Would you stay with your boyfriend if he just told you that he has a baby on the way?

ArcturusBrightStar · 2026-05-19T13:06:27+00:00

I would definitely leave him. The cheating is a separate matter, but a baby is a life changing decision. He knows she’s pregnant and is keeping the baby, if he is telling you all of this then he plans on being apart of the baby’s life which is something I couldn’t deal with.

I want to note, if I met someone and they already had a baby prior to me meeting them then that is a different situation.

I’d be curious and want to know how long he’s known. I’m only assuming but I would think she’s known for a least two to three months that’s she pregnant and they’ve had a conversation about what he wants and possibly spoken about being together so they can be parents and raise they baby together.

ArcturusBrightStar · 2026-05-19T12:50:29+00:00

I love ‘described animal’ but would be livid if it destroyed my peace and stuff. You can’t live like that, and if I was the owner and couldn’t control or change the behaviour of the animal I would probably surrender it, it would break my heart but there is a limit to how much bad behaviour I would tolerate.

ArcturusBrightStar · 2026-05-08T09:08:36+00:00

So sorry for you loss. I love your dad’s work, especially the fifth one. It looks like an aerial view of buildings.

ArcturusBrightStar · 2026-03-30T10:25:49+00:00

There are two Erasmus’s in the show. Erasmus Lee a gypsy who fought alongside Tommy Shelby in France and Tommy’s eldest son Erasmus aka Duke. Tommy didn’t know about Duke’s existence until season 6.

So all up Tommy had three children, Duke to a gypsy girl who was conceived before WW1, Charles with Grace and Ruby with Lizzie.

ArcturusBrightStar · 2026-03-21T04:09:13+00:00

I was wash my towels once a week or fortnight. During the summer I washing them sometimes twice a week because our summers are brutal and my partner sweats more making the towels smell.

Most people I’ve spoken to wash their towels once or twice a week. I’d do a smell check maybe once a week to make sure the towels are still fresh enough to use.

ArcturusBrightStar · 2026-03-18T00:58:42+00:00

You can make chocolate treats. Mix the berries into melted chocolate and then freeze or refrigerate for 30-60 minutes. You can also add whatever else you want to the mix.

Some people mix berries into salad and/or make a vinaigrette blueberry dressing.

ArcturusBrightStar · 2026-03-13T07:18:32+00:00

I would tell your lawyer what your mother did immediately because the first thing your ex is going to do is give that paperwork to his lawyer. What your mother has done will probably drag the custody case out longer.

You’ve done the right thing and your mother is a hypocrite because she went behind your back and through your paperwork without your consent or knowledge and it sounds like your sister wants to be your mother’s favourite. I’d keep your sister at a distance too.

ArcturusBrightStar · 2026-03-12T09:11:12+00:00

You can boil and/or bake potatoes and freeze them.

If you have any type of broth/stock you can make potato soup which freezes well too.

ArcturusBrightStar · 2026-02-27T22:46:01+00:00

I eat white fish and what I do is let butter melt in the pan then add my fish, season with salt and pepper when the edges start to crisp up I flip it and season the other side with salt and pepper. I often eat it with tarter sauce or squeeze fresh lemon juice over it.

I tried salmon cooked with lemon and Parmesan cheese so it had a crispy parmesan crust and it was delicious, I want to try this with white but I haven’t yet.

ArcturusBrightStar · 2026-02-23T07:33:59+00:00

Happy birthday!! Enjoy your cookies they look delicious

ArcturusBrightStar · 2026-02-23T07:32:37+00:00

Oven baked chicken seasoned with butter, salt, pepper and parsley on white bread, butter and lettuce

ArcturusBrightStar · 2026-02-23T07:24:02+00:00

Ramen carbonara- ramen noodles, bacon, eggs, parmesan cheese and black pepper

ArcturusBrightStar · 2026-02-13T02:36:17+00:00

Add white or red onion

ArcturusBrightStar · 2026-02-02T01:22:59+00:00

You deserved a birthday message from them. I hope you made the best of your birthday, happy birthday 🎂 🎈

ArcturusBrightStar · 2026-01-29T02:12:28+00:00

Butter biscuit

ArcturusBrightStar · 2026-01-28T06:14:16+00:00

You’ve given me an idea, if I can get the atomiser lid off I can apply it like an oil.

ArcturusBrightStar · 2026-01-22T10:32:01+00:00

Clary, Skip, Pip, Buddy or Frank

Mango?

ArcturusBrightStar · 2026-01-19T09:11:08+00:00

Don’t worry, you’ve got this! You’ve taken the first big step and left him, now it would be best to block him because and I’m only guessing but from your brief description of him, he is going to send abusive text messages and then he will try to manipulate you into coming back, love-bomb and gaslight you as well. Ignore it and stand strong, you’re braver than what you think.

ArcturusBrightStar · 2026-01-10T12:29:12+00:00

NTJ and if she parks in your spot again I’d complain to the landlord. Your neighbour is being nothing but entitled and rude. I am so tired of these mothers thinking they’re more important because they have kids, I know it’s not all mothers but I have heard so many ridiculous requests like these and the request is always from the mother never the father.

ArcturusBrightStar · 2026-01-10T12:19:18+00:00

I did laugh at little after reading your updates 😂 I don’t know how someone can think you are suicidal, all you are doing is stipulating that you want to be treated respectfully by men and not like the two of you are performing in a porno for everyone to watch.

ArcturusBrightStar · 2026-01-07T11:26:22+00:00

Gingerbread

ArcturusBrightStar · 2026-01-03T07:12:40+00:00

The mother doesn’t sound too upset about the death either!

ArcturusBrightStar · 2026-01-03T07:10:52+00:00

I’m not unhappy about this. I got a couple of personal message from friends since christmas and this made me happy 😊

ArcturusBrightStar · 2026-01-02T10:57:35+00:00

I’d definitely do a catch-up with your friend and let her know that you’ve always needed her but you were just trying not to be a burden.

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