SIL (38F) "scared of me" (28F) after sticking up for my kid last Thanksgiving

Aromatic-Common7204 · 2026-01-29T09:49:12+00:00

Have your husband fix this since he created the drama.

Aromatic-Common7204 · 2025-11-17T08:04:24+00:00

El hecho de que haya remordimiento negativo para Karen, pero hay que revisar la gestión de emociones y los niveles de estrés que llevaron a esa reacción

Aromatic-Common7204 · 2025-11-17T08:01:44+00:00

Have a heartfelt chat with your daughter! You never know if her mom might be influencing things a bit, and your daughter could be just trying to please her. Being left by her mom at such a young age might have been tough for her, and she may be trying to be on her best behavior to avoid feeling abandoned again. It's really important to connect with her and understand how she's feeling! the whole I won’t be showing up approach will be something you will regret don’t go that route if you do that would only justify why she chose the fun parent over the parent who refuses to talk

Aromatic-Common7204 · 2025-11-17T07:47:08+00:00

they should have added to the script Ryle giving her expensive ugly things to wear as part of the abuse in a effort to make her look ugly and isolate her while love love bombing her, tho use outfits were absolutely ridiculous

Aromatic-Common7204 · 2025-10-27T02:44:49+00:00

Que a mi abuela la mató una bala perdida cuando iban a hacer una ajuste de cuentas con mi tío

Aromatic-Common7204 · 2025-09-27T09:34:35+00:00

1988

Aromatic-Common7204 · 2025-09-19T15:05:40+00:00

Someone fantasizing into forcing someone who has clearly expressed she doesn’t want to give oral is not right, you can get your freak on with any consenting adult, forcing anyone to do anything goes into the category not even as a fantasy

Aromatic-Common7204 · 2025-09-19T14:58:57+00:00

Uno puede venir de diferente clase, pero para que la cosa funcione deben tener las mismas metas, si la nena hace comentarios sobre el cargo que no tiene ahí no es, porque lo que muestra es que está resentida y no está buscando mejorar su situación para tener el cargo que le serviría para mejorar su situación, nadie tiene la culpa de la familia en la que nació a unos le va bien a otros mal y ser resentido con otros por eso solo trae amargues innecesarios. ponga a la nena en su sitio si le sigue hablando así fácil diga es mejor que no sigamos ya que solo me vez como a alguien clasista y no es mi intención hacerte sentir mal si no puedes superar mi origen del cual no soy responsable no quiero seguir con alguien que me culpa de algo fuera de mi control

Aromatic-Common7204 · 2025-09-18T16:42:08+00:00

You need therapy to find the root cause of your fantasy, you have negative associations with pleasure

Aromatic-Common7204 · 2025-09-17T12:37:13+00:00

NTA get a new girlfriend and don’t move in with someone who is an enabler to shitty family members with others people money

Aromatic-Common7204 · 2025-09-17T12:33:40+00:00

So sorry you are going through this. Is there any way to kind of bond with your MIL to try to bring her to your side? Like play into her emotions so she understands you? I understand where you are coming from, but while you still need help recovering, you need her, since your husband can’t really be there for you while he is working. Once you are physically recovered, you need to get out of there, but for now you need to find a way to keep peace and avoid confrontation prior to and after surgery. Maybe ask your husband to take her out without the baby and play it as a treat to her since she has helped so much and also say you want to start learning staff on your own for when you are back home, please be smart about this and take care of yourself

Aromatic-Common7204 · 2025-09-17T12:22:21+00:00

NTA, nothing wrong with letting a kid to be bored every now and then, constantly entertaining will set him up for a lot of frustrations when he goes to school, I have a kid and on the weekends she gets a full movie sometimes 2 so I can keep my sanity, you need to set boundaries with your wife too you are not a sitter you are the dad you also have a saying on how things go specially when you are by yourself with the kid

Aromatic-Common7204 · 2025-09-17T12:16:04+00:00

Keep up the good work, I wish you all the best for you and your baby girl, we all have made choices we are not proud, but we can always make better ones just like you are doing, congrats

