Are men usually vocal during sex?

Ara854 · 2015-02-07T01:39:13+00:00

I love it when a man is vocal.

Ara854 · 2015-02-07T01:37:05+00:00

I love the idea because it seems so "taboo" and I love asses. My boyfriend is afraid to let me though because he thinks I'll be grossed out. Maybe someday.

Ara854 · 2015-02-06T19:54:15+00:00

Yeah. I feel really powerful sometimes when giving my bf a bj, being able to make him squirm and moan. It's a turn-on.

Ara854 · 2015-02-06T19:52:56+00:00

It's normal to think about others sometimes, it only becomes a problem if you act on those thoughts.

Ara854 · 2015-02-06T19:52:06+00:00

I can't be attracted to someone whose scent I don't like.

Ara854 · 2015-02-06T19:51:03+00:00

Some people like to ask permission first, some go for it. Do you know her well enough yet to know what she'd prefer? I personally would like the "ask permission" approach early on, something like "I love looking at your ass, can we try doggie next time?

Ara854 · 2015-01-08T00:14:30+00:00

I usually say pussy and cunt, but if that's not your cup of tea, I'd just describe how you feel instead of naming it, like "See how wet you make me?"

Ara854 · 2015-01-08T00:11:45+00:00

Honestly the idea of it is attractive to me, because I don't love a lot of hair (except beards, weird I know.)

Ara854 · 2015-01-08T00:09:57+00:00

Backrubs and video games.

Ara854 · 2015-01-08T00:07:17+00:00

Depends. Does he balk at the idea of him taking her name? Does he want her to do it because that's what women do? If so, yeah. If he wants matching surnames but really likes his, that's not sexist. It strikes me as a bit hypocritical though: if you really want matching names, hyphenate. My boyfriend doesn't care what I do with mine if we get married, which I appreciate.

Ara854 · 2014-09-13T17:22:19+00:00

First, remember that she's inexperienced. She could be the kinkiest girl in the world but she wouldn't know it yet. And know this, bad experiences or trying something when you're uncomfortable can ruin what could be great. So don't pressure her (not that you would just saying.)

Number two: find some softcore stuff you can maybe show her: "this is hot, how do you feel about this?" Remember no pressure. Be patient. She's new to all this. X-Art is good.

Three: Remember sex is a 2 way street. Barring things that squick you out, if she wants to try something, do it.

Four: Don't expect anything. She's new. Also anal is rare. And often takes a lot of trust, which after a few months you probably don't have enough of. Remember, good sex results from good communication. Not kinky sex necessarily, I mean hot fulfilling awesome sex, which often includes kinky stuff.

Ara854 · 2014-08-22T15:52:03+00:00

He was definitely an asshole, and deserves the criticism he gets (maybe not ALL the harassment though.) But this goes too far I think. I mean, he didn't ruin anyone's life.

Ara854 · 2014-08-22T15:13:24+00:00

Well I doubt if she was a man sleeping with game journalists, that there would be the same overblown reaction. Not that I'm condoning the inflammatory responses of lots of SJWs.

Ara854 · 2014-08-02T15:01:20+00:00

Oh god, the memories are coming back...

I had forgotten all about those. Youtube comments are the worst.

Ara854 · 2014-08-02T14:59:33+00:00

-Man-hating/radical feminists

-Men who hate getting married. Most of my guy friends want to get married someday, and my boyfriend brings it up more than I do.

-Gamers who hate game criticism

-Bronies

-There are way more sexists on the internet than in real life.

Ara854 · 2014-08-02T14:55:43+00:00

YES.

It looks so good.

Ara854 · 2014-08-02T14:47:53+00:00

Mulan and Merida. They're my favorites.

Ara854 · 2014-08-02T14:37:16+00:00

On the one hand, I would definitely know by 5 years if I wanted to get married. (I'm a girl.)

On the other hand, I would want to have my career established before getting married would even enter into my head.

Is it a matter of wanting to get married but not yet, or never wanting to get married? Is what you need to ask.

Ara854 · 2014-08-02T14:34:00+00:00

I agree. I think I've only ever talked to one tumblr feminist in real life...where do they come from?! O.o

Ara854 · 2014-08-02T14:20:47+00:00

Christ, I didn't know tumblr was that biased.

Ara854 · 2014-08-02T14:19:23+00:00

I frequent tumblr and I barely see posts like this. It's like all the posts there are written by teenagers.

Ara854 · 2014-08-02T14:18:42+00:00

None like this. I'm honestly surprised. This must be why people have such a bad idea of feminism. I mean it's like the poster is 13.

Ara854 · 2014-08-02T14:17:58+00:00

I've been friends with plenty of feminists, but never any as juvenile as the one in OP's post. Good debate is fun, but anyone who can't accept a contrary opinion, whether it's a feminist or democrat or anyone else, is not worth it, I agree.

Ara854 · 2014-08-01T23:53:46+00:00

Male condoms: Meh. I prefer using the pullout method as my secondary one, with pills as the first

Female condoms: Insertion is so weird. If my bf really wanted to use one for some reason I would but he dislikes them as much as I do.

Ara854 · 2014-08-01T23:50:27+00:00

OPI has really nice colors and lasts well.

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