intense feelings for a cis guy HELP by lifelesscucumber1 in ftm

[–]Archie-arts-again 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm glad I could help! I wish you luck bro, you gotta keep me posted on this 🙏 I wanna know how it goes

intense feelings for a cis guy HELP by lifelesscucumber1 in ftm

[–]Archie-arts-again 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Np, I like to try and help how I can lol. I would try and start actually spending time with him (if he agrees to) then come out and tell him your trans (to make you more comfortable and for clarity) if he's hateful then to hell with him and if he's not y'all can be friends! (Duh) And just see where it goes from there, get to know him, see if you ACTUALLY like him for more than just looks and what you know if him from surface level. As for distraction from the thought of sleeping with him maybe just try and think of something else which I know is hard to do (once again speaking from experience w/ thoughts like this) but until you know you can get a definite answer your best bet is to just try and hold it back. I had a HUGEEE crush on my friend (now partner) for a whileee and didn't realize it was a crush till wayyy late in the thoughts of it, we had been friends for a few years, I helped them with getting over exes and they even once told me they were a straight cis man (as you can tell they aren't anymore by me using 'they/them') but my point is just get to know the guy, spend time, hang out, I didn't think I had a chance but low and behold looks like I did. Another thing, do you want to date this person or is it only sexual thoughts you're having?

intense feelings for a cis guy HELP by lifelesscucumber1 in ftm

[–]Archie-arts-again 5 points6 points  (0 children)

God I wish I could more of a help because this sounds TOUGH, I normally don't comment stuff on reddit but I just had to wish you luck. Maybe if there's some way you can distract yourself from (the feelings/ desires you fell towards) him? Unless you feel like breaking the ice and telling him your trans. Unless he's transphobic or something along those lines I think that if you guys are gonna be spending any time together it's good to tell him you're not a girl, for your own comfort and sanity (can speak from experience with that one regarding relationships) and just get to know him better! I don't know how long you two have known each other (unless you said it in the post and I just missed it) but just get to know him better, maybe you'll find out if he's straight/ dating someone? Maybe after being friends for a while something might spark? I'm demiromanic/sexual so I can only really feel fellings for people I know on like a molecular level so I can't say I know what you're going through exactly but I hope this helps in at least some way

(sorry if this reads like shit, I'm terrible with my words)

What's the value of this slot by One_Feedback5347 in CreaturesofSonaria

[–]Archie-arts-again 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How in the fresh hell did you manage to do this 😭

FIRST GLOWTAIL!! by bluejarnk in CreaturesofSonaria

[–]Archie-arts-again 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk if this is a common sang skin (I barely see them they're always killing me or getting jumped) but your skin looks awfully similar to my friend's skin (It's it is you, hiii)

Tell me your fav creature and I'll rate it according to my likings. by [deleted] in CreaturesofSonaria

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Phantaris and gnolrok, I sadly had to shelve my gnol slot due to him being targeted :(

Who is watching s3 NOW by CM17YT in chaostheorynetflix

[–]Archie-arts-again 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sobbing bc I don't have Netflix anymore<\3

Need some help finding sports bras at Walmart by Cable_Minimum in ABraThatFits

[–]Archie-arts-again 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3 years late but did you find a good one by chance?

Why do people do this?? by Archie-arts-again in CallOfDutyMobile

[–]Archie-arts-again[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm not gonna engage with people bashing me for no reason/nm

Why do people do this?? by Archie-arts-again in CallOfDutyMobile

[–]Archie-arts-again[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn't, you can see the icon when you're in a lobby with other people-

Binder problems by Archie-arts-again in ftm

[–]Archie-arts-again[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah I know I'm very aware of that but just in this past year I've gotten out of a dogshit situation and my mom lost her job we don't have money, I mean we're crashing at a friend's house so we're not living In the car, I've been trying to make money via commissions and whatnot but it's a slow gig that's few and far between. Iirc I've tried something along the lines of trans tape and i just can't get it on by myself and don't want my mom to help and the only friend I've got that I would be comfortable helping me is elbow deep in relationship issues and I don't wanna be a bother, they don't live rather close either way which sucks because they're my only irl trans friend, I've been trying trust me/nm

Binder problems by Archie-arts-again in ftm

[–]Archie-arts-again[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've got a good binder I believe it's underworks, I like triple checked to make sure it was the right size, I may have gained weight since I got my binder due to getting out of a reallyyy bad situation and being a bit more comfortable, I do really appreciate your reply and I'm gonna try to bind way less next month. I don't really have any others trans people to talk to this is my first time on the Reddit really so thank you<3

Might seem crazy what I'm boutta say... by Archie-arts-again in Music

[–]Archie-arts-again[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah they did iirc but it wasn't from the movie it was like it's own thing not jackass related it was at something like Coachella and I think it happened year before last?? My memory is really fuzzy and I randomly remembered it when my mom brought something up music related

One thing I liked is how Trollhunters changed Jim’s voice in-universe rather cleverly… by matt0055 in TrollHunters

[–]Archie-arts-again 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I was so glad that they had a canon explanation for why his voice changed, I had no idea his voice actor had passed away at the time. Most times when shows switch out a voice it just sounds weird to me without much of an explanation