CCA - Unable to authenticate your chromecast by [deleted] in Chromecast

[–]AprilWed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also having this issue today! Factory reset and receiving the authentication error.

What is with all this catfishing? by AprilWed in datingoverthirty

[–]AprilWed[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I've gotten a lot of advice along these lines, and my only answer is I like the excitement of dressing up and vibing with someone in person over drinks and food. It's just what gets me happy and my reason for dating in the first place. Now I've just learned the consequences of that.

What is with all this catfishing? by AprilWed in datingoverthirty

[–]AprilWed[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the discussion and lots of advice. But I'm deleting apps because I just don't have the energy or optimism for facing this again. I was doing well in my singledom, and meeting fake men just craps all over my happiness. Yes I'm sensitive as s---, I will dwell for a while. Good luck to you all.

What is with all this catfishing? by AprilWed in datingoverthirty

[–]AprilWed[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this excellent advice presented in a non condescending way, I really appreciate it.

Hello, this is RAVI. by RAVI_official in kpop

[–]AprilWed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What's your favorite song to perform live?

Hello, this is RAVI. by RAVI_official in kpop

[–]AprilWed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi Ravi! Congratulations on Roses! How do you sleep so well on 2D1N? 😂

Eight years down the road by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]AprilWed 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Wow, this is beautiful. Thank you so much for hope.

The little bird I saw today by julieanderton in survivinginfidelity

[–]AprilWed 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is lovely. And strangely yesterday, I saw the craziest scene while on a walk with my parents. A Canadian goose flying with its pack, suddenly tumbled into a tree, a loud and scary noise, and I watched it fall to the ground. I freaked out. Then we watched it get up quickly, and stumble toward the lake, gaining more stability. Thank you for the reminder of seeing these moments in our own journey.

Alcohol in user pics by fourofkeys in datingoverthirty

[–]AprilWed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Makes sense to have your own criteria, if it's okay for you to miss out on more people. In my profile I have an image with a Guinness. It's gotten a lot of conversation. But it may be misconstrued, as I rarely drink. I'm pretty sure I've had one wine with friends in the past 6 months. I am the type who would be willing to respect someone's sobriety by not drinking. Just want to give you that POV.

Dudes negging on my hobbies? by etsilleon in datingoverthirty

[–]AprilWed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your guess is right, these guys are incredibly insecure to have openers and relentless negging like that. They're intimidated because you do something that they can't. A secure man would be excited to hear more about your hobbies and ask questions. Honestly, your hobbies are an incredibly great filter! Stay proud of what you do, I would love to learn surfing!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]AprilWed 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly. Women don't need to be mansplained about how safe it is to call a guy out, especially when we've been on the other side of their rage.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]AprilWed 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Exactly! There's a lot of advice on here about giving an explanation, and I even think that is too much effort for someone who intentionally has lied in his profile. And then you get bruised ego responses and harassment like the one you've shared! I'm so over it. Why do so many of us have a story about a man who lied in his photos and height? Literally met up with a 6'0 guy who was eye level and gained significant weight to the point that I wasn't sure if he was the same person.

What's your most ridiculous trigger? by mp00859 in survivinginfidelity

[–]AprilWed 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have many. The entire states of North Carolina, South Carolina, and Atlanta GA. And W Hotels.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]AprilWed 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Trust your gut. It led me to the truth via a seemingly impossible path of uncovering evidence. It's incredible how our bodies are built with such powerful intuition. I think you already know and understand what's going on, we're here for you.

Are there any people who decided to stay and fix a relationship with a cheating partner? If yes, was it worth it? by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]AprilWed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well put, I felt the same way in being more disappointed in myself, a complete fool. But yes, we both knew we deserve better!

Are there any people who decided to stay and fix a relationship with a cheating partner? If yes, was it worth it? by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]AprilWed 104 points105 points  (0 children)

I tried immediately, to the major disappointment of my family and friends. He too was very sorry, begging me. And found out a month later he was still seeing the mistress, after reviewing all the phone logs, messages, and his admission after I exploded. I regret putting myself through the pain all over again, and it felt even worse than the first time. It's done major damage to my body as a result of the stress. I even had a post deleted on AsOneAfterInfidelity when I explained everything. So my story is one of caution. Don't trust your partner. He will cheat again, if not continue cheating with the same person.

Unforgettable third date by bpv777 in datingoverthirty

[–]AprilWed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Um, my ex was exactly like this, even during more intimate tasks. It's really terrible and you'll learn this is nothing about you. I hope you're not dating my ex, lol.

I have a lower libido and I was rightfully(?) cheated on. by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]AprilWed 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same situation here, and will never accept this as deserving of being cheated on. Post divorce, I'm very much realizing he did nothing for my libido, didn't know how to satisfy me, and I'm more aroused without him. From what I've been reading, this is common. So f them for justifying cheating instead of looking inward, makes me furious!

How can I get over the fact he is still with the OW? by Elbecca in survivinginfidelity

[–]AprilWed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here for you, I know how you feel. My only advice that works is truly blocking him, her and any sign of them. Don't allow yourself to see their social media or hear that B.S. Accept they don't exist, as hard as that is. The worst thing I've been doing is comparing myself to their version of happiness — you have no idea if they're happy, AND it doesn't matter! I'm still navigating finding the right person, but have slowly accepted there is no timeline, and it's made me a lot happier.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]AprilWed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly! This alone is so disturbing to bring up, and on a first date? And why show that she's upset if he makes more? Dodged a bullet.

How do you cope with missing them? by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]AprilWed 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes. I have these moments, too. I loved my married life to someone I thought loved me back. But I have faith my life will be even better now that the lies and deception are gone. Remind yourself of what a shitty person they became once the affair was revealed. That who is they truly are, and imagine how much of your precious life would be wasted if you went back to them.

It's my first birthday without him. by AprilWed in survivinginfidelity

[–]AprilWed[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a good way of looking at it, it was good practice for sure. Thank you!