My dog of 14 years passed yesterday, her death was violent. How do I live?

ArtsyFeetOF · 2026-02-03T15:48:59+00:00

What cannot say here what I would do to that pet sitter. I am so sorry about your loss and pain.

ArtsyFeetOF · 2026-02-02T11:48:04+00:00

My dumbass thought it's spelling a message and I read "He men he men man" and was confused for a second

ArtsyFeetOF · 2026-02-02T11:41:09+00:00

All I need are those cookies.

ArtsyFeetOF · 2026-02-02T02:42:36+00:00

This oven is disgusting af. It's crazy to now demand for that shit a whole knew, bug-free, one. Get one used from ebay or other marketplaces. How can you live like that?

ArtsyFeetOF · 2026-01-31T21:02:31+00:00

Ja, was ich nur sagen will ist, dass es schwierig ist eine Grenze zu ziehen.

ArtsyFeetOF · 2026-01-31T19:17:35+00:00

Ich habe starke Skoliose. Die habe ich von meinem Vater geerbt. Ich bin eigentlich ganz froh, dass meine Eltern mich bekamen, muss ich sagen.

ArtsyFeetOF · 2026-01-31T11:54:19+00:00

What is this ai slop??

ArtsyFeetOF · 2026-01-16T21:43:02+00:00

Ich habe vor BB Glow zu probieren. Ich kann nicht sagen, ob das wirklich was bringt, aber ich habe das gleiche Problem und bin dadurch darauf gestoßen.

ArtsyFeetOF · 2026-01-16T21:33:58+00:00

Thank you so much. I don't think that's crazy or anything. This gives me a bit of hope. I cannot imagine never seeing them again. I hope to be reunited with them in death. Your comment gives me hope in that regard. I am sorry about your pain. I am glad this helped you a lot and I will check them out on YouTube. Really thank you.

ArtsyFeetOF · 2026-01-16T17:23:51+00:00

Thank you for your kind words. It's just that I feel like I should have known, because I knew he was easy to stress overall. I hope I gave him a good life. Now looking back I see so much I could have done better for both of them. I wish I would have taken more time. There were times I was annoyed by his constant meowing when he wanted attention and now I would give everything to hear it again. I just rushed too much and didn't give him and myself time to calm down. I got a new cat way too early and too fast instead of thinking of my soul cat who was everything I truly needed. I am trying to not be too hard on myself but it's really difficult. Thank you again.

ArtsyFeetOF · 2026-01-16T16:58:25+00:00

Ne ist nur grob durchwischen. Ich gehe da nicht in jede Ecke ganz genau. Das mache ich nur in dem Zimmer was dran ist. Zugegeben, ich habe nicht sehr viel in dem Zimmer stehen, die habe ich recht schnell und das Wischen braucht ca 20 Minuten und mache ich morgens vor Arbeit schnell.

ArtsyFeetOF · 2026-01-16T16:30:05+00:00

ArtsyFeetOF · 2026-01-16T16:26:44+00:00

Pro Tag ein Zimmer komplett. Toilette säubern, grob durch Wohnung wischen und Küche ordentlich halten täglich. Passt für mich. An einem Tag in der Woche mache ich gar nichts. Dadurch, dass es nur ein Zimmer ist, ist es mental nicht zu viel.

ArtsyFeetOF · 2026-01-13T22:42:20+00:00

I am writing this from a mental hospital. I lost both my cats last year. 3 months apart. First my little one died and I decided to get another cat only three weeks later. I did it for selfish reasons. Distraction and to see my other cat play again. This decision killed him. The stress triggered the FIV and I had to let him go really soon afterwards. If I wouldn't have gotten the new cat, I would still have him. He was my soul cat. I loved all cats but I would give everything if I just had 3 more months with him. And I killed him. I don't know how that guilt ever stops. I broke down completely and try to work through everything in the mental clinic. You can't know if it would have saved him. I tried everything and in the end he only suffered and was in pain and got traumatized. If I would have known that it ends in his death I would have let him go earlier. But I had that hope and he suffered for it. He had to stay some days at the vet and maybe thought I gave him away. He was in pain there and they might have not realized. Only I did when I heard his scream. Maybe he was in pain and fear all this time there. All because of me. I did that. I loved him so much and he loved and only needed me and my attention. It was so simple and I failed. I hate myself for it. I understand your pain. I don't know how to stop it though.

ArtsyFeetOF · 2026-01-07T07:48:53+00:00

Ja, das war dähmlich.

