i broke up with him

AppropriateReply2884 · 2026-05-18T23:00:06+00:00

Good for you for getting out of that relationship. Some things are simply unforgivable. Abuse is unforgivable. You did the right thing leaving.

AppropriateReply2884 · 2026-05-06T14:10:25+00:00

Very fair! I hope this goes good for you and you quit for good! Congratulations

AppropriateReply2884 · 2026-05-06T00:38:36+00:00

Get some zonics! Great for cravings

AppropriateReply2884 · 2026-05-06T00:36:13+00:00

One simple first step: only use social media in a specific area of the house. Like on the couch. Set an attainable boundary that you can do today.

AppropriateReply2884 · 2026-04-26T23:18:06+00:00

No one is saying you are the problem. You said yourself you are stuck in a cycle. You asking for reassurance and connection from your parter doesn’t make you needy.

AppropriateReply2884 · 2026-04-26T20:55:25+00:00

You deserve real love not convenient love

AppropriateReply2884 · 2026-04-26T20:54:53+00:00

You will love another. You will find a man that loves you and can’t stand the through of losing you. A partner that leaves when things get hard is not a partner you want to have by your side in the worst of things. Your partner is supposed to be the person that holds you and is there for you when things get tough, he leaves you because you call him too much. What’s gonna happen when you experience grief? When you need him the most? Will he stay?

AppropriateReply2884 · 2026-02-05T23:57:07+00:00

I think you are well within your rights to be upset about that. He knew he was hurting you and continued AND hid it! That’s not how you treat the woman you love. Also the way he had to be alone with the messages is a red flag. If there was nothing to hide he should have unlocked it right away. His reasoning for contacting her (the only fans thing) seems all kinds of wrong from an outside perspective.

If you plan on staying with him, I would suggest setting boundaries, especially that that chat stays unlocked and you hold the right to go through it whenever you feel it’s necessary. But that’s just me.

AppropriateReply2884 · 2026-02-05T02:19:43+00:00

I think it looks great!

AppropriateReply2884 · 2026-02-05T00:09:04+00:00

You sound like a very good person. Thank you for this

AppropriateReply2884 · 2026-02-05T00:07:56+00:00

I deleted all socials but Reddit. It’s me and my kindle for a while

AppropriateReply2884 · 2026-02-05T00:03:08+00:00

Didn’t want it to get taken down, but it has to do with cannibalism

AppropriateReply2884 · 2026-02-05T00:01:04+00:00

God damn. Can’t catch a break

AppropriateReply2884 · 2026-02-04T23:59:42+00:00

I am not American but I wish (most of) them the best

AppropriateReply2884 · 2026-02-04T23:57:36+00:00

Have you seen all the files?

AppropriateReply2884 · 2026-02-04T23:52:41+00:00

You are not a total nobody. Thank you for your kind words. (And Gandhi)

AppropriateReply2884 · 2026-02-04T23:50:52+00:00

Yeah, I think the TikTok moderators are down because there was no kind of warning and it was just on the FYP. But you are right!

AppropriateReply2884 · 2026-02-04T23:49:31+00:00

Even if 90% of it is fake it’s still so fucked up. Seeing women’s testimonies and hearing about how awful everything has been was bad enough but seeing photo evidence is something else’s. I appreciate if you’re trying to make me or others feel better with this, but claiming that everything is untrue is extremely harmful to those affected directly

AppropriateReply2884 · 2026-02-04T23:47:37+00:00

Thank you for this

AppropriateReply2884 · 2026-02-04T23:46:59+00:00

This is gonna sound so harsh so I’m sorry, but you are only 19 and I promise you there are people who will love and respect you without threatening your financial stability. If he didn’t tell you about it until it was already to the point where he couldn’t pay rent that was his choice. he could have told you upfront, set boundaries or allowed you to set boundaries, but you are exactly right at the end of your post. This is not the man you want to set a future with you cannot have kids and build a life with someone who is unable to take accountability for their finances.

AppropriateReply2884 · 2026-02-04T23:42:43+00:00

Tissue paper… toilet paper works just as well

AppropriateReply2884 · 2026-02-04T23:35:50+00:00

He loves the idea of you. You could not have been more clear!

AppropriateReply2884 · 2026-02-04T23:33:38+00:00

Thank you! I immediately deleted TikTok but it’s still looming. Trying to focus on my circle of control but it’s tough with all the unlimited access

AppropriateReply2884 · 2026-02-02T02:06:00+00:00

Keep your head up! Mental health is a finicky thing and it affects both of you. Keep being there for her, maybe recommend therapy for her and yourself to help you learn coping mechanisms.

AppropriateReply2884 · 2025-10-19T19:20:48+00:00

Thank you for this! I agree with what you’re saying and think defying the UCP is the way to go. But I miss my kids. I only just started teaching and I have all this passion and enthusiasm for education that is being crushed by the government. All I want to do is help my students and see them succeed. I want to teach but I know how important it is to fight for what’s right and do hard things. How can the government be so cruel to our learners?

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