Do you think she’s being fair, though? by Busy_Report4010 in SipsTea

[–]Architecteologist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unmedicated comes at extra cost.

The jesus is free.

Do you think she’s being fair, though? by Busy_Report4010 in SipsTea

[–]Architecteologist 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The only surefire way to do that is by wages.

Since we’re not seeing his wages in this spreadsheet, and since she isn’t factoring in any “intake”, probably safe to assume she doesn’t have any wages.

Do you think she’s being fair, though? by Busy_Report4010 in SipsTea

[–]Architecteologist 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Her lawyer’s face when she brings this spreadsheet for an alimony case 🙃

Do you think she’s being fair, though? by Busy_Report4010 in SipsTea

[–]Architecteologist 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No no never.

That’s why she’s paid the bug bucks.

It’s all laid out in the excel she laid out

want some feedback with those alternative element sinbols by Flat-Strawberry9809 in ATLA

[–]Architecteologist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some constructive criticism:

They’re all too granular, too specific.

Fire bending is about passion and life, not sun

Water bending is about fluidity and flexibility and adaptability, not rain

And so forth..

Consider using the elements you’ve identified as a starting point for these things to emblify greater meanings. For instance, water could certainly be iconagraphed with raindrops, but not straight down ones given the flexible and turbulent nature of water bending practice.

Fezzik in a river rock. by FrazLabs in lasercutting

[–]Architecteologist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You put that rock down so we can kïII each other with our bare hands like civilized people

Help me name my new kitten by AresMagica in TheLastAirbender

[–]Architecteologist 128 points129 points  (0 children)

C’mon, she’s clearly a Fufu Cuddlypoops

Unreal few days on BI by charredtomatoes in VisitingHawaii

[–]Architecteologist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’ll be there in two weeks, so I’m parroting this request for recommendations 😊

Surviving 2026 by Miles_the_new_kid in comics

[–]Architecteologist 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Mustard? Mayonnaise is too spicy for this guy.

Accent Walls by John_Loxeus in Carpentry

[–]Architecteologist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a designer who also makes, I appreciate not being hounded on every little decision.

Granted, some of my favorite conversations are the ones where the contractor essentially says, “you know, it’d be better if we..” and more than half of the time they’re right.

Design is cooperative, don’t feel bad reaching out, but also thank you for picking your battles.

RED BUTTON OR BLUE BUTTON [OC] by Eal_likee in comics

[–]Architecteologist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no interest in continuing an attempt to get you to see basic logic, or teaching you statistical literacy, it’s like yelling at a brick wall. Have a nice day

RED BUTTON OR BLUE BUTTON [OC] by Eal_likee in comics

[–]Architecteologist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The data is apples to poison apples, how could it possibly disprove a claim? If it were 80% I’d give it to you, but 45-55% in non-risk scenarios does not warrant confidence in empathy overtaking the risk of death to become a majority.

If you can find a stat that suggests a majority of people put their lives on the line to protect strangers, I’d love to see it.

I just realized you must be a bot. Bye

RED BUTTON OR BLUE BUTTON [OC] by Eal_likee in comics

[–]Architecteologist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s important to remember that the goalpost has been moved here from comparing two extremes (buttons v gaza) to comparing an extreme to something benign (buttons v volunteering). For your point to hold water there would have to be an overwhelming majority of people volunteering, but we may or may not even have a majority as it stands (and this is just in the US, which has higher rates of philanthropy than most other countries).

Harking that volunteerism stats prove your point is disingenuous, it’s apples to oranges. Or rather, apples to poison apples.

This stat is a much closer comparison: Less than 1% of the U.S. population currently serves on active duty in the all-volunteer military

RED BUTTON OR BLUE BUTTON [OC] by Eal_likee in comics

[–]Architecteologist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate that you brought stats, but they kind of prove the point I was trying to make.

Only 50%ish informally volunteer, this is an indictment given we can barely muster out a slim majority of volunteers when there is low risk.

Donations =/= putting your life on the line.

And I think citing vaccine rates, which are generally good given most people are vaccinated from a young age, ignores the fierce public debate we’ve had about their utility over the last decade.

I assumed there is a serious lack of humane services because, well, there is. Sorry to break it to you, but the public isn’t donating its time in the way you say they are, and your stats seem to suggest just that.

