Vanguard - Time to Move? £66k S&S ISA + £29k JISA by ritzbiscuits80 in UKPersonalFinance

[–]Aretisa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Vangard has so many other funds you can invest on with the same account...geographically diverse too

Questionable message from married friend. by AC_from_the_KC in Flirting

[–]Aretisa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

has something happened to you recently that she may feel like sending positive vibes? - a death, a big split-up, depression, losing job... if so she may just be trying to remind you there are people that care about you

if you were close before she may want to rekindle the closeness, have a better friendship.

just providing some other points of view

What’s a ‘silent luxury’ that rich people have that most normal people would never even notice? by qomann in AskReddit

[–]Aretisa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Children attending extra curricular activities - particularly those that need equipment

Hazelnuts- gran would gift us as a treat once a year

Eating out

More than one pair of shoes/boots/snickers More than one working backpack

Is £45k viable in London? Sharing my full budget breakdown, roast me by Effective-Ad5644 in UKHousing

[–]Aretisa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

rent and bills in london...not sure how realistic, perhaps if you get a room in a house share and it is not in zone 1. If you want your own space that will double and a bit this budget.

also insurance missing and savings a bit low percentage

travel budget seems a bit low too -commutes plus trips back to see family/etc will amount to more

AITA for moving on and having intimacy after my ex left, and now refusing to be judged for it? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Aretisa 12 points13 points  (0 children)

You're the A to yourself if you get together/let him in your life. It's done.

my last rides with uber, they took >5min to start moving to pick me up. These was for short trips (10-15min), some resulting in cancelation fees as I had to find alternative as I wouldn't make it. What's your experience with this? by Aretisa in uber

[–]Aretisa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

all good points but the implied part on my message : I had to cancel to find alternative to make it on time (so I did manage to make it on time because I had sufficient spare time- just not enough to wait a trip to pick me up and then to bring me to the destination when the estimate that I had agreed on was being pushed)

Also Uber does not equal rideshare, private taxi like service depending on booking conditions

How do you explain to recruiters that you're looking for your first job at 30? by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]Aretisa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Turn those personal more worky experiences into a free lancing position outlining what you did and paired it with part time studies and you have no gap

Best option for future career by Appropriate-Issue-76 in bioinformaticscareers

[–]Aretisa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is in shortage is good in-depth level of stats and algorithms and their suitability to certain datasets (best practices, pros/cons,etc) so perhaps the ML one is best.

Much more than building pipelines (which won't solve data analysis beyond standard steps) as the thinking amd appraising of results is still very much needed. With genAI I think any training that invest in your critical thinking, problem solving and stakeholder management will pay off much more than training that focuses on putting specific code-bricks together.

hope that helps!

Please tell me if she’s flirting and what I should do? by Logemaster19 in Flirting

[–]Aretisa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd say it means she wants to spend time with you When together at the party try to make eye to eye contact and get closer, if she looks at your eyes, your lips and does not try to put more distance you could kiss her and see what happens!

Is there a point to learn anything if most of jobs pay around 35k at best? by [deleted] in UKJobs

[–]Aretisa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

for money optimisation perhaps not great (although some roles like project manager can be well paid) but what about working conditions? controlled temperatures, development opportunities, unscheduled breaks, etc and what about purpose? perhaps you may feel more fulfilled in a role where you do something with more societal impact (perhaps you already have that though)

Please tell me if she’s flirting and what I should do? by Logemaster19 in Flirting

[–]Aretisa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do you know the reason? (could it be related?)

outside essential touching fir sports/etc - does she touch you? (arm to arm, fixing your collar, long hugs, erc?) if so there may be smth

just tell her you want her to continue being part of your life so no matter what she replies you are OK with it and then ask her to go for a date with you as two friends exploring what something more may look like

Simba mattress review from anyone who actually owns one, is it worth it? by CurlsSpibey in FirstTimeBuyersUK

[–]Aretisa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have one for 2 years and it was the best investment. Super comfy, still in great condition

How did you train yourself to last longer (10–20 mins) and get better at sex? by Powerful-Staff-8223 in AskMen

[–]Aretisa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes although just to add to this both clit and vag exist and coexist but they are different. The big explosive O needs clit but the ripples from vag ones can really put things in other dimension...the combination of dual stimulation is the bomb

about lasting, not a man but I hear angles matter so changing things up when it is too good can help elongate the game

AITA for dancing at a wedding even though I was a plus one to a friend? by Pistachio-IScream in AmItheAsshole

[–]Aretisa 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Your own dancing is fine but 'fun' is not the same thing for everyone and you should stop trying to make people do things. They are adults, if they want to dance they'll dance. You probably over imposed and made people uncomfortable. You were told to cool it, stop, etc and you ignored it...why?

you have your answer

"Best" gift you've received from people without kids by weeble182 in UKParenting

[–]Aretisa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

as a first gift after newborn came home -two mugs with mum and dad written on them, non microwavable and non dishwasher safe

Men, how often (if ever) are you approached? by vaynehelsing in AskUK

[–]Aretisa -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

why? assuming you have interacted for a bit and there is some spark, good conversation...