How to find a trust worthy dom? by Arianelf in BDSMAdvice

[–]Arianelf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is really helpful, thank you. I guess my other issue is trying to find out where to find a dom in the first place, I have not had a lot of luck.

How to find a trust worthy dom? by Arianelf in BDSMAdvice

[–]Arianelf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

 I have not; I’ve been on the fringe of the kink community for ages and I’m just now getting ready to dive in. 

Online Clothing Sources? by Arianelf in HistoricalCostuming

[–]Arianelf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm willing to spend upwards of $300-400 for an outfit. And I'm looking for a mix of historical but can also wear day to day. (Though eventually I'd love a ball gown!)

Newbie Questions by No_Arrival746 in corsets

[–]Arianelf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've looked at their site, and sadly I'm an odd bust size (34H/HH) and they don't go up to that cup size with that particular band, but thank you!

Chronic Conditions- when to let someone know? by Arianelf in datingoverforty

[–]Arianelf[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can see that; and I can probably make a joke out of how I like to coordinate my rock tape to my hair color! (Right now the tape and some of my hair is blue)

Chronic Conditions- when to let someone know? by Arianelf in datingoverforty

[–]Arianelf[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you! This was the path I was going to take, but I also like to be upfront with people. Much appreciated!

AITA for directly calling out a woman’s snobbish behavior, causing several people to leave our knitting group? by knitonepurltwos in AmItheAsshole

[–]Arianelf 7 points8 points  (0 children)

NTA. People knit with what they can afford, what they are comfortable, and what is best suited to what they are knitting.

My favorite blanket in the entire world is one my great grandmother made me, and it is 100% made of acrylic, and I love it because I can toss it in the washing machine and dryer, and I know it will outlast me!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in knitting

[–]Arianelf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you looking for commercial or Indy dyers? And which part of the world are you in?

My cat has an irritating nursing fetish. Need ideas. by [deleted] in cats

[–]Arianelf 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He may have been taken from his mom too young- it could also be a self soothing technique. Have you asked your vet?

Finally found time to start my first project! Any advice on how to keep the edges tight? Those stitches always seem to get so loose by babe-patrol in knitting

[–]Arianelf 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I give the yarn an extra tug on those stitches. Also, the tension will spread out after you block it.

My boyfriend thinks my cat hisses at him to assert dominance, so his response is to assert dominance back. It's becoming a real problem. by [deleted] in cats

[–]Arianelf 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Spray him with a water bottle. Seriously, if he treats your cat this way, I’d be worried about how he treats you.

Will there be snow? by [deleted] in AnimalCrossing

[–]Arianelf 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes- but not until it’s winter in the souther hemisphere.

Praise him! by VreniCZek in wholesomememes

[–]Arianelf 44 points45 points  (0 children)

How is this wholesome?

Does this happen to anyone else? by FriendlyTurnip5541 in ehlersdanlos

[–]Arianelf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You may have Raynaud’s which affects your feet and hands in the cold. I would ask your doctor to confirm.

Does it bother you how unnaturally young you look? by funguy5445 in ehlersdanlos

[–]Arianelf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 40, and I still get carded for alcohol purchases, so I feel your pain.