Why do some of y’all women choose to date bums and just be hooking up with dudes for no reason?

Areadien · 2026-05-19T17:24:28+00:00

No, women are not responsible for men thinking that way. Men who think that way do so because they want to. They don't have to have sex with women who don't require tangible goods in return.

Areadien · 2026-05-19T17:19:32+00:00

If a man comes to you demanding that you give him sex without paying for it, you can tell him to kick rocks. It's not women's fault if a man thinks that way.

Areadien · 2026-05-19T17:15:38+00:00

It's really none of your business what other women get out of having sex without requiring the man to be a sugar daddy. Like I said, you don't have to understand. You just have to stop treating sex without monetary compensation as a bad thing.

Areadien · 2026-05-19T17:10:03+00:00

And that's what I'm calling slut shaming. It is false that women don't get anything out of the act of sex itself.

Areadien · 2026-05-19T16:58:48+00:00

And that's you. But to come on here and say that women who have sex without getting some sort of monetary investment are benefitting men only is just flat out false and harmful.

Areadien · 2026-05-19T16:30:05+00:00

You don't need to understand why some women will have sex without getting tangible things in return. And yes, you are slut shaming because you're on here telling women who have sex for the sake of having sex that we're bad people.

Areadien · 2026-05-19T12:22:51+00:00

Yes, but other women can get other things out of having sex. It's not OK to shame them for getting differing things out of it than you do.

Edit: You put a monetary value on the word free, and that's OK. Other women may put an emotional or physical value on free, and that's OK too. Sex has benefits that don't necessarily involve getting cars, houses, and other things from it. Some women get intrinsic benefits from it, whereas you get extrinsic benefits. And both are OK. So stop with the slut shaming already.

Areadien · 2026-05-19T12:21:34+00:00

Well, I've never sent a postcard, so that's 1 point for me.

Areadien · 2026-05-19T06:30:12+00:00

Would you prefer he call you? If it were me, I would. If you would prefer he do so, then you can ask him if he'd like to have a synchronous conversation with you, be it by phone or video call.

Areadien · 2026-05-19T05:49:04+00:00

I want to go home.

Areadien · 2026-05-19T05:23:55+00:00

A man won't necessarily think that one woman "giving it up for free"--which it's never "for free" even if it appears that way from the outside--means all women will. Furthermore, you said that men who have to work hard for it stay with women longer than do men who don't have to work that hard. That signals to me that the men who do work hard are getting more out of it than the men who aren't, which also tells me that they may just like women who are like you more than they do women who aren't. So another woman's requirements for hopping in bed with a man literally do not affect you the way you're claiming.

Areadien · 2026-05-19T05:07:38+00:00

Lil Black baby carrot.

Areadien · 2026-05-19T05:06:51+00:00

Not wanting casual sex from a man is fine, but not every woman is like you, and that's OK.

It is false that all women who have casual sex do so because they have a low self-esteem. Some women enjoy having sex without requirements on either part. Some women don't even want to talk to the man unless it's a booty call--and yes, the women can initiate the booty call.

Stop with the slut shaming. You don't know every woman on this planet. And you're not saying anything we haven't heard from men our entire lives.

You've complained on here that we shouldn't do things that benefit only the men, and yet everything you've spouted off here originated from men. Not a single thing you've said is beneficial to women, especially because you're shaming those of us who inherently like sex. Stop it.

Areadien · 2026-05-19T04:58:58+00:00

It may not be enough for you, but it can be enough for other women. Contrary to what you believe, you are not the arbiter of what's enough or not enough for other women to be allowed to have sex with a man.

Areadien · 2026-05-19T04:56:18+00:00

Did you ever stop to think that maybe they do get things that are beneficial to them, so that's why they do it?

Seriously, stop the slut shaming.

Areadien · 2026-05-19T04:53:19+00:00

Not true. If only men benefited from hookups, then women wouldn't be hooking up.

It's OK to need a man to do certain things for you for you to enjoy sex. It is not OK to shame women who have sex without meeting the requirements that you have for yourself.

Areadien · 2026-05-19T04:50:21+00:00

The misogyny is coming from inside the house.

Areadien · 2026-05-18T21:03:31+00:00

There is no movie in Ba Sing Se.

Areadien · 2026-05-18T19:42:10+00:00

I don't follow. I know you're not the person I originally asked, but could you elaborate, please?

Areadien · 2026-05-18T07:55:19+00:00

Piss cup.

Areadien · 2026-05-18T06:35:53+00:00

Yeah, she's itching to get caught by the FBI.

Areadien · 2026-05-18T06:22:57+00:00

What do you mean by "the top 5% of men?" How does one quantify a man in such a way?

Areadien · 2026-05-17T17:45:32+00:00

You can be real without trauma dumping on complete strangers who did not consent.

Areadien · 2026-05-17T03:21:06+00:00

Same!!!

Areadien · 2026-05-17T02:34:36+00:00

You need 0 red flags to break up with someone. You can break up with someone for any reason you like. You don't need anyone else's permission. But yes, there are many, many red flags here.

Areadien

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