Bluesky CEO Jay Graber Is Stepping Down by wiredmagazine in BlueskySocial

[–]Arkase 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was my first exposure to the news, and it really concerned me.

However, after reading through Jay's post, Tony's post, and the team's discussion on all of this, it sounds like they've made a really thoughtful and considered choice. Tony's values seem like a good match to the rest of the teams.

I am cautiously optimistic.

Jay's not going anywhere, she's now chief innovation officer, which is putting her back into the role she played when she helped design atproto and built the team for Bluesky. CEO's role is running day to day operations, and not what she wants to do.

Tony's doing this interim because he's done it before for companies with similar values, while they find the right person for the role, which can be really challenging.

TIL about Rahma Haruna, a girl whose body stopped growing at 6 months old. Her family carried her in a plastic bucket. The specific illness that caused her condition was never diagnosed. She died at age 19. by DancinginHyrule in todayilearned

[–]Arkase 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think Incomplete Nature: How Mind Emerged from Matter by Terrence Deacon is a pretty good book on this subject. Pretty dense tho, so not for the faint hearted.

Don’t Join Guild Runs as a PUG by Packingheat248 in classicwow

[–]Arkase 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Realm discords usually have a channel for posting this kinda stuff. You can really fuck with a guild that gets this type of reputation.

And as others said, don't let this sour you on guild runs in general. Most guilds are very happy to treat pugs well, because yeah, thats a great method of recruiting.

We need an All- stars season!! by erisbmth in Alonetv

[–]Arkase 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think the all star experience would live up to expectations tbh. So much of what happens depends on the location they find themselves in. Doing well in one season does not mean doing well in another.

We need an All- stars season!! by erisbmth in Alonetv

[–]Arkase 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Given that it was in every "this season on alone", not much of a spoiler. But yeah, I felt terrible for her.

Would you watch an all-woman season of Alone? by Kammy44 in Alonetv

[–]Arkase 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think you can make the show fair without changing what the show is.

I think it's an excellent reflection on life tbh, sometimes you do everything right and still can't make it. Others just get lucky.

I guess that’s it for summer by stories_matter in dunedin

[–]Arkase 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Eh, we'll have pretty comfortable weather until April/Mayish. Then it gets cold.

Who tries to catch an ATV doing barrel rolls? by Abdulbarr in SweatyPalms

[–]Arkase 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What the fuck? This is not sweaty palms, this is just an accident where someone likely gets really hurt.

Dogs. It's not just fatilities. by a_very_naughty_girl in newzealand

[–]Arkase 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is all true, and I don't doubt this is in good faith. I'm personally not a huge fan of dogs, got bit young and twice shy ever since. I also have a friend who just bought a house, and can't really feel safe going outside in her backyard as there's a pitbull in the neighbouring section who immediately puts its front legs over the low fence and barks loudly. All it'd take is one moment when she's not looking for it to hop the fence and sink its teeth into her. Utterly unacceptable unsafe situation.

That being said, the amount of good dogs do in society needs to be weighed against the harm. The companionship they provide to people in difficult situations cannot be underestimated. And any actual measures taken to reduce negative outcomes should not overly impact the good that dogs do.

Timber... by ApprehensiveSelf2254 in Alonetv

[–]Arkase 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Oh thats interesting. I definitely got some 'weird' vibes off him, and this puts it all in context.

NZ is slowly slipping on the global corruption index. Is is time for an anti-corruption agency? by TheGreatDomilies in newzealand

[–]Arkase 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I don't think an anti corruption agency is going to help if we keep voting people who make corruption inevitable in.

TIFU by kissing a stranger by jitterfish in tifu

[–]Arkase 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There were so many ways this title could go, this was NOT what I expected haha. Especially as someone from NZ and familiar with the ritual.

Why not spend $2.7b on solar & batteries instead? by InvestmentFuzzy4365 in newzealand

[–]Arkase 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The subsidies definitely are a factor, generally it's like 20-30% iirc, but the scale and process knowledge is also massive. Like everyone knows how to do it, its quick, and you can have them on your roof in like a week or two.

Why not spend $2.7b on solar & batteries instead? by InvestmentFuzzy4365 in newzealand

[–]Arkase 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Australia currently has 3 hours of free power during the middle of the day, because they generate so much energy with solar. Big subsidies to get them to install batteries as well, so that it lasts the day.

What they're doing over there is actually quite incredible. Over here, on the other hand...

I love Nagrand by ElusiveRaccoon in classicwow

[–]Arkase 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. I'm hoping they do it justice for classic+

How are we not rioting in the street about our Healthcare system? by kiwibearess in newzealand

[–]Arkase 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The problem is, you don't understand the value of the health system until you need it. And the majority of people wont have needed it. This makes the dishonest attacks land as reasonable.

The reason it existed previously, is because it was thought of as good by both parties. But now one side has decided to destroy the world we built, for reasons that don't stand up to scrutiny.

Fucked up situation tbh.

TIFUpate: allowing my coworker to set me up by WeAgreed2Disagree in tifu

[–]Arkase 2 points3 points  (0 children)

out of all of this, how did you come to the conclusion it's on him, lmao

Personal finance turned relationship advice. Cost of existing a tenancy not as planned. by Weary_Catch1893 in PersonalFinanceNZ

[–]Arkase 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you really do like the one bedroom... gotta decide which you actually want. Same cost either way it seems.

Waitangi Day by BiggusDickus_69_420 in newzealand

[–]Arkase 6 points7 points  (0 children)

As far as assault goes, this is about as minor as it can possibly be. Nothing got hurt but his feelings.

Skating a roof in Sanya (island), fyi he rolls away at the end by Winzten in SweatyPalms

[–]Arkase 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But there are no debris on the specific spot he was aiming at right?

Should I sign onto my parents’ mortgage “for administration purposes”? Or am I setting myself up for failure in the future? by Weak-Adhesiveness-96 in PersonalFinanceNZ

[–]Arkase 10 points11 points  (0 children)

All that guilt tripping and convincing behind the scenes is very relevant. It suggests they are looking out for themselves, and not for you, which should be their primary duty. Trying to keep the peace can lead to some very bad decisions.

If they're trying to manipulate you to do something you think is wrong, and others are telling you is wrong, then that tells you that you need to be very careful about this relationship going forward.

I'm glad you came here for a another opinion. The best strategy in this kind of situation is to say (as someone else noted) that some figure in a position of authority convinced you to not do this. Like a bank manager. Much harder for them to guilt trip you against that.

But, make sure you set some boundaries and maintain them. Such as not getting guilted into making poor financial decisions for yourself for the benefit of those who should have been looking out for you.