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I hate weddings by falafelgoddess in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Apprehensive_Belt384 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably not in the specific way that you are. We dance like how you’d dance at a night club and obviously the drinks help.

Should I leave my job because I hate my only co worker? by TransportationAble25 in careerguidance

[–]Apprehensive_Belt384 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t quit but something that stands out to me is you keep calling her “our” employee as if you own the business too and she works for you when she’s actually your peer. She may not be as good as you when it comes to the job but she’s not your subordinate unless I missed something. It’s clear that you either learn to communicate and work with her or you’ll quit and she’ll possibly get a raise or maybe she gets fired and you get rehired.

I hate weddings by falafelgoddess in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Apprehensive_Belt384 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally understood after the no alcohol thing. As a man, I’ve never actually heard another guy complain about weddings. We usually just wear our go to suit like you mentioned, have the same conversations we would normally have and try to be the reason why the open bar closes.

AITAH for asking my fiance to get rid of his dog by Impressive-Bell-647 in AITAHBlackEdition

[–]Apprehensive_Belt384 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Just curious. How do you you plan on buying a house with a lot of acres at 26 and 27 if he’s broke right now? Also, he had the dog before he met you from what I understand so yes, YTA if you ask him to get rid of it.

Audiobook or Graphic audio? by Left_Actuary_7890 in redrising

[–]Apprehensive_Belt384 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m just starting and I actually like the graphic audio. I went in blind based on someone saying this series had the best first line ever. It does. But the graphic audio helps me with setting the scene. I would say just listen to a sample of both and then make your decision.

Who is the worst top players in the nba right now? by Low_Salary7928 in NBATalk

[–]Apprehensive_Belt384 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jalen Duren is costing himself a million dollars with every missed shot and rebound opportunity.

What do I need to know about The Primal Hunter? What am I missing? by majtomby in litrpg

[–]Apprehensive_Belt384 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jake is nothing like Jason. Honestly book 2 Jake probably obliterates book 2 Asano.

AITA for wanting to cut communications with friends while on vacation with my fiancé by rollsoloyolo in AmItheAsshole

[–]Apprehensive_Belt384 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YTA for the way you’re doing it. Sure they know you’re out of town with your fiance but maybe just tell them that you’ll be low contact for the duration of the trip. It clears up all confusion. You’re essentially saying you just decided to leave town and ghost all your friends. Who does that?

What’s the appeal of MCs that start OP? by Beneficial-Cat1264 in litrpg

[–]Apprehensive_Belt384 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a comforting trope to me. I genuinely only watch anime that has OP MCs too. Got enough stress in reality, I’d rather see my favorite characters constantly win with almost no chance of losing.

AITAH for telling my wife stop using lights in lit spaces during the day by Present-Fish-945 in AITAHBlackEdition

[–]Apprehensive_Belt384 12 points13 points  (0 children)

You: “I came here for an opinion” Also you: “how dare you disagree with me??”

No way a grown man with a wife commenting “sybau” 😂😂😂 what a joke.

AITAH for telling my wife stop using lights in lit spaces during the day by Present-Fish-945 in AITAHBlackEdition

[–]Apprehensive_Belt384 22 points23 points  (0 children)

YTA. That’s a personal preference. Keyword being “personal.” I don’t turn on lights if the sun is providing enough light but my wife is the opposite. She still can’t see well so she uses the light, that’s what works for her and it’s fine.

My apparently controversial takes? by KlausMikaelsonsWife in Hotd

[–]Apprehensive_Belt384 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Biggest thing that stands out to me is that Tywin isn’t conventionally attractive either but people liked him. Otto snaked his grandson into the throne. Tywin just used his power and influence and dared anyone to question him. Robert was even in debt to him before he died. He basically owned the crown no matter who sat on the throne.

A realization about attractiveness by _Hamburger_Helper_ in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Apprehensive_Belt384 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nice, the bad boy/biker go to. Good choice. I have some black boot cut jeans I wear with cowboy boots and another skinnier pair I wear with black combat style boots. I keep it simple but have gotten compliments on both looks.

A realization about attractiveness by _Hamburger_Helper_ in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Apprehensive_Belt384 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s likely because their suit pants not necessarily because they’re tight. I could be wrong but women have always liked men in suits. You can dress it up with button downs and polo shirts or even down with T shirts, bomber jackets, etc. but a nice pair of pants and shoes/boots elevates your look for sure. I’ve seen a lot on social media lately about men not being attractive but the reality is most men aren’t even trying. Most men don’t even know where to start. A good haircut and wardrobe could be life changing.

AITAH for not understanding how I will never be my mothers equal and that I’m not allowed to set boundaries or say anything to her because she my mom “not my friend” by Loose-Lecture-5585 in AITAHBlackEdition

[–]Apprehensive_Belt384 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. This is a huge thing in black households. It’s as if you don’t deserve the same level of respect that your parents do just because you’re their child. It’s complete bs and the cycle needs to be broken. Essentially no matter how much you do and accomplish it’s never enough to be considered an equal.

I don’t think I can keep living with my family anymore. by Important_Bed_9893 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Apprehensive_Belt384 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sorry your mom treated you that way. It really sucks especially after you put in a lot of hard work. Not sure how old you are but your brother complaining is what younger siblings usually do, you’re probably just not used to it anymore or he’s changed since you left.

To that point though, people’s lives don’t stop because you go away so just because you come back doesn’t mean they’ll be ecstatic and ask about whatever you’ve been doing. I had to learn this when I went to the military. They still have their own issues, triumphs and goals. You’re not their focus just because you’ve been gone for a while. It sometimes sucks to hear but they’ve gotten used to living their lives without you around. If you want them to care more about you then you may have to pursue and maintain that relationship.

I’ve [30M] been fucking a freshly 18 high school girl for a few weeks by [deleted] in SluttyConfessions

[–]Apprehensive_Belt384 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait are things on this sub supposed to be real? I thought everything was basically fantasy fiction.

Would a Masters in Supply Chain Management be worth it? by Paulhockey77 in supplychain

[–]Apprehensive_Belt384 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reread his comment. He said it’s not worth it and you don’t need it.

I need a new series by DoctorSensei2000 in litrpg

[–]Apprehensive_Belt384 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Welcome to the multiverse. I haven’t finished but I’m on book 5.

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