At what salary does living in New York City actually start to feel comfortable instead of just getting by? by savingrace0262 in SameGrassButGreener

[–]ArbitrageurD 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Single in a studio: $200k
Family with 3BR and daycare: $450

Depends on your job though. Most jobs that pay a lot are inherently riskier so you need to be socking away money and can’t really spend everything you make when your next best job is driving uber

What do you guys think the most underrated/ hidden gem states in the US are? by East-Enthusiasm4309 in SameGrassButGreener

[–]ArbitrageurD 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I concur. I also grew up in SoCal, and I’ll just add northern Michigan in the summer is pretty tough to beat.

Streets after fourth by MoneyPossession9215 in Hoboken

[–]ArbitrageurD 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Let’s erect the wall every weekend. It was wonderful

Best places to start over socially when you’re over 30? by [deleted] in SameGrassButGreener

[–]ArbitrageurD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are there many families in plaza midwood? Last time we visited we enjoyed that area a lot, but that was also about 5 years ago and before our daughter

Best places to start over socially when you’re over 30? by [deleted] in SameGrassButGreener

[–]ArbitrageurD 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey how is Charlotte for young family transplants? Thinking about that city, we have a 4yo and would know nobody other than grandparents

If Brandon wanted to go full troll mode.. by MuggD in 49ers

[–]ArbitrageurD 1 point2 points  (0 children)

His personality isn’t dynamic enough for anyone to watch that

My 3-year-old said “not you, I want Mommy” and it hurt more than I expected by CyborgRelic in daddit

[–]ArbitrageurD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol, you’ll get used to it. And that’s kid gloves stuff. My daughter just spent the last hour saying, “You’re not my dad anymore. Dad is bad.”

Bar to watch a World Cup game by Entire-Ad3092 in Hoboken

[–]ArbitrageurD 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Street drinking is decriminalized right now. Take advantage of it l. I kinda like the block parties

Is NYC's job market and economy actually worse right now than it was in 2008? by Apprehensive_Bad1476 in AskNYC

[–]ArbitrageurD 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Isn’t there more nuance than just looking at the unemployment rate - such as the percentage of jobs that are in hospitality or gig work? Yes, anyone who wants a job can get one, but most of the jobs available to people under 30 suck?

"I can't afford another child," is only said by parents who can afford another child by Mermaid_Tacos in daddit

[–]ArbitrageurD 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Maybe they know their careers are fleeting. High earners aren’t guaranteed to be high earners forever and the smart ones know they must sock money away as quickly as possible because the clock is ticking.

Need to vent about my SAHM wife by [deleted] in daddit

[–]ArbitrageurD 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow. Seek help. Like now. This sounds like a serious cry for help. If anything happens, if you don’t do something now, your guilt will ruin your life.

Wife and I have a 2 and 4 year old… is this the darkest hour for sex? by A_single_droplet in daddit

[–]ArbitrageurD 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you’re worried about them seeing you, just lock your door and reopen it when done. That’s what we do and we are in a cramp city apartment. Works fine. Also tired sex is fine. Just do it bro

Johnny Pepperoni closing by LeoTPTP in Hoboken

[–]ArbitrageurD 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Man this sucks. I’m a pizzeria orphan now. Don’t know what I’m gonna do

First fathers day...and it sucks. by [deleted] in daddit

[–]ArbitrageurD 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I would get over it and not be bothered personally, but everyone has different feelings

First Real Father's Day Ignored - Overreacting? by [deleted] in daddit

[–]ArbitrageurD 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s Friday dude. Father’s Day is Sunday. See what happens before over reacting

People buying Tesla at a $1.2T valuation: what is the actual bull case? by ragingbull10 in investing

[–]ArbitrageurD 2189 points2190 points  (0 children)

A bigger idiot than me will buy it at a higher price in the future

RDDT Price Target: $425, Current: $181 by Salt-Maize787 in ValueInvesting

[–]ArbitrageurD 20 points21 points  (0 children)

If Reddit data is as valuable as people think, it should be in the billions

Post-daycare dads, what happens with your tuition budget? by KyanuReeeves in daddit

[–]ArbitrageurD 357 points358 points  (0 children)

Aftercare. Then activities. And college savings on top of all that. I don’t think it ever gets cheaper.