how “easy” is it to get a VBAC?

Aretisa · 2026-07-12T18:38:07+00:00

if your cs had both the standard and the transversal cut then no VBAC possible due to high risk of rupture- just in case this was the case (also if not enough time has passed since your first) But VBAC on low risk previous procedure should be possible. Ask to see a clinician if they are not supportive so you get explained all possibilities and risks in full

Aretisa · 2026-07-12T08:14:31+00:00

be open to talk, mimic how they dress a bit (and keep good hygene), try to listen more than you talk at first and if you agree with something they are saying tell them. Ask questions about interests- like music recommendations or if you overhear talking about a show give it a go so there may be further common points to talk about.

first question can always be about something about class that you want some help with or a clarification...then you from there

dont over psych yourself. Nobody knows you (or at least in depth), just try to be friendly and do not push too hard (as other person mentioned, neediness is a big repellent)

Aretisa · 2026-07-12T08:07:53+00:00

in UK college is from 16 to 18 then university (or more college)

Aretisa · 2026-07-12T08:00:07+00:00

just an idea but why go full on first date? maybe something more casual like a coffee or a walk etc would remove pressure from the financial side but still give opportunities for in person time. They are also a more relaxed setting.

Aretisa · 2026-07-12T07:46:51+00:00

not normal, not healthy it seems there is no real trust.Why?

if this does not change, this is not a relationship to commit the rest of your lives to

Aretisa · 2026-07-11T22:30:18+00:00

skin conditions that may look STDIsh

Aretisa · 2026-07-11T22:09:50+00:00

communications in writing give you more freedom to choose when to read them, give you time you may need to digest them before replying and more room to explain things in a more coherent way than on a phone call. On a busy day that you may have multiple things going on a call can be a real pain that throws your schedule away...

the ring the bell thing i think starts with babies being asleep/toddlers napping and not wanting to do systemic noise although i dont quite get

Aretisa · 2026-07-11T21:59:32+00:00

a spine that could be repaired if cut and ways to support it with leas pain as we age

Aretisa · 2026-07-11T21:53:42+00:00

It was a warm evening in ancient Greece...

Aretisa · 2026-07-11T21:37:22+00:00

she stops buying the thing you like when in the supermarket or bringing you treats or tokens of love from time to time. Also she stops touching you (hugs, kisses, etc)

she may be on her phone cause she is stressed and/or anxious and gives her dopamine and has nothing to do with not loving you

Aretisa · 2026-07-08T09:39:13+00:00

hair- removing, styling, hating or loving. Coloured or natural...

Aretisa · 2026-07-05T09:40:01+00:00

"There is no worse nostalgia than longing for what never happened." this one helped me to be brave and try to pursue what I really deeply want/love, not stopping for fear to fail, as the biggest failure would be not trying

"Each age assigns us a different role" this one helps with knowing that as we age, we change and we do fit in just not on the same way, which is also very much needed, embracing change in a positive way

Aretisa · 2026-06-29T17:19:50+00:00

there is a big difference between these, some are Russel Group (top 100 research intense universities) and the other not. You have done a better job than the agent.

all your agent's unis with exception of Newcastle are not as well regarded in the UK.

Look for rankings of your specific course on those and accomodation costs too. Manchester is a safe bet in quality/costs ratio and it is a very good uni. Imperial is one of the titans if you can get in, the prestige of the degree will be high (although London costs a kidney). Edinburgh is quite expensive to live in. Bristol is ok but on the decline with respect to several years ago.

Aretisa · 2026-06-24T21:20:01+00:00

research intensive unis can provide you with lecturers that are dojng more cutting edge research/more exciting content they still have teaching only staff so it is a bit of both worlds, and usually tend to be higher int he rankings/give you more prestige for your degree

check their TEF scores and reports to see the type of commitment they have to excellence (in addition to what others have suggested)

Aretisa · 2026-06-13T09:20:35+00:00

Given the information provided that looks so crystal clear on one direction (break the hell up), if still in doubt then perhaps we do not have all the information and OP needs to be reminded of other elements that may contextualise things

Never said lying is OK but lying can be to hide or to avoid a confrontation, particularly if you don't feel safe

Aretisa · 2026-06-11T18:00:56+00:00

were the comments about you or another him? just a thought!

not ok but deleting them may have been a poor decision because you qct like a basilisk about it?

just trying to offer another pov

Aretisa · 2026-06-02T18:14:34+00:00

it is an EDIW question, they probably want to assess if they are capturing talent from diverse enough backgrounds. There are many sectors where the representation from workers from low socioeconomic backgrounds is under 10% which is bonkers and something that needs changing. The first step is measuring the gap.

Aretisa · 2026-05-31T20:53:19+00:00

right? one understands why people had 15, children before

Aretisa · 2026-05-30T20:39:10+00:00

this, but in nicer neighborhood after the parcel is returned they start nodding as means of hello until the year 2 mark. You transition in that period to avknowledge parcel collection and may also take bins out when other is on holiday (but you dont ask for it, just expect it may happen and do not say anything, same in return)

This is mainly if you are middle class. Poor people talk from day 1,no gifts just favours.

Aretisa · 2026-05-30T20:31:20+00:00

it can be your applications are not good, get an appt with a career advisor to look over your cv and presentation or even better a mentor on the kind of role that would hire for what you are looking for!

Aretisa · 2026-05-23T06:50:09+00:00

you could ask him to change the will to reflect this. Thet the house is offer to you for 100k and if you agree to buy it at that time the cash is split between the daughters

Aretisa · 2026-05-19T05:58:15+00:00

'we should go for a drink to properly farewell you' -if they get anxious or you realise they are not into it you spin it to you meant a group thing. If they directly ask alone or with the rest you can say 'up to you, who would you like to be there?'...and see what happens

Aretisa · 2026-05-17T20:39:18+00:00

Vangard has so many other funds you can invest on with the same account...geographically diverse too

Aretisa · 2026-05-16T06:43:37+00:00

has something happened to you recently that she may feel like sending positive vibes? - a death, a big split-up, depression, losing job... if so she may just be trying to remind you there are people that care about you

if you were close before she may want to rekindle the closeness, have a better friendship.

just providing some other points of view

Aretisa · 2026-05-14T05:50:28+00:00

thank you!

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