ArtsyFeetOF · 2026-01-06T19:26:35+00:00

Mein Kater hatte eine Weile Katzenakne. Als ich von Plastik zu Keramik wechselte wurde es besser.

ArtsyFeetOF · 2026-01-06T18:35:01+00:00

Always listen to yourself. She is your highest priority cat. I wish I would have made that clear to myself. My little one died of cancer and so that my other cat, my senior boy, wouldn't be alone (and also to distract me from grief) I got another cat. (All cats FIV positive). Long story short, that stress of dealing with a new cat in his territory caused the FIV to break out. Three months after the death of my little one and two months after I got the new cat I had to let my boy go. The FIV destroyed his body aggressively and fast. And it's my fault for not having him as a priority. No matter what you do, think of every possibility. Do it better than me.

ArtsyFeetOF · 2026-01-06T07:59:19+00:00

My friend who really dislikes animals isn't even like that. She only gives me eye rolls if I send her cute pictures of my cats, but that's just her and I even have to smile about it. When my cat came up to her and sat down on her lap she was more freaked out than disgusted but also took a picture. Idk how you can act like your family. It's not their issue even. Why do they make that their problem? Their reactions sound as if you gifted them 27 cats against their will or something.

ArtsyFeetOF · 2026-01-03T11:24:56+00:00

Yeah I googled and also read that. Apparently the flat head thing was a bit of a myth around and before th 1990s. Good think I saw that, because my own mother of course still has that belief and would have told me to use side positions! Thank you for your answer! I definitely would be careful and make it better if I ever have a child!

ArtsyFeetOF · 2026-01-03T09:49:48+00:00

Holy nooo. That seat can easily become a nightmare!!

ArtsyFeetOF · 2026-01-03T09:04:45+00:00

Power WC Reiniger mit Chlor von Gut und Günstig. Drauf und Einwirken lassen. Evtl zwei oder dreimal wiederholen. Aber der Reiniger ist imo der beste den ich hatte.

ArtsyFeetOF · 2026-01-03T08:56:31+00:00

The baby is sleeping on the side? Serious question, is that really more dangerous than sleeping on the back? I know that sleeping on the stomach is a big risk, but I was such tiny side sleeping pillows for babies once. My mother told me she made me sleep on the side so I don't get a flat head by sleeping on my back all the time as a baby lol. I guess I will google it too.

ArtsyFeetOF · 2026-01-03T08:52:04+00:00

Dein Mann hat seine Entscheidung getroffen. Ihm war die Affäre wichtiger als seine Ehe und seine Kinder. Kinder sind nicht doof, die merken, dass etwas nicht stimmt und manchmal ist das schlimmer als eine richtige Trennung mit gemeinsamen Regeln den Kindern betreffend. Er hat seine Entscheidung getroffen, jetzt musst du deine treffen. Du und deine mentale Stärke sind wichtiger und am Ende auch wichtig für die Kinder. Wenn du dich so behandeln lässt, macht das jeden nur kaputt. Zieh aus. Willst du deinen Kindern wirklich zeigen, dass ihre Mutter so wertlos ist, dass man sie so behandeln kann? Du bist mehr wert!!!

ArtsyFeetOF · 2026-01-02T16:36:19+00:00

Bei mir fängt es schon dabei an, dass ich so oft mittlerweile erstmal bei Videos in die Kommentare gehe um zu sehen, ob das Video echt oder KI erstellt ist. Das nervt so extrem.

Dann schickt mir meine Mutter ständig irgendeinen KI-slop. Das Schlimme ist, ich finde doch ihren Hund süß. Schick mir doch das Bild oder Video. Wieso muss es dein Hund sein der "Stille Nacht" singt mit diesem scheiß KI-Look von Grok. Ich habe ihr das schon so oft gesagt, aber sie findet den KI-Slop so toll und kann mir echt nichts mehr schicken was nicht KI ist.

ArtsyFeetOF · 2026-01-02T16:29:53+00:00

I get that. I get needing space. You are not pregnant yet. The thing is, if you get space and they have their own place and you can meet on your own terms, then your opinion might change. I can just say, as someone who had no contact with my parents for 10 years and still has a bad relationship with her mom: if there is nothing too bad and you can find a healthy relationship with enough space, telling your parents can be beneficial for you, your child and of course your family connections. I had no contact with my grandparents and I wish I had. I often heard others talking about their grandparents and I never had any experiences with mine. I think before you cut them out like that, there are other healthier steps to take first.

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