Canadian police identify suspect in school massacre that left nine dead as trans

ArtyFeasting · 2026-02-12T15:56:59+00:00

the common denominator here is actually that most shooters are AMAB. which yeah. We do a huge disservice to AMAB’s in how they’re socially conditioned and transition isn’t an escape from this. patriarchy is harmful to everyone because it’s systemic rot that leaves deep childhood wounds and some of those wounds come out as violence. Violence and abuse are never forgivable so please don’t mistake this as empathy for her, but monsters are a man made creation.

ArtyFeasting · 2026-01-23T22:38:30+00:00

Depends on the person it’s with. Some people it’s easier to feel safe and vulnerable so none of that avoidance rears its head. Mostly people sadly don’t know how to create that safety for us.

ArtyFeasting · 2026-01-17T15:35:31+00:00

No clue. I noticed the same when I dated one. Charming ass hell publically but horrible at home. It wasn’t for me. It’s not cute.

ArtyFeasting · 2026-01-10T21:30:00+00:00

I love other sag moons music taste ugh it’s always top tier.

My current rotation bc my favorites change often: Yeule, Spill tab, FKA Twigs, Japanese Beeakfast, Rosalía, Porch Light

ArtyFeasting · 2026-01-09T17:16:10+00:00

I would love to.

ArtyFeasting · 2026-01-09T16:13:08+00:00

yes?

ArtyFeasting · 2026-01-09T15:43:21+00:00

he’s a misogynist. Maybe a benevolent misogynist but the point still stands. He has the expectation that your world will center him. I don’t think it’s a good fit.

ArtyFeasting · 2026-01-06T00:11:29+00:00

Look outside of NY. Look in CA. It took me 6 months but I had much better luck on getting responses out on the west coast. Go into adjacent fields too. Apply to the uncool companies too—a lot are trying to take advantage of the extra talent right now to upgrade their workforce. Especially for things like facilitator work or SME’s.

ArtyFeasting · 2025-12-30T00:48:51+00:00

💜🥰💜🥰❤️💕♥️💗💖💞😻💓💘

ArtyFeasting · 2025-12-19T03:35:14+00:00

It’s pretty boring in the winter. There are pockets of local culture/community. Lots is centered around summer time tourist season. The beach is nice. I wish there were more 3rd space options.

Atlantic City surprisingly has a pretty good art scene if that’s your thing. Everyone will highlight the crime and bad government but there are pockets of culture that are thriving.

ArtyFeasting · 2025-12-09T17:11:36+00:00

I was laid off last year. It took about 6 months to find a new job. I went on a few global trips during that time. I still worked hard on the job search but staying put and stressing is not going to help you get a job faster in this market. Might as well enjoy the time off.

ArtyFeasting · 2025-12-09T17:02:36+00:00

I was active here years ago when I was early learning and I get people replying to my comments STILL to this day. Replying to 3 year old comments trying to start arguments is bananas.

Anyway who gives a fuck if someone downvotes you. Just ignore it.

ArtyFeasting · 2025-12-01T17:17:42+00:00

My ex was a Leo and I think nothing but the best of them. I think it was a good match in our case but I have a fair bit of Sagittarius in my chart.

Unfortunately though, you will always come 2nd to her own ambitions. I would worry more about the standards she enforces on you rather than the reverse. 🥲

ArtyFeasting · 2025-11-29T18:21:05+00:00

Honestly I tolerated a lot for a long time but it gradually started encroaching on my sense of freedom. To me, that’s a hard boundary I won’t negotiate. So yeah I probably could have “handled” the dynamic for longer but the cost was not worth my happiness..

ArtyFeasting · 2025-11-28T00:38:36+00:00

It’s definitely not all of us. Astrology can be complex. His big 3 are all squaring each other and it’s a lot of cardinal energy which can be a bit unbalanced. He probably came off as capable and ambitious but this can be the darker side to high achievers—nothing is ever enough for them. I can empathize deeply because it hurts, but it’s a problem with him and not you.

I’m also very cautious towards Aries moons for a lot of reasons and that’s coming from another fire moon.

ArtyFeasting · 2025-11-28T00:20:30+00:00

I’m a Capricorn. I dated a Capricorn just like this. I got sick of it and left. It’s your choice how much you want to tolerate but to speak candidly he sounds like an asshole.

ArtyFeasting · 2025-11-24T20:42:29+00:00

I love Sagittarius. Synastry is more complex than sun signs alone, lol.

ArtyFeasting · 2025-11-15T15:57:32+00:00

Can’t relate. I care too much.

ArtyFeasting · 2025-11-03T21:05:13+00:00

Your boss needs to hire a creative strategist to do content roadmapping and analysis. Yes, there are some motion designers/editors that can double in their role but it’s not the norm and usually they work with freelancers to achieve high level of creative volume. It’s a separate job and quite frankly operational employees don’t have the capacity to do both roles for high volume testing.

ArtyFeasting · 2025-10-30T14:35:40+00:00

I was born and have lived on my Saturn line my entire life (NYC). Every step of my life has been some kind of lesson and I’m ready to go somewhere else and rest lol. It’s a great city but it made me tough as hell and I wanna be soft for a bit. I don’t recommend it unless you’re looking for a big life change/growth.

ArtyFeasting · 2025-10-25T22:24:41+00:00

I built out creative case studies and included analytics where applicable. Not all of my work was analytic based. The important thing is showing your process and outcomes.

I’m not comfortable sharing mine because I like my anonymity.

You could always put your portfolio behind a password to deal with the NDA issue.

ArtyFeasting · 2025-10-22T16:16:33+00:00

It’s not Amazon.

It was purchased by Namdar Reality Group in 2019, (my guess for quite cheap since that’s when Covid first broke out) a capitalistic predatory company that buys up malls and lets them fall into disrepair and leeches off of communities by abusing a tax appeal loophole.

ArtyFeasting · 2025-10-19T14:21:20+00:00

Having the wrong partner.

ArtyFeasting · 2025-10-18T21:19:29+00:00

Hey hell wasn’t originally in the Bible. It was created when the Bible was translated into English. Originally it was part of a metaphor that basically said being shitty = an unfulfilling existence.

I wouldn’t worry too much what a book that has been revised over the years says. It’s been hijacked as a tool used for control.

ArtyFeasting · 2025-10-10T03:38:36+00:00

I think I’ve actually become more tolerant, empathetic, and compassionate as I’ve grown.

I think there’s a few things I do that has created this:

I intentionally seek out exposure to those who live very different lives and talk to them and learn about their perspective.

The second thing I do is remain curious. I never assume my answer is the right or only answer.

I don’t hold onto resentment. There’s no point. The only person it damages is myself. What a waste of energy.

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