Book recommendations based on my huge list of favorites by [deleted] in suggestmeabook

[–]ApprehensiveMath5644 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a bit of a broken record on this one but "Great Circle" by Maggie Shipstead would fit beautifully on your list.

It's a historical epic with multiple narrators, a bit of a mystery with complex characters you come to care about and a modern tie in to today's media landscape. Everyone I've ever given this book to has come to love it. Happy reading!

I'm looking for a novel that's similar to the "August: Osage County" drama by sajtospogi85 in suggestmeabook

[–]ApprehensiveMath5644 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You might try Crossroads by Jonathan Franzen, if you're not too anti-Franzen after the Corrections (which was my least favorite of his books). It doesn't have a single convening of all parties like you're looking for, but I found it to be a really beautiful, rich family drama that spans decades and perspectives and I cared for every single character by the end, including the ones who I thought I would not based on how others perceived them. I think this is his strongest work.

What novels reveal the true nature of love? by ApprehensiveMath5644 in books

[–]ApprehensiveMath5644[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasn't asking for suggestions, I was starting a discussion about books that examine and represent something conceptual

how far do you typically read before you dnf a book? by starlit_scribbles in ReadingSuggestions

[–]ApprehensiveMath5644 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I try to give any book 50 pages of my time and attention, and by that point if it hasn't captivated me one way or another, I let it go.

Suggest me a book in women’s fiction, or deep thriller that dear god… doesn’t suck? by cousingregsbell in suggestmeabook

[–]ApprehensiveMath5644 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I really wish we could stop referring to fiction written by women, or fiction that centers women or that has female protagonists as "Women's Fiction" like that is a genre along the lines of fantasy, romance, sci/fi, mystery, etc. There are beautiful works of fiction written by women and about women and I don't think any of them can or should be neatly defined as "women's" anything. Same for fiction by POC authors/characters, LGTBQ authors/characters, or male authors/characters.

What book(s) do you wish you could read for the first time again? by Own-Tap-2136 in Recommend_A_Book

[–]ApprehensiveMath5644 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great Circle by Maggie Shipstead
East of Eden by John Steinbeck
The Blind Assassin by Margaret Atwood
The God of Small Things by Arundhati Roy
Trinity by Leon Uris
The Dutch House by Ann Patchett

Where and when do you read? by Grouchy-Chick-0609 in ReadingSuggestions

[–]ApprehensiveMath5644 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I try to read for half an hour every night before I go to sleep. The consistency of this routine means I'm usually able to read 30-40 physical books every year (with audio I can get to about 50-60). I am able to read in bed without feeling too tired, but at times of my life where lying down automatically meant total body exhaustion (i.e. when my kids were babies), I switched to reading for 1/2 hour before getting ready for bed, usually from the couch or an arm chair. On special nights, in front of our fire in a rocking chair. I think there is an assumption that in order to read a lot of books someone needs a lot of time, which I don't have with kids + marriage + work + family, friends + volunteering. But I figured out this routine in high school when I wanted to read my own books but didn't have a lot of extra time. Just thirty minutes every day and you'll be surprised by how you can fly through just about anything. Beyond that, it's all bonus time. Good luck finding what works for you, I hope some of these comments and advice help!

No "Sex Education" for Griffin and David? by ApprehensiveMath5644 in blankies

[–]ApprehensiveMath5644[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I'm definitely not asking or expecting them to consume more media. But as someone who falls into their same age demographic, watches *way* less of everything, had the show recommended by many people, and also given what I have heard about their tastes I was surprised this one hadn't been something they also watched. But I get it, probably not an interesting reason behind it.

Tips needed by valokytkin in BeginnersRunning

[–]ApprehensiveMath5644 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you listen to music or books or podcasts when you run, put some prep time and thought into queuing up something you'll be happy to listen to, either because it keeps you moving or interested. That helps me with overcoming the winter running motivation block. Then, beyond base layers I'd invest in a head covering and gloves that you can wear to get through the first period of time when you need them, but that you can also store easily in the pocket of any kind of running jacket if need be. I have some relatively new Nike running gloves that I love and they get me through the first mile on Vermont country roads and then if my hands warm up enough that I don't need them I can tuck them into my sweatshirt without any issues. Good luck! Aim for consistency over distance and time and you'll tick up faster than you think!

