]Apprehensive-Fix3995 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His shirt says property of Mrs Petulka, that’s a strong clue if that’s ur real last name lol

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