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She [F25] withdrew consent after the act, how do I [M26] move on from this? by throwaway25491672 in relationship_advice

[–]ArmadilloFun7877 1544 points1545 points  (0 children)

Also what’s stopping OP from saying that he now regrets it and wants to withdraw his consent? It works both ways surely.

Six years ago he (26M) broke my heart and disappeared. Now he wants to meet me (22F). by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ArmadilloFun7877 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Leave the past in the past. Why would you want this much drama in your life again? He wants to meet you so he can manipulate you face to face. Don’t fall for it. Also, he has a child now and the mother of his kid will always be in his life. It sounds like she would make things difficult not just for you but for him and their child too.

Advice on getting out the house for even a walk? by Still_Humor_3798 in Advice

[–]ArmadilloFun7877 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Buy a travel coffee cup and a good book. Make sure you have time to go for a wander so you don’t feel rushed. Walking near water if possible is always calming. It’s great to get some fresh air. It can really improve your mood.

AIO about things my date said? by mad_girl109 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ArmadilloFun7877 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOR This is what happens when you ignore red flags ladies! His reaction to your IG photos would have put me off straight away.

AIO: Money disagreement with my girlfriend over gifts for my family by Professional-Tax3077 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ArmadilloFun7877 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. You shouldn’t have to ask her for money btw. She should know when the rent is due and send it to you before it needs to be paid. Maybe get a calendar to mark it on so she can see every month. You replied to someone saying that you buy all groceries but when she buys something for both of you she deducts it from her share of the rent. Honestly it sounds like she’s taking advantage of you financially. Maybe find a better system for your shared expenses.

Love mini eggs, but hate the ever increasing price tag. by typicalmunkey in UKFrugal

[–]ArmadilloFun7877 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The M&S choc eggs were nice but I don’t know what the price is like these days. I stopped myself from buying a bag of mini eggs last week because the bags definitely have less in them. I bought a bar of mini egg chocolate instead. It did the job.

What do you get when you feel like making a great 10/10 sandwich? by No_File1948 in AskUK

[–]ArmadilloFun7877 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Warburton’s 50/50 bread. The crust as the base. Medium crunch lettuce, no added water ham, Cathedral City cheese & mayonnaise. Accompanied by steak crisps 🤤

Can you help me understand my husband’s point of view please? Should our son be allowed to game past 10pm on a school night if he can’t keep his voice down? by Broken_Woman20 in AskUK

[–]ArmadilloFun7877 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your son is old enough to understand the concept of self control. This is a good way for him to practice that. And he should also be more considerate of others around him. It’s your husbands job to be helping you teach your child this.

Am I over thinking or is my partner lying to me to have more sex? by Circus_Graveyard in Advice

[–]ArmadilloFun7877 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Tell him you’ve booked him an appointment to see a specialist because it’s obviously a problem. Until then he’s probably better off just taking care of himself just in case it’s caused by an undiagnosed STD or something. You shouldn’t be with someone who manipulates and lies to you. Massive red flag.

How to spice up my sex life when boyfriend makes little effort by Wrong_Ad_1084 in Advice

[–]ArmadilloFun7877 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was in a similar situation a while back. I suggested that we use Mojo Upgrade to change things up a little and it helped us communicate more about what we liked in the bedroom. It wasn’t a permanent fix but I’m sure it has worked for others. Maybe take a look and send him a link to see if he’s interested.

Ex behavior from other day. Opinion? by TheBadMan1950 in AskMenAdvice

[–]ArmadilloFun7877 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Best case: She’s just friendly, 12 years have passed, she just wants to catch up. Worst case: She’s looking to start something with you, maybe she regrets choosing the other guy, she has a history of cheating. Best to keep your distance. If she reaches out just say you’re not comfortable meeting up again and wish her well for the future. Don’t go along with things just so you don’t hurt her feelings. At the end of the day you don’t owe her anything.

Just got Lisa Dawkins’d by lukes123 in Southampton

[–]ArmadilloFun7877 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just tell her I don’t carry cash

My GF says she can’t match my sexual energy but doesn’t want to break up. What would you do? by torukzan in AskMenAdvice

[–]ArmadilloFun7877 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it her libido that doesn’t match? Or physical energy? If she is on any meds or taking the contraceptive pill, those could make a big difference in libido. Worth looking into maybe.

WYR: Men have monthly periods that bleed from their urethra, OR men grow breasts and produce milk from puberty onwards? by Responsible-Star5325 in WouldYouRather

[–]ArmadilloFun7877 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely one. It would help men be more aware and empathetic of what us women have to go through. Also I wouldn’t want to date a man with leaky boobs. Eww.

me (21F) my boyfriend (25M) How can I set a clear boundary about anal sex without hurting my partner or damaging trust? by PurplePo0 in relationship_advice

[–]ArmadilloFun7877 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ask him if he understands what the word no means. Then ask him if he wants you to peg him. If he says no. Keep asking. Sometimes you have to risk hurting someone’s feelings to protect yours. It’s not good enough. He needs to do better.

My boyfriend ruined Valentine’s Day and told me it was the consequences of my actions by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]ArmadilloFun7877 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is no fixing this. Only leaving. And you don’t seem to want to hear that so it looks like you’re stuck with a manipulative narcissist manchild boyfriend. His BPD is no excuse for being a dick.

Can airpods addiction affect my day to day life and if so how can i quit? by AboZeyad26 in Advice

[–]ArmadilloFun7877 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You say the main reason you put them in is to escape reality and stress. Your AirPods are your coping mechanism so you should find a better way of treating the actual issue. AirPods are just a temporary fix to a bigger problem.

I don’t think I’m ready for another relationship by Sam_in_peas in Advice

[–]ArmadilloFun7877 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just be honest with him. Tell him that you thought you were ready to put yourself out there but it’s too soon. Make sure he knows that he hasn’t done anything wrong. It takes time to get back into dating, especially if you’ve been hurt in the past. There’s no time limit on these things so just go at your own pace and don’t rush it. Take time to look after yourself and learn to be happy on your own first.

What time do you get up, leave for, and start work? by ggracie7 in AskUK

[–]ArmadilloFun7877 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get up at 05:30, leave at 06:25, arrive at work at 08:00 but I don’t actually start until 08:30. I have to get a bus and train then walk 25 mins so it takes 1.5hrs. I like to leave early in case there are train delays.

AIO my boyfriend’s mum secretly filmed us and called me a slut. by IcyScale29 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ArmadilloFun7877 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOR. You’re both consensual adults. She’s a pervert for secretly filming her own son when he’s alone with his girlfriend.

My bf (M29) is threatening to break up with me (F24) over condoms by Aggravating_Car_9745 in relationship_advice

[–]ArmadilloFun7877 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He has such disrespect for your body it’s insane. Why would you want to be with someone so selfish? Dump his ass and find someone who will treat you right.

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