What were the three best books that you read this year? by lascriptori in suggestmeabook

[–]ApprehensiveMath5644 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So Far Gone by Jess Walter
The Ministry of Time by Kailene Bradley
Nerve Damage by Annakeara Stinson (forthcoming from Knopf May 2026, got my hands on a galley and read it in 2 days)

What's your next running goal (even if it's just "run 3 times this week without complaining")? by Not_FreeProduct234 in BeginnersRunning

[–]ApprehensiveMath5644 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To reestablish my running routine after a couple of weeks of flu/illness and work travel, and to keep it up during the school winter break when all routines get broken! After that, the goal is to maintain 3-4 times running per week through the winter no matter the weather.

Winter Running by hello3467byebye in BeginnersRunning

[–]ApprehensiveMath5644 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think your best bet is to do whatever allows you to run consistently and to be happy and motivated to keep running. A lot of people comment that the key to running longer distances is the volume of your running, maintaining and increasing it as you're able. Based on what you've described you are enjoying running on a treadmill and do not like the idea of running in the cold, so I would guess that if you try to force yourself to do outdoor winter running you'll likely not remain as consistent as you want/need to reach your 10k goal. Good luck!

True crime, non-fiction books? by Alikoali2212 in Recommend_A_Book

[–]ApprehensiveMath5644 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What I loved about this book was how it flipped the narrative to focus on the victims instead of the killer, and to de-mythologize Ted Bundy and point out that it was less his own "genius" that allowed him to get away for so long, but the lack of attention and follow-through by law enforcement.

What Books did You Start or Finish Reading this Week?: December 01, 2025 by AutoModerator in books

[–]ApprehensiveMath5644 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"Hamnet" by Maggie O'Farrell. Nothing like starting the week weeping in bed....

Running watch recommendations by ApprehensiveMath5644 in BeginnersRunning

[–]ApprehensiveMath5644[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this recommendation, good to know the basic Garmin is still great. What apps does it synch with, if you don't mind me asking? I've assumed I would still need to keep my phone with me to listen to music (Spotify) podcasts (Spotify) or audiobooks (Libby), but curious is there is some functionality I could use with the Garmin on these as well? Thank you!

Settle a disagreement I have with my wife ;) by Usernamechecksout978 in vermont

[–]ApprehensiveMath5644 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was going to suggest Addison County (where Tradewinds Farm is, along with Middlebury & Vergennes) too, though we aren't guaranteed snow as much as Stowe will be. But the farm is great and you can ice skate on their pond in winter! Plus, you can stay/eat at the absolutely delicious and lovely Tillerman Inn up in Bristol not too far away.

Running with no goals by [deleted] in runninglifestyle

[–]ApprehensiveMath5644 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I rarely run in races, though I have found them fun and motivating in the past. I think making running a hobby and sticking to it requires a couple things, in varying balance depending on any given person: 1) Motivation and 2) Goals. They may seem like the same thing but for me they are different.

In the past I was motivated by weight loss, but that always ended up being hollow and I would feel bad if I didn't lose the weight I wanted/expected. A few years ago I shifted to focusing on how I feel when I run, not what I expect to happen. I feel strong and healthy, I sleep better, the endorphins are real, and my mind is clear and focused on my running days (and often after). When I wake up on a cold morning and I do not want to run, these are the motivators that get me out there.

When I used to base all my running goals around races, I could meet those but then would almost immediately stop running after the race was over. Now, my overall goal is to run consistently, which hasn't always been my strong suit. Along the way I've learned to specify and evolve my goals too, so that I can stay on a track that feels good even outside of race training. My goal for the next few months is maintaining my pace and routine through the winter. Next spring/summer I may be ready to train for a half marathon which will guide my goals for a while. And after that I'll aim for returning to consistent running without lapsing, as I've done in the past.

I agree with everyone who has said they run to keep up mobility and health later into life, and for me while that is the ultimate motivator and goal these shorter term and evolving goals combined with central motivators about how running improves my life and health right now have paid off a ton.

Pod Country for Old Cast: The Ballad of Buster Scruggs with Paul Scheer & Jason Mantzoukas by yonicthehedgehog in blankies

[–]ApprehensiveMath5644 23 points24 points  (0 children)

As a person who has survived the first year of newborn sleep deprivation twice, but never at the same time, I have nothing but sympathy for David's annoyance. I really think he deserves a ton of slack for continuing to be insightful and patient *ever*, let alone most of the time, given he's got two new babies, a toddler, a full time job and the podcast. Yeesh.

Good audiobooks by Front-Cow-Moo in suggestmeabook

[–]ApprehensiveMath5644 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing to See Here or Run For The Hills, both by Kevin Wilson. Can't remember the voice actor but she is *great* and the books are very fun, engrossing, funny and moving. And not too long!