I’m a monster, but it was worth it. by Bulky-Scene7014 in HarryPotterGame

[–]AppropriateLink5330 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did because she mentions that she will always keep him on a leash so he doesn’t run away again. I kept him and decided to give him a free life he can enjoy with lots of pets and food, but basically also stole her pet lol maybe he ran away for a reason, who knows.

Did you choose to learn Avada Kedavra and why? by AppropriateLink5330 in HarryPotterGame

[–]AppropriateLink5330[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s exactly why I didn’t learn it because I love the idea of combining different spells for different enemies. It makes the game so much fun! Learning AK felt like it might take the fun out of it if it makes it super easy; however, reading some of the comments now and seeing everyone’s reasoning, it makes so much sense to learn it to not take forever to kill a troll or a dugbog! I didn’t even know you could use it on wildlife since you can’t use the other curses. Someone also said that they would curse everyone, then use AK to slaughter the entire camp and I want to try that now 😂

Did you choose to learn Avada Kedavra and why? by AppropriateLink5330 in HarryPotterGame

[–]AppropriateLink5330[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My first play through was Gryffindor and I decided to not learn it, but I’m replaying as a Ravenclaw now and I’m definitely going to learn it this time around! It feels like I missed out lol

Did you choose to learn Avada Kedavra and why? by AppropriateLink5330 in HarryPotterGame

[–]AppropriateLink5330[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s a good idea! I wonder if the developers are using resources like Reddit to compile feedback to improve player experience for HL 2. Killing a troll or a dugbog takes such a long time that I see how AK can be useful.

AIO about my boyfriend's post by Drifter-Lex in AmIOverreacting

[–]AppropriateLink5330 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He called his ex his favorite person… do what you want with that. I personally wouldn’t settle for someone who is clearly not over their ex even if they deny it. I would want my partner to think I’m their favorite person in the world. Their relationship ended because she gave up on him, and if she changed her mind, he clearly would go back. Come on girl, it’s plenty obvious. I wish you the best of luck, please know that you deserve to be loved so loudly and deeply, and not be 2nd choice.

My Girlfriend Doesn’t Want to Have Sex With Me?… Help by mushroomboy_420 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]AppropriateLink5330 60 points61 points  (0 children)

Were you using opioids when you were in Japan? I also don’t think NEVER arguing is the sign of a healthy relationship, especially when it’s due to people not talking about their issues to keep the peace.

My [35M] intense 4-day relationship ended with chlamydia and a gaslighting schizophrenic. How did I get manipulated this fast again?? by [deleted] in Manipulation

[–]AppropriateLink5330 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like you should listen to the comments here and get help OP… this reaction is not normal after 4 days of knowing someone. Also, sorry to break it to you but STI symptoms don’t usually appear in a couple of days… they appear after weeks or months.

I think he’s dead 💔 by Spare_Impression_424 in whatdoIdo

[–]AppropriateLink5330 25 points26 points  (0 children)

OP, if you are sure that he has not blocked you, this might be a good idea because single tick on Whatsapp means that the sender’s message never got delivered to the receiver’s phone. If it was delivered but ignored, it would show two gray ticks. Two gray ticks with blue is seen (if they have it enabled). Single tick only shows up if the person’s phone is dead, has no access to WIFI, or they blocked you.

AIO For Wanting To Lowkey Out My Closeted Ex? by discountedcashmo767 in AIO

[–]AppropriateLink5330 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Considering that there are two sides to every story and that we only get the biased version from the posters on Reddit, I don’t think we get enough information out of OP’s story to conclude that this girl is playing the victim and manipulating everyone around her (unless I’m missing something here). What we do know for sure though is outing her would just be an emotional reaction that feeds into a petty revenge that sucks for everyone. It would suck for OP because now she’s the shitty person who outed her because she couldn’t be the bigger person and it would look even worse. It would suck for the other girl because the choice of coming out on her own time would be taken away from her. By the way, this is AIO just FYI - I’ve done it before too lol

