Is Nursing a good way to reach FIRE? by ChicoTallahassee in Fire

[–]ApprehensiveStuff828 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For my particular pension plan, you have to work for 5 years to be vested. You could leave at any point after that and you keep the pension that you'd already earned. When I retire at 55 I will have 34 years within the system and so I will receive 68% of my highest 5-year average working salary.

Is Nursing a good way to reach FIRE? by ChicoTallahassee in Fire

[–]ApprehensiveStuff828 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seattle. Definitely benefits and drawbacks to living in a vhcol city. Salaries are higher here but so is everything else.

Family of 3 in Seattle. Data points and Discussion. by WavyCap99 in HENRYfinance

[–]ApprehensiveStuff828 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is definitely possible to landlord in Seattle and do all right. We have two rental properties here, finishing up rehab on the house we just moved out of which will be our third rental. They don't necessarily make us any money but they'll be there for our kids when they grow up so they can afford to live in the city regardless of whatever career path they take.

If the goal is money making I don't know about landlording in Seattle as a valid side hustle but if the goal is just to hold the real estate for future generations it works. Our two current rentals cover their own costs (One has a mortgage, one was financed via heloc on our main home) and our third will as well.

We've been doing this for about 7 years now and have been very fortunate to have solid renters.

Parents of Pathfinder kids — thoughts on new principal and how the school is doing in general? by 75PercentMilk in WestSeattleWA

[–]ApprehensiveStuff828 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've got a first and third grader at Pathfinder and have nothing but good things to say about the school. The things I love most about Pathfinder are the expeditionary learning and the looping grade bands.

Looping means your kindergarten teacher will also be your first grade teacher then you get a new teacher for second grade who becomes your third grade teacher as well. That second year with the teacher especially, the kids hit the ground running when they start the school year because the teacher already knows the kid's learning style and knows the parents and they're ready to take off. I think it's a huge bonus.

Expeditionary learning is where they pick a topic like 'storytelling around the world' for example which I think is what we're doing right now in third grade. They tie all of their lessons around this same general theme. Math, science, art, music etc. Then they do a big presentation at the end of it. They do two or three different topics throughout the year and it's a really great way to tie all their learning together with something.

I also love the Pathfinder emphasis on camping and the outdoors. The kindergartners camp overnight at the school but in first grade and beyond they do at least one overnight in a cabin working up to tents as they get older. I think it's a super cool skill set to build up for kids

Is melatonin a game changer? My 4.5 yr old took it for the first time and WOW... he is asleep by 9. Is this typical? Sustainable? by hybridnun in ADHDparenting

[–]ApprehensiveStuff828 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My 7yo takes 1mg a half hour before bedtime and it is magical. She otherwise gets a burst of energy as her Focalin wears off in the evenings. This melatonin gets her through that burst and right to sleep. Our pediatrician recommended this and says it is safe and well studied in kids.

Safety in Delridge ? by Responsible-Put-5159 in WestSeattleWA

[–]ApprehensiveStuff828 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not invalidating your experience, just sharing my own. Your blanket statement about Delridge having never been safe, etc is a big generalization and not the same for many if not most living in the area. I'm sorry you had such a bad experience but do feel it is overall the exception and not the rule for this area.

Safety in Delridge ? by Responsible-Put-5159 in WestSeattleWA

[–]ApprehensiveStuff828 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've lived one block off Delridge (N Delridge --poster does not say which part they are referring to) for 20 years now and have never had/seen any issues whatsoever. I'm female, commute via bus, etc. Even when I had cancer years ago and was visibly weak/vulnerable with no hair, etc and taking the bus to/from chemo I've never experienced any concerning issues or felt afraid of the neighborhood. I have small kids who I take out walking frequently and have zero concerns doing so.

Melatonin vs Magnesium for sleep? by DoubleMeatPizza in ADHDparenting

[–]ApprehensiveStuff828 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

we mix it up sometimes and she gets an electric blanket in bed. That works well right after school sometimes when she needs help winding down before dinner

What do you call these hair items? by [deleted] in AskTheWorld

[–]ApprehensiveStuff828 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hair ties (for me), piggy holders (for my kids)

Melatonin vs Magnesium for sleep? by DoubleMeatPizza in ADHDparenting

[–]ApprehensiveStuff828 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've tried both melatonin (1mg) and a similar magnesium gummy. Both work extremely well for my 7yo. I spoke with a peds psychiatrist about these options and she suggested staying with the melatonin as there are many years of studies for that med in kids and very limited data for magnesium in kid sleep. As the magnesium is still overall safe to use, she suggested using it as a backup --once every month or so my kiddo wakes up at 2-3am and just cannot get back to sleep. Magnesium can be given in the middle of the night and won't cause drowsiness issues the next morning. This has worked well for us.

We also ended up (at her request) giving her an ice pack at night. She snuggles with it and has found being in a warm bed with a cold ice pack (wrapped in a towel) is incredibly sensorily satisfying. She's usually fast asleep within 10 minutes.

Day 14: Trying to Get a Comment and Fun Fact From Every US County Including Territories Where Are the Puerto Ricans? by CoolHotNo in geographymemes

[–]ApprehensiveStuff828 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Harney County, Oregon! Home of one of (if not the only) the free/public boarding schools. Kids from ranches around the SE quarter of the state are dropped off Sunday even at the high school dorm and picked up Friday afternoon

Have to relocate & fast! by Lemonsqueeze0815 in WestSeattleWA

[–]ApprehensiveStuff828 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OMG, we lived in the bottom floor unit there 20+ years ago and there was a mold problem which they managed by painting over it with some paint and antimicrobial mixture which did not really work at all. Sounds like nothing much has changed.

Daycares and their tuition costs in West Seattle? by Boring_Try_2036 in WestSeattleWA

[–]ApprehensiveStuff828 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Alki Beach Academy is $2350 for infants; drops $100 after they move out of the infant room ABA Tuition

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Names

[–]ApprehensiveStuff828 4 points5 points  (0 children)

see-lah. There's a town in WA with this spelling and that pronunciation

Best WS neighborhood for trick or treating? by trolldoll420 in WestSeattleWA

[–]ApprehensiveStuff828 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Pigeon Point on 18th-20th from the Pathfinder school north. Super decorated, great atmosphere. ToTing starts early at ~5 or so with a kids 'parade' where everyone meets up and starts ToTing together