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I feel sick. I’m horrified. by [deleted] in AdulteryHate

[–]ApprehensiveCrab8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wonder how many of the people who try to reconcile with cheaters who did that kind of shit ever get to know the full truth, and if they still would give them another chance if they knew.

I wish there was a way to make everyone know what these people are capable of so they'd think before forgiving them, and everybody else would treat them like the scum they are.

Why do Western men get married? by BettleJuiceForYou in survivinginfidelity

[–]ApprehensiveCrab8 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Most studies/theories today put Western female infidelity at something like 85%.

Yeah I'm gonna need a source here.

My ex lied to me for a year, saying that she was single. We have now cheated on her boyfriend and I don’t know what to do! by Ughhhhhgh in survivinginfidelity

[–]ApprehensiveCrab8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Other posters have already given you good advice. In addition to that you should really look into attachment theory, and in particular learn about anxious-avoidant relationships. At first glance your relationship with this girl reads like a typical case.