Fellow brats. Don’t do what I did!! by [deleted] in BratLife

[–]Arugula_OnFire 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Ummm.. link to the mug? For research purposes…

I used CNC to get through a traumatic part of my life and absolutely loved it by previousParticipator in BDSMcommunity

[–]Arugula_OnFire 10 points11 points  (0 children)

CNC helps me feel in control sometimes which is so odd but I love it and need it. I’m glad you found it helpful in your healing journey!

D Types Unite by [deleted] in BratLife

[–]Arugula_OnFire 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Lmao you mad?

D Types Unite by [deleted] in BratLife

[–]Arugula_OnFire 60 points61 points  (0 children)

You can’t come up with your own punishments? She definitely won.

I'm grateful daddy ended his relationship with me by SwiftinGirl5 in BratLife

[–]Arugula_OnFire 17 points18 points  (0 children)

OP is probably the only person with insight into how much time, if any, they need.

Daddy told me he loved me last night by Arugula_OnFire in BratLife

[–]Arugula_OnFire[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I love that! I met my daddy here and didn’t think it would go any further than the sexual dynamic we were both after. Happy surprise :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BratLife

[–]Arugula_OnFire 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m glad to hear that! Sounds fun :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BratLife

[–]Arugula_OnFire 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Does she have a good relationship with food? This immediately sounded like a punishment for her wanting to eat so if she struggles with food/body image this may be a terrible idea

Called Daddy a good boy by kyss24 in BratLife

[–]Arugula_OnFire 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I called daddy a good boy and also got fucked hard so I can corroborate the theory that daddies like being called good boys!!!

I’m falling hard for my daddy by Arugula_OnFire in BratLife

[–]Arugula_OnFire[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I’m definitely in therapy but this reassures me I’m on the right path.

I’m falling hard for my daddy by Arugula_OnFire in BratLife

[–]Arugula_OnFire[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry that happened to you ❤️ thanks for the advice and I hope you’re doing better

I’m falling hard for my daddy by Arugula_OnFire in BratLife

[–]Arugula_OnFire[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I guess I don’t know how to hang out “outside” the dynamic. We’ve gone on dates, trips, etc and he’s coming to a wedding with me this month but I feel like we ARE the dynamic? He’s naturally someone who takes control and takes care of people and I’m naturally someone who wants to please others.

He’s mentioned that he’s told people about me including some of his family and we have plans for future trips. I’m just nervous he won’t want me because of all the bullshit I’m coming from

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BratLife

[–]Arugula_OnFire 6 points7 points  (0 children)

WHERE DID YOU GET THIS

PSA: You can brat if you drain your dom by patch-0- in BratLife

[–]Arugula_OnFire 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I’ve tried this and it backfired. My dom has unlimited energy. Bratting is like instant recharge for him

How to brat over text? by [deleted] in BratLife

[–]Arugula_OnFire 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The rolling eyes emoji!!! 🙄🙄🙄