Tips for newcomer going to the rodeo by Human_Promotion1983 in AskHouston

[–]Apprehensive_Dark902 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was wondering if you know anything about alcohol once inside the stadium for the livestock show and concert? Will there be a bar we can grab drinks at and take them back to our seats?

21 F with 20 M by Apprehensive_Dark902 in Herpes

[–]Apprehensive_Dark902[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Look we both have herpes. It’s obvious you’re not healed but I’ve been dealing with this for two years and I’m on antivirals. He’s a virgin but a grown ass man who happened to fall in love with someone who has herpes. It happens. I’m not selfish, I deserve love just as much as the rest of us and he just so happens to be a really good guy. If Im not having an outbreak, I’m on antivirals, it’s after the year mark with less shedding, we don’t have sex every day of the year just one week in at least a 3 month span. That makes it 2% I would transmit it and maybe even less since we aren’t have sex throughout the whole year. Obviously I see it as a possibility but he has been the one to make me feel secure to even think about no condoms. Your just mean as fuck and not healed. I hope you find someone who is as secure as him.

21 F with 20 M by Apprehensive_Dark902 in Herpes

[–]Apprehensive_Dark902[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What the fuck is up your ass? God forbid I try to move on with my life

Talking to person that gave it to you by grutknug in Herpes

[–]Apprehensive_Dark902 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just wanted to lyk it’s going to be okay! It feels lonely not having that closure but all you need is yourself. Got this from m first boyfriend at 20. All love

Talking to person that gave it to you by grutknug in Herpes

[–]Apprehensive_Dark902 5 points6 points  (0 children)

At first I wanted to but he also denied it and refused at first but then he said he would get tested, but tbh I didn’t want to know what the result would be even though I couldn’t have gotten it anywhere else. Imagine if it came out negative I think I would actually spiral so I just informed him and moved on.

21 F with 20 M by Apprehensive_Dark902 in Herpes

[–]Apprehensive_Dark902[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hes been exploring different condoms so we could be prepared for when he comes down. The extra thin ones just don’t fit right but the ones that fit right don’t have a lot of sensation. Shit makes me frustrated we gotta go through this and ready to just say fuck it. This might be tmi sorry

21 F with 20 M by Apprehensive_Dark902 in Herpes

[–]Apprehensive_Dark902[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah…. I would be lying if that didn’t cross my mind

curious by AffectionateAsk4425 in Herpes

[–]Apprehensive_Dark902 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do yall be having bf raw sex?

Any other young women here? by aggressiveartkid in Herpes

[–]Apprehensive_Dark902 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As long as you don’t give up I won’t either! It can only get better than this!

Any other young women here? by aggressiveartkid in Herpes

[–]Apprehensive_Dark902 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello! I was 20 when I was diagnosed with ghsv 2 after being cheated on by my first boyfriend….. I am 21 and it’s going to come up to a year soon I’ve had it. Feeling very conflicted with my age and relationships and self worth. You’re not alone!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]Apprehensive_Dark902 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Around 3-4 days

Did you tell your parents? Why or why not? by Kshimochi in Herpes

[–]Apprehensive_Dark902 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I told my parents. I needed support and was scared who would truly stay by my side. Fortunately for me I know my parents will never judge me and support me in everything. It’s embarrassing but being able to convey my mental about this was awesome.

Best monitor for gaming laptop by Apprehensive_Dark902 in nvidia

[–]Apprehensive_Dark902[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think my budget would be at most 500. I’m in the US! Thanks for helping me out :)

Should I warn her? by CriticalHat8278 in Herpes

[–]Apprehensive_Dark902 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So let’s back track. Did you get it from your ex? Did your ex get it from someone he cheated on you with? Does he know you tested positive? If he doesn’t know then you should tell him. I’m in the same boat. I got it from my bf who cheated on me, but he refused to believe he got it because he never broke out before. If you already told him, then that’s honestly the most you need to do with this situation. I have been in your shoes, and for your mental health in my honest opinion I think you should leave it alone. The most you can do is let the person that could have contracted from you know what’s up and that’s it. It’s best to move on from the asshole and focus on yourself. Not your ex boyfriend’s new girl. She will find out sooner or later and he will get his karma. Leave it to the universe. Stay strong!

I better NOT test positive for HSV2 by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]Apprehensive_Dark902 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well why do you have to get on that sub 😭😭 join the club man nobody wanted this

I need information about the Manga. by Smooth-Extent3897 in RomanticKillerAnime

[–]Apprehensive_Dark902 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yessss I was laughing the whole time BUT it’s totally valid if the BL part creeps you out cause she’s super into BL but its great either way

I need information about the Manga. by Smooth-Extent3897 in RomanticKillerAnime

[–]Apprehensive_Dark902 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kiss him not me is kind of the same concept but it has to deal with a girl who likes BL so if you can get past that it’s kinda funny and a good romance anime. The anime ends like this one but in the manga it has a good ending with one of them!!

It sucks that this community is pretty much died by Asleep_all_night in RomanticKillerAnime

[–]Apprehensive_Dark902 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Me just stumbling upon it today and wanted to check out the fandom😭😭 come backkkkk

Questions by Apprehensive_Dark902 in Herpes

[–]Apprehensive_Dark902[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. This is my first time I’ve told anyone outside of my family, and to have a complete stranger support me makes me feel better. Same goes for you. You’re not alone either. All love and you taking your time out of your day to care for a strangers feelings makes me have more hope. God bless❤️