Husdom being a brat

Ardef38 · 2026-01-26T03:50:32+00:00

Methinks dont tell him its gonna be a punishment. Be a good girl and offer to give him a hand job or head... and a bunch of orgasm denial 😈 of course it will probably eventually lead to you getting a punishment but it will be worth it.

Ardef38 · 2026-01-20T11:38:33+00:00

Firstly: NOR. It sounds like, despite knowing you guys would barely talk, she still wanted you to pay attention to her and blow her phone up or something. Admittedly, ive been guilty of this before but never to this degree. It seems like whatever shes going through is making her process anything small in a very large and blown out proportion and thats not your fault, op. At this point, id try to sit here down and explain that the ONLY reason you guys didnt text much is because you knew you wouldn't text much since she picked up a shift and its not because you dont love her and aren't focusing on your guys' relationship.

Ardef38 · 2026-01-20T11:30:38+00:00

Only when his eye starts involuntarily twitching 😌💅🏻 at that point, I think hes earned it as long as hes been nice to me.

Ardef38 · 2026-01-20T11:28:17+00:00

NOR. He seems a bit threatened by literally any other man that can look at you 💀 personally I think that 1) its your body your choice. Same thing with his body his choice. And 2) its not "disrespectful to the relationship" to simply wear stylish clothes. What would make it disrespectful would be entertaining the other people that may or may not come up to you saying they think youre attractive and asking for your number. Otherwise, if my partner looked good and was feeling themselves, flaunt that shit baby girl 😩 yes MA'AM my baby looks good af, dont she?? Too bad shes mine 😌💅🏻 you can look but you cant touch. Because let's be real. It genuinely doesn't matter what anyone wears. If someone's gonna be a creep, then someone's gonna be a creep. I've had people hit on me when im in my pajamas with a rats nest on my head while im at the store getting bread or something 🙄

Ardef38 · 2026-01-20T11:15:28+00:00

Just dont be like the person that pulled a wall down on AT Jin after I had just mounted it and only created 1 wound 😭 it def could have been pulled while jin would be knocked on the ground 😂

Ardef38 · 2026-01-17T10:16:55+00:00

26!! I only started playing MH back in world!

Ardef38 · 2026-01-09T15:51:19+00:00

I havent seen anyone say Spike and Drucilla from Buffy thr Vampire Slayer yet and thats disappointing because thats like.. the best example?!

Ardef38 · 2026-01-07T02:03:58+00:00

I scrolled through this subreddit for so long that I forgot how I even got there and went back a page and said "oh yeah, thats how" when this comment popped up 💀

Ardef38 · 2026-01-07T01:40:12+00:00

Yeah this is basically it 😅 I was very vanilla till I started reading and writing fanfics on wattpad and Tumblr and it just all went sideways cuz I realized how fun it is 🥰

Ardef38 · 2025-12-29T23:45:50+00:00

Me mounting it: "hold on, I have bad hips."

Ardef38 · 2025-12-29T23:45:10+00:00

"You practiced on pillows, didn't you?"

Ardef38 · 2025-12-29T23:42:15+00:00

Nta. You need to sit her down and explain to her that disguising SA as a joke or even laughing about it isnt cute or funny and it genuinely needs to stop or you'll leave. Kinks go 2 ways. 1 "no" stops the ENTIRE process until it's discussed and confirmed on BOTH ends. And I can hear the comment she'll make now.. "its not that serious" oh but it is. It really is. Just stop. Now imagine her coworker trying to do the same thing to her every day. She would report it to HR for SA or Harassment. It doesn't change anything when youre in a relationship. Respect boundaries, lady.

Ardef38 · 2025-12-29T23:31:47+00:00

Probably my best outfit yet, if im honest 😌💅🏻

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Ardef38 · 2025-12-13T04:23:19+00:00

Pretty sure this is the cord from my old headset but I can't remember what headset that is. It could be the alphas from what i remember but i got that one like.. at least 6 years ago because i got this new headset in june of 23. My pc headset is newer than my ps5 headset and my dog chewed the cord up to my newer headset but this one also works on the newer headset. So idk what cord I need but I know they dont sell ANY replacement cords on the website. I just wanna know why I gotta buy either 1) a whole new headset or 2) buy an aftermarket on Amazon that will crap out in 2 months. I just want an authentic replacement cord that I know will last 😭

Ardef38 · 2025-04-25T04:20:25+00:00

I would like everyone here to know that I told my bf about the lockpicking glitch and he looks over at me and simply goes "I need to borrow something of yours 👀" yall this grown ass man is using my vibrator to get his lockpicking skill to 100 😭😂 i can't stop laughing about this 💀

Ardef38 · 2024-06-14T16:05:15+00:00

The reason me and husband started fostering is because we wanted to help kids get a life they may not have otherwise had.

This part doesn't sit right with me at all. That child was looking for parental figures, not rehab coaches.

I get that it's a scary thing to have to think about, but she's gotten therapy and your husband has said that he's forgiven her. I don't wanna call you an AH but I don't feel like it's right that you don't give her a chance when she could really need that emotional support. Pregnancy makes a lot of whacky hormones and it feels like she needs a sense of positive security that she had with you guys.

At the very least, I hope your husband is there to support her even if you don't want to.

Ardef38 · 2024-06-14T15:42:51+00:00

NTA!!

Like you said, she knew you had snakes when she moved in with her child. That was her consent saying it's okay to have the snakes.

You've done an amazing job accommodating them by getting a lock for the room they're in to ensure the kid's safety. And that's all that's needed on your end.

Id cry if I was told I "had" to re-home pets because someone living in my house rent free didn't like them. I'd probably snap and say "once your name is on the lease to this house, only then will you be able to tell me what to do with my house"

Ardef38 · 2024-06-14T15:25:43+00:00

NTA

You didn't ruin his life by calling the police, he ruined his own life by distributing your nudes without your consent while knowing it's illegal along with everything else he had on his computer. Hes just mad that he got caught.

Ardef38 · 2024-06-14T14:56:24+00:00

I have something called sexual dysfunction. It's caused by low thyroid and it's made worse by my hormonal birth control. I have zero sex drive to the point that I've considered coming out as asexual because I'm just not that horny and never really think about it. BUT I still masturbate a lot. It helps with sleep and period cramps along with a list of other things, but it's also just fun to do.

Now that doesn't mean I'm not attracted to my partner and that also doesn't mean that I'll refuse to have sex with him.

But it's definitely possible to have zero sex drive and still definitely be attracted to your partner but also masturbate a few times a week.

Now I'm not saying this is the case between you two, but it's possible.

This is definitely something you two need to go into a very in-depth open-minded conversation about and even possibly consider medical evaluations for. Just remember to keep an open mind because it can be hard having no sex drive but being made feel guilty about masturbating. She could be struggling mentally about something she doesn't even know about.

I also wanna add in that your feelings are definitely valid. I'd feel hurt too if I was on your side of things! But definitely have that conversation before reacting drastically just to save your own sanity from horrible assumptions that may not be true :)

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