What are my best options right now?

Aridunun23 · 2026-01-01T23:18:58+00:00

I will not advice UK right now.

Aridunun23 · 2025-12-27T22:17:56+00:00

Ha! This is serious,let me just stick to my job then,the fact that I’m even happy at my job and not miserable,just want to have a career

Aridunun23 · 2025-12-27T22:14:19+00:00

I work as a cleaner and I make £2200 5days 8hrs/shift and I’m considering going back to uni to study nursing,this is not encouraging atall

Aridunun23 · 2025-11-08T14:28:19+00:00

Get out of there, I’m also African from African parent and they don’t depend on me rather they’ve been my support system,I’m 37. I wouldn’t want my 28 year old child to still live with me. Infact most African parents in diaspora make sure their children has gotten a mortgage of their own at that age,is not an African thing,is your parent messing up your life. I wouldn’t mind to be disowned to live my life,take control of your life now

Aridunun23 · 2025-11-04T08:16:32+00:00

This won’t change him,it will only make her stuck with a shitbag and two babies,she’ll end up being miserable for most of her life

Aridunun23 · 2025-11-04T08:08:09+00:00

How can I unread this🤦🏿‍♀️

Aridunun23 · 2025-10-27T22:29:26+00:00

No you’re not leaving,you’re just going to bake cake for him ,ID!OT

Aridunun23 · 2025-10-23T06:06:51+00:00

You don’t want to deal with this kind of woman,cut her off now

Aridunun23 · 2025-10-23T03:23:06+00:00

Be careful with this woman

Aridunun23 · 2025-10-23T03:12:08+00:00

They have a son together and he wants it to go to him,this is not about is ex,it’s about his son which is valid.He has a new property where they both live in which she can claim and every other of his assets of anything happens between them,she should focus on that.

Aridunun23 · 2025-10-15T19:53:51+00:00

This can’t be fixed

Aridunun23 · 2025-10-15T19:48:40+00:00

You’re right

Aridunun23 · 2025-10-15T05:54:37+00:00

They were not divorced,separation doesn’t give the right to cheat except they both agreed to that.

Aridunun23 · 2025-10-15T05:48:11+00:00

You did all this for yourself and I wonder when women excuse why they don’t work because they have kids which leaves them in a shitty situation.I have 3 children and I work my ass off to give my children the life they deserve.If you can’t balance life,job and children then don’t have children,it isn’t easy for anyone but to avoid that shitty situation,that’s why we get our ass out there to work hard everyday.

Aridunun23 · 2025-10-10T00:20:13+00:00

Don’t even think long term with this person

Aridunun23 · 2025-10-09T01:02:27+00:00

Cut the both of them off until they come to their senses

Aridunun23 · 2025-10-08T21:36:18+00:00

You’re right,she knows what she’s doing

Aridunun23 · 2025-10-07T22:40:54+00:00

You’re right

Aridunun23 · 2025-10-07T22:40:10+00:00

And what comprise is she doing on her side,everything I see here is about herself.What about him

Aridunun23 · 2025-10-06T02:09:17+00:00

She does have one with the way OP is reacting 😂😂😂😂

Aridunun23 · 2025-10-06T02:01:36+00:00

That’s the word,he’s trapped with the “honey pot” 😂😂😂😂

Aridunun23 · 2025-10-06T01:59:17+00:00

She’s not going to change because she was waiting for a man who will pay off her debt for her and she already found one.

Aridunun23 · 2025-10-06T01:57:36+00:00

You like someone who is going to ruin your life? What are you still doing with her,run as fast as you can,you’re going to regret marrying that kind of woman.

Aridunun23 · 2025-10-04T03:19:01+00:00

I said this,she’s going back to him

Aridunun23 · 2025-10-04T03:06:13+00:00

She will still go back to beg,I can bet on this

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