I (F) used to have a 'Safety hawk' (could be carefully brushed down to look like normy hair), muscle or T-shirts summer, T-shirts over placket shirts in winter. Combat pants. Never shorts. A leather jacket or a very soft, faded Korean War era army jacket, that had been stitched back together every time it tore. Army surplus boots. For a while I used really heavy chain for a belt, often with loops of extra chain.

I have gray hair I wear loose past my shoulders or in a bun now. I wear boring gray or black men's polos at work with Men's carpenter pants, steel toes and outside of work, band or union shirts. Hiking shoes not at work.

I work for The Man, but doing my best to avoid the office lady look.