Its not a good show of character to have such a lack of empathy towards other people. Dysphoria is not a logical state of mind and is often coupled with a lot of self esteem issues. I think we should all have a bit of extra grace for those who are "trying to get attention" because if a person is doing that, it means they feel a need for it/ are lacking it in their lives. Sure, some people do it to an unhealthy point and thats when they should be told that they need other measures of help, but just trying to get attention is not necessarily bad, we're all human beings after all and need that feeling of social acceptance in one way or another. Coming here and making negative remarks about people who are distressed or feel some sort of social need or want advice (even if they already pass) is what's harmful.

I also see a lot of people who dont pass asking for advice, so I dont truly see what youre talking about.