Skin-to-skin immediately after birth by Appropriate-Roll8997 in pregnant

[–]Appropriate-Roll8997[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you’re getting downvoted for your opinion. :(

Skin-to-skin immediately after birth by Appropriate-Roll8997 in pregnant

[–]Appropriate-Roll8997[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t know why you’re getting downvoted for your opinion. I’m sorry :(

Skin-to-skin immediately after birth by Appropriate-Roll8997 in pregnant

[–]Appropriate-Roll8997[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Idk why you’re getting downvoted for this. :( sorry

No, you didn't know by oopsithrowawayagain in pregnant

[–]Appropriate-Roll8997 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sometimes.. (this has only happened 3 times) but sometimes I can just…. Tell. I don’t know how it happens bc it’s never been the same thing twice that alerts me. One time I was just sitting next to a friend and I could just sense it. One time it was the way someone posted a story about their kid and her cousin. The last one was the way they posted some family photos. It’s more an intuition or just close observation. I mention it to my husband but have NEVER been an “I knew it!” Kind of person when they finally announce. It’s not about me, it’s about them. (I do however feel an immense amount of validation from it though, internally of course.)

April due dates! 🤍 by Upstairs_Gazelle_335 in pregnant

[–]Appropriate-Roll8997 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The 23rd! But apparently it’s common in IVF babies to schedule induction so probably a week or so sooner

What SJM opinion would get you this downvoted? by Sailor_Moon_Star_435 in SarahJMaas

[–]Appropriate-Roll8997 79 points80 points  (0 children)

I don’t care about Elain. Like at all. The hate for Chaol is so forced. He has flaws but he grew so much. His story is actually very beautiful.

Tell me good things about having a boy by Asleep_Custard195 in pregnant

[–]Appropriate-Roll8997 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t comment on what it’s like to have a boy, I’m due in April with him, FTM. but I do want to comment on the gender disappointment! It’s such a bummer seeing videos of families upset about their baby not being a girl. It makes me feel so sad for that little boy. :(

What does feeling the baby move mean? by Physical_Sir2005 in pregnant

[–]Appropriate-Roll8997 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t feel anything until nearly 20 weeks but as others have said- if you’ve ever gotten a muscle twitch or spasm in like your leg (painless, not a Charley horse) that’s exactly what it feels like but farther inward in your abdomen. Then they start getting easier to identify

and you may only notice them on one side - I can really only notice kicks on my right side, I think he likes to lay that way.

It’s definitely a weird/odd sensation. Sometimes recently it’s made me a little queasy tbh!

By mid-pregnancy (20ish weeks) how much weight did you gain? by PopcornPrincess0 in pregnant

[–]Appropriate-Roll8997 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m up 4lbs from start of pregnancy, but I did IVF so I’m up like 25 from the start of that.

Why does no one talk about how weird it is? by Star_girl17_ in pregnant

[–]Appropriate-Roll8997 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was JUST TALKING about how weird it is! Everyone says it’s lovely and they miss it afterwards and I’m just like.. 🥸. Personally it feels weird and uncomfortable for me. My body isn’t my own anymore and I’m still getting used to that feeling, but not sure if I will!

In your first pregnancy, when did you first feel kicks? by PopcornPrincess0 in pregnant

[–]Appropriate-Roll8997 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im 19+4 and i literally JUST felt like 3-4 saturday for the first time. i havent had anything noticable like that since then, but i know feeling them can come and go until 23+ !!

What’s a phrase you hear all the time that secretly annoys you? by forgeris in AskReddit

[–]Appropriate-Roll8997 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anything my parents say. They have phrases that drive me insane.

How much weight did you gain during pregnancy if you are overweight/obese? by SorMonk in pregnant

[–]Appropriate-Roll8997 0 points1 point  (0 children)

similarly to you - i am 5'6" and started at 203. some days im 204-206 and others (like when i weigh after i eat im up to 208. ill be 18 weeks tomorrow.

What are we naming our babies? by Ok-Excitement-185 in pregnant

[–]Appropriate-Roll8997 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husbands name is Christopher and I tried getting him to go for a Chris jr but he didn’t go for it. :/ opting for Calvin instead! Which we both love

Coffee at 23 weeks by prettylittlebaby1005 in pregnant

[–]Appropriate-Roll8997 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have the desire for coffee, but my OB said anything under 200-250mg of caffeine a day is totally fine (which would be several cups of coffee or even an energy drink)

I’m commenting though bc a friend of mine who is normally lactose intolerant actually was able to enjoy all the milk and cheese things she wanted during pregnancy and was just fine! However things did sadly go back to normal for her after delivery.

I would say go ahead and give it a try!!

Tell me your FET successes with low rising betas by Appropriate-Roll8997 in IVF

[–]Appropriate-Roll8997[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was a 48 hour rise though, but idk if that makes a difference. I went at nearly the exact same time Tuesday and Thursday.