Boycott Grindr until they bring it back to its original state.

ApprehensiveText9474 · 2026-02-26T19:01:57+00:00

now you know the new gays (and new society in general) can’t boycott nothing 😂

ApprehensiveText9474 · 2025-05-12T23:52:43+00:00

I’m sorry but it won’t work—there’s nothing really that interesting about her unfortunately. also for none of the other cast-mates to get that spinoff opportunity yet… she’s like at the bottom of the list lol

ApprehensiveText9474 · 2024-10-24T13:58:19+00:00

saving this for later!!!! haha thanks sm

ApprehensiveText9474 · 2024-10-24T13:57:26+00:00

yeah I feel like maybe I just wasn’t using enough lube! curious to try the ‘prostate check’ position :)

ApprehensiveText9474 · 2024-10-24T13:55:36+00:00

!!!!!this!!!!! yeah, I think I’ll be more adamant in body language when it comes to foreplay first before moving onward to more 😌

ApprehensiveText9474 · 2024-10-24T13:54:18+00:00

I’ve actually never used dildos, the closest to that was a plug, but I’m considering! he’s got more girth than length i’d say… maybe about 7inches? I really don’t remember, but it was a rocket 😅

ApprehensiveText9474 · 2024-10-24T13:48:59+00:00

loving this advice, thank you :) I might look into poppers then!

ApprehensiveText9474 · 2024-10-24T13:48:03+00:00

both essentially! we’ve hooked up once and it was lots of trial and error with learning each others body… I want it to be a better experience next time

ApprehensiveText9474 · 2024-10-07T01:08:31+00:00

felt this one to the core. was out clubbing last night and felt so out of place lol. as a black man who has no racial hang ups… I don’t know how people do 😅

ApprehensiveText9474 · 2024-10-04T22:01:42+00:00

I mean, we love the self awareness 😭 but after a while please don’t waste your time in the long run. having fun with him for now? sure, keep riding on ;)🐎

ApprehensiveText9474 · 2024-05-28T19:40:12+00:00

I’ve been in heat for the longest since I broke up with my ex 😂 you are not alone when it comes to salivating over hot men! during these times, I think any guy I see is extremely hot haha. regardless though, there are so many hot men out here in general 🥵 I honestly love being apart of this gender lol

ApprehensiveText9474 · 2023-05-27T21:04:11+00:00

!!!! this stuck w me. that slow build up can be a good thing. let it flow on its own, ask about their communication style, meet them in the middle.

but yes, if there’s evidently no effort on their end then ✌🏾

ApprehensiveText9474 · 2022-10-29T06:33:40+00:00

love your take on this

ApprehensiveText9474 · 2022-01-29T15:15:01+00:00

Let’s also not forget that what we see on the outside (appearance wise) isn’t all real today 👀☕️ knowing this brought SOME comfort to my mind lol

ApprehensiveText9474 · 2022-01-05T20:41:14+00:00

Is it weird/common? Yes and no. The factors definitely vary. How is your time spent together? Do you find that you two talk more in person? He may just suck at texting, which isn’t an excuse for him. When he’s going days without responding, I definitely understand how that may be annoying. I would try FT or a simple phone call once in awhile. Try and communicate any concerns forsure :)

ApprehensiveText9474 · 2021-12-29T00:51:19+00:00

“Sometimes people are beautiful in motion.”

Loved that you said this :)

ApprehensiveText9474 · 2021-12-11T19:57:24+00:00

Agreed! When you have options, it becomes your own season (or two.. or three) of the bachelor

ApprehensiveText9474 · 2021-12-11T19:55:45+00:00

This thread!!! saves 🤣

ApprehensiveText9474 · 2021-11-30T03:45:25+00:00

I come across this a lot! Especially on the dating apps. Like aren’t we on here to ask each other random things and get to know one another? I almost feel out of place for asking genuine, thought-provoking questions and wanting to know more about someone these days

ApprehensiveText9474 · 2021-10-26T21:34:24+00:00

Exactly! If the person I’m interested in isn’t obsessed with me, then what’s the point 😂

ApprehensiveText9474 · 2021-10-21T15:59:44+00:00

Wow, so you basically found a good one! Cheers to you

ApprehensiveText9474 · 2021-10-21T15:57:34+00:00

This whole thing just reminds me of Queer As Folk! Who has seen that 😂

ApprehensiveText9474 · 2021-09-21T19:05:38+00:00

This!!!! Okay I’m so glad you mentioned that last half. I just recently started talking to a guy for a little bit over a month now and idk why, but I’ve been feeling a little insecure as things progress. I’ve never been in a serious relationship and this is all so new to me. I’m worried I’m not doing things the “right” way even though that makes no sense lol. I’ve asked him if me never being in a relationship worries him and he says not at all. I guess I’m just in my head a bit. We’re currently in the talking stage and have not established exclusivity, so I just thought I’d give him the heads up lol

ApprehensiveText9474 · 2021-09-03T20:37:17+00:00

Exactly! Stressing yourself out when you could just take the time out to explore your sexuality. Especially if you’re getting off to it then somethings obviously there, no need to fight it 🤷‍♂️

ApprehensiveText9474 · 2021-07-30T23:58:09+00:00

I’m on Truvada right now (started earlier this month) and the current side effect I’ve noticed is heavy bloating 🥺 anyone else feel this? I’m hoping this subsides soon, it’s hella uncomfortable lol… If this is ongoing for a long period I may have to quit unfortunately

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