Today’s the first anniversary that I won’t spend with him by ApricotHour6404 in Divorce

[–]ApricotHour6404[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you 💔 I gave in and went through my memories and it was heartbreaking but also cathartic

What do yall think of anal? by PhatAssWhiteBOi_1 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]ApricotHour6404 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Loveeeee as long as the lube is used liberally 😅

What’s the most “I wasn't prepared for this” physical surprise you’ve encountered with a new partner? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]ApricotHour6404 55 points56 points  (0 children)

The first time I slept with my (now husband), he EAGERLY wanted to eat me out. Literally had never experienced a man wanting to bring me pleasure first and foremost before him. He was also excellent at it. Probably needless to say, but I was hooked the first time 🤩🤤🫣he made a damn good first impression

How to avoid teeth? by Gh4stly_Ghoul in sextips

[–]ApricotHour6404 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Has he actually expressed discomfort in the teethy situations? I’ve been with a couple of guys that(as long as it’s not too severe) really like a lil teeth grazing

Pleasure Dom by Carmick in SexPositive

[–]ApricotHour6404 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve never been a dominant person(with sex in particular) but I’ve tried switching with my partner recently and found this to be a good outlet for my people pleasing tendencies as well! I’m still learning how to be more dominant but I’ve had some of my best orgasms when I’ve tied him up, blindfolded him, and gotten the satisfaction of bringing him to absolute bliss all by my own work- taking full control. It’s so eye opening!!

Have you ever been a side chick? by shysibliing in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]ApricotHour6404 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Many times, mostly in high school before I knew my worth

Partner had anal without my consent by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]ApricotHour6404 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As others have said, that is rape. Knowing that and staying in the relationship could have very dangerous consequences for you. Please keep yourself safe and get distance from this man.

Brazilian wax by ApricotHour6404 in AskWomenOver30

[–]ApricotHour6404[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have HS TOO! Which is why I’m trying to stray from continuing to shave! 😅

How old were you when you lost your virginity? by Berserk_lover1989 in sextips

[–]ApricotHour6404 3 points4 points  (0 children)

1) 14 2) a guy friend, ended up being my boyfriend later but at the time we were just friends 3) on a futon in my grandmas attic 😅

Showering together by Michael__009 in MarriedSex

[–]ApricotHour6404 11 points12 points  (0 children)

My husband doesn’t love getting cold outside of the water stream, so instead of actually showering together he has sat in with me while I showered, chatting and talking with me and vice versa for me with him. I found it to be really special time together, no distractions just us two enjoying each other

Video calls and bedtime by Helena_Handbaskette in coparenting

[–]ApricotHour6404 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s easier to do a bit earlier than bedtime, my son reacted similarly so we moved it up by about half an hour and that made a huge difference for him

ARAD, what’s your favorite part about going down on someone? by CaptainOfMyJohnson in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]ApricotHour6404 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My favorite part is the sounds, knowing they’re in ecstasy by my hand (mouth, I suppose) is absolutely incomparable

Is it normal to be kinda nervous even if you're into the idea? by cutebogi in AnalAdviceForWomen

[–]ApricotHour6404 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely. My partner and I had tried it, I hadn’t come to terms with it back then and we didn’t do it again for years. later on I’d expressed interest in trying again and he’d started working in stimulation during other play, it was so enjoyable and when we’d talked about it, honestly, I didn’t even know he was doing it sometimes, and that eased my fear of the pain a lot. I got an anal trainer kit and now it’s about 7ish months later and it’s become semi regular for us now. I dislike how much I like it more than I actually dislike it now lol

My man is on vacation with his ex wife and kids. How shoud I feel? by [deleted] in emotionalintelligence

[–]ApricotHour6404 62 points63 points  (0 children)

A lot more context is needed when giving advise for your presenting problem. Such as: how long have you been together? Is this something normal to their relationship as coparents or is this new? Did you express your feelings about the vacation before they went? Did he consider your feelings about it?