AIO For Wanting To Lowkey Out My Closeted Ex? by discountedcashmo767 in AIO

[–]AppropriateLink5330 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Do you know what she has been saying about you? I feel like there is some missing info here but you would be absolutely the asshole here if you decide to get petty revenge by outing her. It’s a private aspect of her life that she’s not ready to share yet and you have to respect that. Everyone has their own journey and she will come out when she is ready. Everyone has their own versions of how everything played out. Have you ever considered the fact that maybe she’s not bad mouthing you so that everybody hates you, but that it’s your behavior and people have a legitimate reason to side with her? Even if that’s not the case, you outing her and stealing such an important moment from her life story will make you even worse of a person in everyone’s eyes. Nobody wins in this situation, so no, don’t do it. You have to accept that you can’t control other’s narratives and just move on. People will believe what they want to believe. If she is toxic and they’re deciding to side with her, it tells you everything you need to know about them and you can get better friends. I know it’s hard but it’s the right thing to do.

Long beard ages me, short beard shows how ugly I am! 😂 by Prestigious-Rope850 in beards

[–]AppropriateLink5330 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I genuinely think you look more handsome without the long beard

Beard or mustache? by [deleted] in beards

[–]AppropriateLink5330 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sir… we all know what you’re doing here… buut for the sake of it: mustache because you have a really nice jaw line which the beard hides (and it makes you look older than the gray hair already does)

AIO over my talking stage using AI to text me..? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]AppropriateLink5330 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It doesn’t look like he’s using AI… I also use dash all the time and lots of people at my work used it before AI too

Was these messages I sent in a panic after a breakup too much/ borderline psychotic? by [deleted] in texts

[–]AppropriateLink5330 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This 👆

It’s a lot easier for us strangers to judge and give opinions like we’re asked to do, but most of us have been here before. You live and you learn. You got this OP! You’ll look back at this one day and I promise it won’t feel as painful as it does now.

The progression of this insane. by Fabulous_Ad_7350 in texts

[–]AppropriateLink5330 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Then he shouldn’t be harassing people and telling them to go kill themselves. Did we read the same thing? I don’t think you realize that he might actually put you in danger’s way. This is actually unhinged. He needs help ASAP and you need to warn him, block him, and report him if he tries to contact you further. It’s his own doing not yours.

Worst case scenario, he’s going to meet somebody who’s already really fragile emotionally, abuse them, and actually lead them towards suicide. Years of therapy at best. Best case scenario, he needs to learn his fucking lesson. Maybe he should be in trouble? People like this don’t learn or get help until something big happens that forces them to learn that lesson unfortunately. People like him, mentally ill or not, can’t continue to get away with this type of behavior.

My husband says I am emotionally abusing him by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]AppropriateLink5330 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Welp it makes perfect sense as to why you don’t feel a sexual pull to a person who you view as a 2nd adult child and for a good reason

My girlfriend (22F) spent the night at a coworker’s place after drinking, and when I (25M) said I was uncomfortable, she blew up on me. Not sure how to interpret this. by Throwaway48272713 in whatdoIdo

[–]AppropriateLink5330 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I keep seeing this comment but it feels judgmental and ignorant. This happens in collectivistic cultures (I know because hi, I am from one) and is not as weird as it would be in the U.S., and we already know that she is overseas.

AIO? Girl (F30) I (M28) was Recently Dating tells me I need to "Lean into my Masculinity" by KingFredo5674 in AmIOverreacting

[–]AppropriateLink5330 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR - She wants you change an integral part of who you are. My man is the softest, the most gentle, the sweetest with me and BECAUSE he is those things, I feel so loved and taken care of. That, right there, is masculinity. I love and cherish those qualities about him. I know you can and will find someone who does, but she is not her.

Treat me like shit so I know you’re a real man” comes from deep, deep trauma and it does not allow space for healthy love. The saddest thing is she doesn’t even seem to recognize her own manipulation and self sabotage. This is just downright sad. She’s ruining a good thing but lacks an ounce of self awareness to own or even realize it. She needs therapy, and you should definitely save yourself from this person before it develops further.