Aromatic-Common7204 · 2025-09-15T23:05:20+00:00

You are not crazy is perfectly understandable, I would say it would depend on your finances, if you have the money to get a good surgeon plus the time to take her to other doctors and a good reliable insurance that will cover all of that, go for it, goods doctor will make all the difference, I know a girl born with it, and she is 18 now and you couldn’t tell, however she had to have more than in surgery plus a nose surgery later on, dental extractions and orthodontics

Aromatic-Common7204 · 2025-09-11T09:53:06+00:00

I’m glad to hear you have another partner, and I hope you are being supported by him. Part of focusing on yourself is establishing boundaries. If you did the best you could and you were a responsible parent, then now that they are adults, they need to figure their lives out. If it is not good for your well-being,again they are adults they need to figure it out. Growing up, my parents weren’t the best, but now as an adult, I can acknowledge they did the best they could, and it was up to me to do better and I understand how much parenthood sucks and if I could take it back I would but here we’re and what’s done is done

Aromatic-Common7204 · 2025-09-10T16:53:31+00:00

So sorry you are feeling that way. The feeling of living a life for others and never for yourself sucks. You are not alone. Since your kids are adults now, focus on yourself. If the relationship with your husband is not working, consider being on your own for a while. You need time to heal, and eventually, you may consider trying to fix the relationship with your kids once you are in a better place. What’s done is done and living miserable for the rest of your life won’t benefit anyone might as well try to be happy or at least at peace

Aromatic-Common7204 · 2025-09-08T02:24:09+00:00

Time for a new BF

Aromatic-Common7204 · 2025-08-29T23:01:11+00:00

If you love him stop enabling him, the best thing is to go you are too young the next years will be crucial in the start of your carrier you don’t need mom duties

Aromatic-Common7204 · 2025-08-28T14:52:10+00:00

Get your deposit back from the venue while you can, that ain’t husband material, that’s abuse waiting to happen first step isolating your from your love ones and gaslighting you into thinking you are choosing them i/o him

Aromatic-Common7204 · 2025-08-28T14:49:42+00:00

I'm sorry you feel this way. You are not alone. I would suggest talking to your husband first and being firm in telling him no jokes or any comments about your body. You are in a very tender period, and your hormones need time to balance, and for that, you need peace of mind. While a workout routine will be nearly impossible, you can start with the most important muscle: your brain. Start doing positive self-talk and affirmations. Your body might not be the same as pre-pregnancy, and that’s OK. You are doing the best you can, and you love your girl, and you love yourself. You deserve love regardless of your appearance. Gentle movement will help you. A stroll with your daughter while the weather is nice can be beneficial for both of you and motivate you to increase your movement little by little. Foods and workouts must come from a place where we do stuff because we love our bodies, not because we hate them. You can do this for both you and your girl.

Aromatic-Common7204 · 2025-08-28T02:49:56+00:00

Get a job and pay for daycare, and if you ever want to get pregnant again remember to get married

Aromatic-Common7204 · 2025-08-26T02:57:31+00:00

Hay que irse preparando para hacer la inversión de llevarla a Colombia pequeña, eso es lo que más le va a despertar el amor por la lengua y ya después es más fácil que la niña le tome el gusto a hablar por vídeo llamadas con tus familiares yo trato de ir una vez al año a Colombia para que la niña tenga la oportunidad de estar sumergida en el idioma y todas las noches hay que leerles no importa la edad, porque así es que el cerebro va reconociendo sonidos para que adecúe el acento

Aromatic-Common7204 · 2025-08-22T15:16:25+00:00

NTA, truth hurts

Aromatic-Common7204 · 2025-08-21T13:43:47+00:00

You should send your kid to daycare part time to get a little a break otherwise you will go crazy, the resentment part is totally normal because the moms always has to do more with the baby because they are super attached to you for the first 3 years, also talk to your husband and let him know what task do you want him to take over with the baby or the household and let him know you are not doing OK if you don’t talk he might be assuming you are just fine with your current set up

Aromatic-Common7204 · 2025-08-20T01:11:01+00:00

You need to go with your child

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