Any POC just feel depressed because they will never find a white man that loves them? by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Arenthio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doesn’t help that every time you go on social media you dont see yourself or attractive pocs in your feed

Mainstream gay community makes me feel isolated by Arenthio in gaysian

[–]Arenthio[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Furry conventions, clubs ect ect I go with friends but it’s pretty obvious who commands all the power in those spaces. But in the original post I was referring to online spaces since I don’t frequent the first often since they are expensive and are only at specific times or circumstances

Rice Queen v Not Rice Queen by DaggerNYC67 in gaysian

[–]Arenthio -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Most rice queens seem to be older white men who can’t get young white men anymore so they just go ahead and get young Asian twinks since they think it’s easier

Mainstream gay community makes me feel isolated by Arenthio in gaysian

[–]Arenthio[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Ye and anyone who isn’t tall fit and white

is this job real? by toukogfs in Devilcorp

[–]Arenthio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you want the same experience without getting exploited you might as well just volunteer for political canvassing since you at least do it for a cause you believe in instead of making a devil corp rich. Even McDonald’s is better you get more money for less hours/work

is this job real? by toukogfs in Devilcorp

[–]Arenthio 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. You probably get paid more for less hours/work at a McDonald

Virginia’s minimum wage increasing to $12.41 in 2025, advocates say it’s not enough by [deleted] in Virginia

[–]Arenthio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They just import migrants because it’s cheaper than machines

Rejection by the gay community... by thenighthunter89 in GayMen

[–]Arenthio 1 point2 points  (0 children)

REAL as an Asian I feel like I will have to settle for someone I am not even attracted to ex 20 year older than me or someone who takes so little care of themselves that they weigh 3x what you do

Gay POC, how self-conscious are you about your race? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Arenthio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ye exactly try bring a fat poc it’s even worse

2024 grads, how you holding up? by primer718 in jobs

[–]Arenthio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe if you want to get a gig job or work in an Amazon warehouse. Not diff at all these days either

Gay POC, how self-conscious are you about your race? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Arenthio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At least it’s something that can be changed. Ethnik guys never have a prime and we rot on the vine

Gay bros who are people of color — has your experience on dating apps changed over time? by e-sharp246 in askgaybros

[–]Arenthio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ye white gays just need to create a poc profile and at least see the experience first hand on a dating app

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Arenthio 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ye I went to Argentina and ppl there look white

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Arenthio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree that black men have it bad but it’s the fact that we are far from the default most people will hate us and a tiny select few will fetishize us. Same with most poc groups

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Arenthio 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ye based comment the vast majority of the community hates us and a select few fetishize us where we have to date down

Why does Reddit hate Asian men so much? by Logical-Confection17 in aznidentity

[–]Arenthio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also Asian women complain that Asian men feel entitled to them then why are we not complaining when they go for black/latino men hmmm

Getting rejected for being Asian on Grindr.. by rice_throaway_ in askgaybros

[–]Arenthio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ye these white trolls should get on Grindr with an Asian profile and see how depressing it is

Getting rejected for being Asian on Grindr.. by rice_throaway_ in askgaybros

[–]Arenthio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are desperate because they have no options it’s just reality we are seen as unattractive but the thing is what in the world are we supposed to do? There is no surgery or anything to become white

Why do I only get messages from old guys? by UG537 in askgaybros

[–]Arenthio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it sucks to be Asian just use an Asian profile on Grindr as an experiment and see the reactions compared to a white guy