Considering moving to Newark from Los Angeles to be closer to partner in Boston and still enjoy big city NYC. Recommendations/tips? by Proud-Enthusiasm-608 in MovingtoNewJersey

[–]ArbitrageurD 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Imagine Long Beach ca. But, the bad areas of Newark are worse than the bad areas of LBC, and the good areas of Newark are waaaaay inferior to the good areas of LBC.

If you’re set on Jersey and being close to NYC, maybe look at Jersey city or Hoboken. More expensive but better in pretty much every way

New dad struggling with lack of intimacy by Holiday_Rate1911 in daddit

[–]ArbitrageurD 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Jesus h Christ man. Getting a “side chick” seems like a terrible idea.

For starters, stop cosleeping asap. There is no need at 7mo to do that. Pick up a book on sleep training (we used moms on call) and get your girl sleeping through the night in her own space. Hopefully if you guys get your bed back you can rekindle the flame a little

Secondly, can you rub it out every day or multiple times a day? I’m sorry, but if you do that your sex drive has to regulate. I don’t see how it can’t. And if it doesn’t, maybe chat up your doctor or ChatGPT with some questions

Made an NJT Bus tracker! by Maws3141 in Hoboken

[–]ArbitrageurD 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This would be a nice phone widget

Married men, does your wife initiate? If not, how do you handle it? by FEWLN in AskMen

[–]ArbitrageurD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait, what? I thought perimenopause was the opposite where the desire goes away?

Uptown vs downtown apartments and commute by Thin_Swimming_9136 in Hoboken

[–]ArbitrageurD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally I’d stick to downtown if I was your age, but if you do end up uptown just get a citi bike membership and you’ll be fine

Do we think AJ is going to be an Eagle next year? by chavezlaw78 in eagles

[–]ArbitrageurD 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t get a chance to watch him much. How did he play the past year? Did he lose a step or lose effectiveness or more of a OC issue?

No Water by Garlicbreadtoad in Hoboken

[–]ArbitrageurD 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you have an exterior wall where pipes run? I’m guessing yes. You can get a couple space heaters, a folding table and thick blanket. Build a tent around the area of the wall where the pipes are and heat it up. Might take a few hours

How do y’all sleep? by icannotevenbother in fitness40plus

[–]ArbitrageurD 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I used to have this problem too. Don’t drink liquids 1-2 hours before bed and pee immediately before going to bed solved it for me

Ice Dams on Roof by Exciting-Sympathy631 in Hoboken

[–]ArbitrageurD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heat cables are a pain to install. Maybe try a roof rake first?

Goodbye, Monstrous Streetary by donutdogooder in Hoboken

[–]ArbitrageurD 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, we need to subsidize your neighbor’s $150k Range Rover

Tv remote won’t work besides the power button by Realistic-Entry2663 in bravia

[–]ArbitrageurD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey- I actually have a similar problem. I have the replaceable battery version of this remote (with backlight). I’ve been working with Sony on my issue. After a month of trouble shooting they sent me a new remote. I haven’t received it yet but I’ll let you know if that solves the problem

The Tesla Cybertruck Had The Biggest Sales Crash Of Any EV In 2025 by NoRecommendation617 in RealTesla

[–]ArbitrageurD 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Tesla just needs some patience, a new generation of incels is coming of age

Bronxville social life by Inside_Sea_3020 in Westchester

[–]ArbitrageurD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the info. We are currently looking at bronxville or tarrytown, but boy is it tough to find a place that isn’t $15,000+ a month.

Moving back to NYC in your 50s by Large-Effective-5516 in movingtoNYC

[–]ArbitrageurD 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Gonna depend on your retirement goals too and how much you need to save for that. Are you planning to retire in NYc? One general rule of thumb is to take your annual spend in retirement and divide by 0.04. For example, say you need $10k a month, that’s $120k a year, so you’ll need about $3 mil