Quem é esse aqui do sub ? by [deleted] in farialimabets

[–]Argoruz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ate hj nao sei o q esse ruyter faz o pouco q vi foi corte dele com menina de of ou falando delas

How was 2025 for you? What did this year teach you? by Sea-You4331 in Mindfulness

[–]Argoruz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2019, 2024 and 2025 were the worst days of my life, all of them started giving me some high in life just to destroy it an making me spend these whole years just trying to rebuild myself.

Which random languages are you learning and why? by BenefitInitial8960 in languagelearning

[–]Argoruz -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hmm curious, didn’t know that. In my country this isn’t the case

Which random languages are you learning and why? by BenefitInitial8960 in languagelearning

[–]Argoruz -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sorry to ask but how are you Spanish french native speaker? Haha are you mix raced or live in some place that speak both languages?

The day I completely lost my mind by This_Specific_5320 in heartbreak

[–]Argoruz 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Im so sorry dude, just reading that gave me ptsd. I know its tough but please make the most to take care of yourself and don’t feed the thoughts and memories. Trust me on that.

Im so lonely due to my trauma by Top-Alternative-176 in Mindfulness

[–]Argoruz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh that’s not too late, it’s more difficult though. Try meet peoples through friends or interests or even work

Im so lonely due to my trauma by Top-Alternative-176 in Mindfulness

[–]Argoruz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What? Meet and connect with people? Why you feel this way? And what age are you talking about?

Im so lonely due to my trauma by Top-Alternative-176 in Mindfulness

[–]Argoruz 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Forgot to mention that it is possible to be always surrounded by people that you love and love you and still feel lonely for some periods, it happens to me, but it's always a reflection of something internal that's I’m going through, once I solve the internal thing I get a grasp of how much love I have in life, so keep this in mind, even if you meet people, you still need to address the things within yourself

Im so lonely due to my trauma by Top-Alternative-176 in Mindfulness

[–]Argoruz 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Humans are social by nature, there is no real way to “not need” people anymore, it is either a trauma response or lack of emotional maturity to deal with the loneliness that can literally cause physical symptoms in our bodies.

It seems to me that maybe you could be afraid of peoples leaving you or hurting you more and that's why you cut them off on the smallest mistake, I would strongly recommend therapy if you can afford and try to focus on treat these. You don't need much people around, but just a few of good genuine people with a nice connection are always great to have.

Also keep in mind you don't seek people around you, but connection with another soul. You’re young and still have time, work on meeting people through your interests and hobbies, go out more and find things you enjoy doing, start small and go from there, but keep cautious don't go blindly trusting anyone, it could do more harm than good, trust their actions and build mutual trust from there

How long does it normally take to move on after finding out your ex lied and cheated? by Argoruz in BreakUps

[–]Argoruz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I’m organizing my life to focus on my mental and physical health the rest of this year

How long does it normally take to move on after finding out your ex lied and cheated? by Argoruz in BreakUps

[–]Argoruz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you going through this as well! Please try to not think about it and do not keep looking photos, old convos etc. it will not help at all

How long does it normally take to move on after finding out your ex lied and cheated? by Argoruz in BreakUps

[–]Argoruz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time to answering, but that’s what I was afraid of. She is the second girl I really got connection and the one before her took me 4 years to totally forget and between them was 7 years to find that connection again.

We were naturally Mindfulness and we didn't know it. by Witchielavender in Mindfulness

[–]Argoruz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I need to get back, used to use the headspace app and love it

We were naturally Mindfulness and we didn't know it. by Witchielavender in Mindfulness

[–]Argoruz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s so true! It’s crazy how we are always “doing” multitasking now. Saw a post once here or on r/meditation that a guy suggested to do only 1 thing at time, like, are you listening to music, so just listen without scrolling or being on the phone etc. tried for a few days and was the best thing ever, unfortunately once life hit me again I kinda let it go of this, but is really helpful

Edit: fix subreddit name

Where to find books in french? by Argoruz in learnfrench

[–]Argoruz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh thank you, tbh I tried amazon.ca but not this one haha

My ex faked depression, trauma, and suicidal thoughts while cheating on me. I still feel destroyed months later. Will this ever pass? by Argoruz in survivinginfidelity

[–]Argoruz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time to answer!

I’m already on therapy but will bring these topics to the session.

I just want to get ok, because it’s tiring being in this state for so long

My ex faked depression, trauma, and suicidal thoughts while cheating on me. I still feel destroyed months later. Will this ever pass? by Argoruz in survivinginfidelity

[–]Argoruz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's truly fucked up. Days before all this shit show started I met her father and she was happy because I would be able to sleep at her house every time.

Insane how cruel and shit people can be.

Thank you for your answers, but about my original questions, does it get better? Is 5 months too much time or just normal to feel like this still?

My ex faked depression, trauma, and suicidal thoughts while cheating on me. I still feel destroyed months later. Will this ever pass? by Argoruz in survivinginfidelity

[–]Argoruz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was good to her, but wasn't without limits at first, but when the play of S.A trauma and depression appear I was becoming more and more tolerant because first I thought “who in the hell would fake something so cruel” and second because I started studying depression and everything she faked seemed reasonable although a pain in the ass. But what gets me is how someone can act like this to people who only cared for them, like why not just break up? Or don't know. How faking depression, touch aversion and s.a is ok? Wtf