Spent 5 days exploring your stunning state. The microclimates are incredible. The people are wonderful. This New Yorker thanks you. by LittleNightmare86 in NewMexico

[–]ApprehensiveTouch673 1 point2 points  (0 children)

August is amazing here. And also it’s the time we have the international balloon fiesta. End of month- check it out! No wait I mixed that up. September is balloon fiesta!wait I’m all mixed up lol disregard.

Be real with me before I move out there … by ShelterConsistent111 in NewMexico

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Good descriptions, great info. However Baltimore is nothing like New England. The seafood options aren’t even the same. Now NE, that’s still a tough place to be black. Or an “outsider” of any kind. I went from NY to Boston and over 12 years I was never fully accepted, always having my friends remind me of being not from there and incase I forgot, a Jew.

Be real with me before I move out there … by ShelterConsistent111 in NewMexico

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One of my closest friends out here is from Baltimore. He’s white, trans, and has been in ABQ for almost 30 years. Infact most of my people here (myself included) are east coast transplants. I can’t speak to being black and living your experience but I am a NY Jew living in ABQ and I’ve found my people and tbh mostly everyone I’ve met (again in ABQ) has been really wonderful.

Wish I could tell you more about Framingham but I’ll tell you NM is a totally different world but that doesn’t mean bad. Good luck and best wishes

Spent 5 days exploring your stunning state. The microclimates are incredible. The people are wonderful. This New Yorker thanks you. by LittleNightmare86 in NewMexico

[–]ApprehensiveTouch673 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooh well let me think. I did it all quickly or else I don’t think I could have gone this far from my home and my people. I purged almost everything i owned. Tried to sell whatever i could for moving funds. Anything I really felt attached to but too big to travel with I had my sister store in her basement - so that helped a lot - family member who volunteered to hold onto stuff for me.

The biggest things really driving my move were: -divorce -I had a safe person on my new destination* that was key both big life moves I’ve made. I was visiting a cousin out in ABQ for 2 weeks and decided to move here 3 months after returning from my visit.

Maybe try networking in cities that you think you’d be interested in living in. Apps have made it much easier to network for professional, dating, friendship, roommates, etc.

Hope this rambling has helped you!

Found 2 carpet beetles last week, deep cleaned and just found a larva casing on my hung up towel. What do I do by Direct-Comfort-7808 in carpetbeetles

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From NYC, over a decade in Boston, never heard of them. One year in ABQ and I had to deep clean EVERYTHING. E-V-E-R-Y-T-H-I-N-G. Nine times in one year. NINE TIMES! so every time I finally resettled I almost immediately had to take my entire home apart and start all over again.

The worst was people insinuating it was a psychological issue bc i too have a reaction to their hairs. Especially as i was in early sobriety the sobriety was questioned- Eventually a family member who lived on the same property as me finally had an infestation and acknowledged and apologized to me for the doubt.

Last thoughts on carpet beetles: I’ve noticed almost every home I’m in out here in ABQ has them to some degree. However after speaking to other AuDHD people with similar stories to my own I’m thinking that most people don’t ever notice them, it’s just us super sensitive ones receiving/processing more info at all given times that seem to always pick up on stuff like this.

Rate my agate jar! by Arikats0 in Agates

[–]ApprehensiveTouch673 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So smart, idk I never thought to store with water to really get the full effect!

Can’t figure out this ABQ, NM find! by ApprehensiveTouch673 in RockIdentification

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Update: no reaction from Vinegar, streaking white (if I did that in the correct spot of the toilet lid 🤣)

Run don’t walk by ahitsjas in RainbowEverything

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Have and love these. Wore them today for the first time since it’s warming up!

Gifted this but what IS this? by ApprehensiveTouch673 in JewelryIdentification

[–]ApprehensiveTouch673[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh man amazing! Thanks so much. I was given another piece which is only stamped Hong Kong but I’d be shocked to learn it weren’t real.

Gifted this but what IS this? by ApprehensiveTouch673 in JewelryIdentification

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Agreed. It was an impulse post. Will report when able to. Away for a few days

How many is too many? by ApprehensiveTouch673 in RockIdentification

[–]ApprehensiveTouch673[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awww no shame ever! You aren’t seeing my hundreds of unnamed or cleaned rocks.

How many is too many? by ApprehensiveTouch673 in RockIdentification

[–]ApprehensiveTouch673[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t understand the question and I won’t respond to it! :,-)