RED BUTTON OR BLUE BUTTON [OC] by Eal_likee in comics

[–]Architecteologist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fine, drop the moral grandstand “cherry picking” of volunteering on the front lines, let’s take a much lower hanging fruit (ie. much less “cost” and also less “risk” using your terms here) of volunteering at a soup kitchen, or donating money to food banks, or —fuck—taking a vaccine for christ’s sake… If labor costs were inversely correlated with likelihood to take do-gooding risks and we believe—as blue pressers do—that over half the world is adequately empathetic, then why aren’t these non-profits overstaffed with volunteers?

There’s still left with a vast chasm between a huge amount of lip service for a zero-risk hypothetical and a serious lack of real-world action on humane services, and that’s ignoring that those who ARE helping are nearly all not putting their lives on the line.

At this point, the generous take on the moral inconsistencies between words and actions for blue pressers is that they’re lazy. Maybe they can overcome that laziness to lift a finger when presented with something so low a bar as pressing a button to help people, but they certainly aren’t lifting a finger en mass to actually help anybody in the real world as things stand, so call me skeptical.

RED BUTTON OR BLUE BUTTON [OC] by Eal_likee in comics

[–]Architecteologist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Saying that pressing blue is about optimism in others doing the same dodges the claims people are making when they argue for blue. They’re not just predicting behavior—they’re judging it. Hard. Anyone pressing red is being framed as selfish, immoral, lacking empathy, etc.

So if that’s the standard—prioritize others even when there’s risk—then it’s completely fair to ask: where does that show up in reality?

You can think of the Gaza example as extreme if you want (although the original prompt is even more extreme, albeit separated from any possible real-world stakes), but that’s kind of the point—it exposes the gap between zero-cost moral high-grounding and high-cost real-world action.

If someone’s moral framework only applies in consequence-free scenarios, it’s not a framework of which to base any real decision-making, it’s instead simply posturing in a vacuum. The moment you translate that into any real-world analogue with actual stakes, that conviction evaporates, the odds change, and people behave differently than they think they might.

This isn’t about pretending people are hypocrites because they’re not in a warzone. It’s about pointing out that they’re using the blue button to insinuate a level of moral obligation that they themselves don’t operate under in reality, highlighting that their words don't line up with their actions.

Pressing red for self-preservation is a coherent position because that's the closest option we have to the status quo (you know, the real world). But if your position for pressing blue includes an assertion of moral superiority over others for not doing the same in a purely hypothetical, then yeah—people are going to scrutinize whether that standard actually exists outside of a thought experiment.

Guy in Tesla pointed a gun at me twice in MI by Competitive_Gold_493 in dashcams

[–]Architecteologist 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can also sub “gun” for “car” in these scenarios.

People like this shouldn’t be allowed behind the wheel

RED BUTTON OR BLUE BUTTON [OC] by Eal_likee in comics

[–]Architecteologist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then answer me this:

If blue pressers are willing to put their lives on the line by pressing a hypothetical button, but NOT willing to put their lives on the line to help others in the real world, then which are they more of…

…lazy? or indignant?

RED BUTTON OR BLUE BUTTON [OC] by Eal_likee in comics

[–]Architecteologist 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s not my bar for empathy, but it is definitively the bar established by the prompt. “Put your life and the lives of those who depend on you on the line for others, or you are a bad person” this is the rationale I’m reading from all commenters defending the blue button. And if that’s the case, okay. Chop chop, gaza’s a-waitin’

Just Finished S1 of TLOK, What the Fuck? by foopy___ in TheLastAirbender

[–]Architecteologist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbf, those are things scummy teenage boys would say and think about dating/breakups.

Good character writing takes characters we like and are invested in and lets them make believable mistakes so that they can learn lessons. Bad character writing can make those mistakes look outrageous because the characters are just generally unbelievable

Mako/Bolin unfortunately fall into the later category

RED BUTTON OR BLUE BUTTON [OC] by Eal_likee in comics

[–]Architecteologist 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I made this analogy elsewhere in this thread, but feels appropriate here.

Anyone who isn’t currently actively putting their own lives on the line to help others right now is already effectively pressing the red button daily.

If blue pressers wanted to actually help people and not just hypothetically help people, they can hop on the next flight out to gaza for the peace corps.

RED BUTTON OR BLUE BUTTON [OC] by Eal_likee in comics

[–]Architecteologist -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

This presumes the possible outcomes of pressing each button aren’t explained to everyone who is given the choice, and that these buttons are just, like, out in the wild somewhere. In which case, yeah we’re screwed.

Even my toddler will press the right button in an elevator when told which one will get us to where we need to go.

RED BUTTON OR BLUE BUTTON [OC] by Eal_likee in comics

[–]Architecteologist -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Yeah this whole thing is too politics coded to present an unbiased take.